Why do girls dig guys that are out of shape????

[SteelPreacher]

This has kind of been an on going discussion with a buddy of mine. A lot of girls tell me they prefer stuff like luv handles and such. Don't get me wrong; I train for me but when you spend hours-Days-Years building and perfecting your body it's nice to get appreciation. I figure thats why many people post pictures up on here. We are all into it so theres a lot of luv for each other. When you go out to meet girls/guys do the rest of you have trouble finding people that don't think your fucked up because you eat every 3 hours or because your on a double split routine etc. Just curious all opinions welcomed.



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[saint808]

it's a confidence thing... i know for me i started working out because of low self esteem... in a lot of ways i still have a big problem with my self esteem... i'd say a lot of people are like that.


Rich

 

[TAURUS1977]

I THINK THE REASON GIRLS DIG GUYS THAT ARE OUT OF SHAPE IS BECAUSE THEY ARE THE ONES WITH ALL THE MONEY. WE SPEND ALL ARE MONEY ON FOOD, GEAR, AND THINGS THAT MAKE US LOOK BETTER.

 

[Slyder190]

I know what you mean.

I know what you're sayin. It's frustrating sometimes. You look at these out of shape tools with hot girls and think WTF?. All in all, we all do this for ourselves (lifting and eating right), but it's nice to collect on the benefits. There's a lot to be said for game and personality though. Nice bodies don't mean shit if the personality isn't there. One of my best friends is a skinny as motherfucker and not a bad looking guy. Anyway, he gets more ass than anyone I've ever met. It's stranger seeing a hot girl with a fat dude than a skinny dude though. As long as we take pride in ourselves and put in the hard work everyday for ourselves, that all that matters. But it's still nice gettin looks and compliments though. It feeds the fire of motivation and dedication to keep trying to bring it to the next level. Peace.

 

[serge]

guys that are out of shape make girls look much better when they stand next to them, guy out of shape dont have to go on so they tend to have better personality (not conceded, not expect as much from girls) in other words they are just happy getting any ass and dont look for perfections, and the whole "scensetive guy" some girl find that attractive too. #1 REASON: GIRLS ARE FULL OF SHIT, AND LIE THAT THEY ARE NOT ATTRACTED TO BODYBUILDERS, JUST LIKE US GUYZ WILL SAY WE WONT WANT TO BANG A PORN STAR WITH SILICONE TITS (JENNA JAMESON)......

 

[wrj]

I'd have to agree with just about everything everyone said

The fact of the matter is the good lookin, intelligent women out there prefer a guy that is in touch with their needs. Guys such as yourselves tend be more conceided and tend to give themselves more attention than their girlfriends and women know this. I really don't think women are stupid, they actually have the upper hand cause the rich fat boy won't cheat and doesn't spend two hours a day in the gym, he'll (the rich fatboy) go out and do things with her or for her with his time in stead of being so self involved.
I have experience in this matter myself. A few years back when I was heavier and less self conscious about my looks I was more successful in attracting the right type of women. The good girls. Now I go to the bar and have no problem gettin in bed with a slut but is that what I want, no. Well maybe sometimes One of these days I'll meet a fitness chick and live happily ever after.

WRJ

 

[SteelPreacher]

Yeah Jenna is real hot but I wouldn't touch her. I wouldn't touch any girl thats had that much action. You could probably stick a bowling ball up in there and she be askin for more. We (BB's) look great and most of us don't have too many diseases at least I know I'm clean, and even though some have self esteem issues most guys and girls I know who are in the gym every day have great personalities. Maybe we are just a small population and the fatt fuks are the lrge population. Ha!

 

[Chuck T]

I think girls see a good looking/jacked guy and figure he could have anyone he wanted. They dont want to be dicked over by him for some other girl so they go for a guy they think is more stable for a reltionship. If anyone can figure out women please Email me!!!

 

[rperry]

ive found a formula to get any girl.

1)be confident, very confident
2)dont be too nice, just a little to keep em there
3)if they cant ever take you for granted they wont get board with you and leave you
4)let her know shes important but not the most important thing in the world!!

all i do is this and it pulls many girls, im not a rich boy cause im still in college but they are impressed with my major -finance and economics-

dont got money now but i will!!!

 

[Tha One CrumCake]

I dunno bro,,, it's seriously weird. You sometimes see the flyest girl, with some doofus.

BUT THEN AGAIN...
(i ain't gay or anything) , But man guys... i see a lotta good lookin well built guys with some fat cows, so it goes both ways.