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naturally anabolic
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hey jen, long time no see
why do dudes think insulting chicks is going to turn them on?
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i'm sorry but that's a load of poo. no woman will admit they want to be treated like shit. admitting it would be showing weakness or a flaw if you will. but he's right. you do it. damn near all of you fall for it. deny it if you will cuz you want to sound strong or something, but i bet my camel there have been times you've bent over backwards for some shit-heel and been treated poorly regardless.jennifer said:
your friend,
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naturally anabolic said:
whats up hottie?
Maybe if you all would stop going after stuck up whores, you would find that REAL women like to be treated with respect.......But no, you keep going after the same types of women
Big4life........yes, its all about maturity, and going after a girl for her personality, and not just her looks...
I have dating assholes in the past (a couple of years ago) but the last couple of guys including my 2 1/2 year relationship have been with awesome guys that treat me with mucho respect. If a guy is even slighty disrespectful to me, or anyone for that matter, its a major turn off
naturally anabolic said:
Copy and paste Nat ana.........nothing like the truth.
jen, I hear what you're saying, and it's true, but once again, most women.......are immature, and act just like men, interested in physical assets FIRST....then they find out they have a mirror image of themselves, somebody who only is interested physical assets..and tires of them quickly.
jennifer said:
What attracted you to the assholes you dated? I'd wage a bet that the same thing that the majority of women are attracted to....difference is, you have the sense to realize it, most do not...therefore, the abuse continues......
the only people who can make immature men act right, are the women. Obviously men won't do it themselves, but if women would change their approach, or their MO towards these assholes, then you would see men change.
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gymnpoppa said:
I started dating really young...age 13 (if you call that dating)
Anyhow, the first guy to pay attention to me, I started to like (yes, I was really young and immature)
Well, he was a complete asshole, seriously. I knew he was, but I still loved being around him, and loved it when he called. I didn't "choose" the asshole, he choose me, and I didn't have any other guys chasing me at the age of 13, so I stayed around.
Then the next guy I dated (age 15) was a little better then the last guy, so I thought he was a good guy....but yet again, he was a complete asshole, and if I met him now wouldn't give him the time of day....
With each guy, it got a little better, but they were all trash.....but I didn't know any better!!
Until I met an awesome guy when I was 18. He treated me like gold, and actually CARED what I had to say!! imagine that! But, I was turned off from it at first, because I was so use to the assholes. But the longer I dated him, the more I loved how I was treated, and after him, I was hooked on sweet respectful guys. I dated him for a year....Then about a year later, I met my ex that I dated for 2 1/2 years, and he was/is such a sweetheart.
So that's the summery of why I dated assholes, and why I won't now
Gentlemen are who they are...
You don't have to say rude comments or try to impress...
People who do that are insecure about what might come out of their mouth if they actually knew themselves....
When you learn to be yourself, no one can take that...
and you will be respected for it...
You don't have to say rude comments or try to impress...
People who do that are insecure about what might come out of their mouth if they actually knew themselves....
When you learn to be yourself, no one can take that...
and you will be respected for it...
vinylgroover
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Jen,
If they were such sweethearts and gentlemen, why are they both ex's? Obviously something was missing, maybe the asshole factor.
Let's get something straight. Women love drama in their lives. Don't know why, but it's a fact. A sweet, sensitive, respectful guy is great, but he won't offer a woman what she fundamentally needs to exist, which is drama and conflict in her life.
With drama and conflict comes attention, and women love attention, hence their magnetism towards assholes.
If they were such sweethearts and gentlemen, why are they both ex's? Obviously something was missing, maybe the asshole factor.
Let's get something straight. Women love drama in their lives. Don't know why, but it's a fact. A sweet, sensitive, respectful guy is great, but he won't offer a woman what she fundamentally needs to exist, which is drama and conflict in her life.
With drama and conflict comes attention, and women love attention, hence their magnetism towards assholes.
