Why do girls dig guys that are out of shape????

[Mighty P]

NE1 else have this problem? Girls think you're gay because you look good. That has to be the weirdest. I have more guys hit on me in the gym than girls. NO, I don't dress fruity or anything. Tshirt and shorts, but because I'm clean cut and built they think I'm gay. I've also noticed a lot of my chick friends saying oh he's hot, he must be gay????? SOOOO fucking weird.

 

[mlomker]

go out and do things with her or for her with his time in stead of being so self involved.

Bingo. I know a number of women that won't date ANY guy that considers the gym, weightlifting, or fitness as a hobby. There seems to be an underlying assumption that guys into muscles don't have brains and/or are self-obsessed. It's a stereotype, plain and simple.

 

[rperry]

this semester i work at a tanningsalon and many of the chicks say hes hot but i heard hes gay. im also very clean cut but this is fucked up. i do get many girls talking to me cause they think im gay but then i fill them in and they are psyched and ready to hook up! not so bad after all, just at tip: when you go for an interview for job or other let your arm hair grow back! dont want a perspective boss thinking your gay!

 

[mlomker]

NE1 else have this problem? Girls think you're gay because you look good.

I've been hit on a few times at the club, by both women and men. I'm into monogomy so it doesn't really matter to me...I take it as a compliment and move on.

 

[roidog420]

NE1 else have this problem? Girls think you're gay because you look good. That has to be the weirdest. I have more guys hit on me in the gym than girls. NO, I don't dress fruity or anything. Tshirt and shorts, but because I'm clean cut and built they think I'm gay. I've also noticed a lot of my chick friends saying oh he's hot, he must be gay????? SOOOO fucking weird.

I get that all the time too bro. Girls especially will say that your gay if your good-looking & jacked, if you aren't hitting on them. Kind of like an excuse for them considering that every fucking guy since they were 12 has been trying to fuck them, so they figure that you must be "different" since your not tryin to. At the gym I used to get that alot because I just want to workout & get the fuck out of there. I dont talk to, or try to hit on ANY girl while Im there. Now if a girl were to approach me, that would be different as I would think that she only wants fucked & I wont have to waste precious gym time trying to talk my way into her pants.

 

[Digital Ricky]

I think most chicks can almost smell the fear off of you. Like said before it's all about confidence. And the fatter less better looking guy usually picks up the chicks. Why? I don't know, but it always seems to blow my mind. I am quite shy person, and chicks take that as being stuck up. But I usually make it a point to go hit on a chick with a fat dude (after having a couple of course) it's just one of those questions that can never be answered.....later

 

[rperry]

do you guys realy pay that much attention to fat guys.

did you say girls thought you were gay, this may be the source of teh problem

 

[JA_RULE]

BUT THEN AGAIN...
(i ain't gay or anything) , But man guys... i see a lotta good lookin well built guys with some fat cows, so it goes both ways

That's a good point. A lot of well built guys at my school seem to have a "No Pride Night" every Friday and Saturday. Or if they've went up and hit on the same girl the last two weekends before and don't remember talking to her or her name (that one happens to me). Most girls will pick up on that type of thing.

But mainly I think you guys are reading way to much into it. If you were the fat rich guy, you'd be saying "Why the fuck do all the girls go for the big stupid juicehead".

JA

 

[JuicyGirl]

it's all about how you use your penis

 

[Citruscide]

It's all about the benjamans...

No sense trying to act differently, if you have to ask advice on how to get chicks, you need to do a major gut check.

I have seen women that don't like "big" guys... and by big I mean muscle... they like skinny "backstreet boys" type.. now THAT dumbfounds me.

C