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why do dudes think insulting chicks is going to turn them on?

smallmovesal

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seriously, i see it time and time again on here... if you like a woman, then romance her. don't insult her and then pm her and tell her she's hot... it's not going to get us all hot and bothered.

anyone else notice that?
 
smallmovesal said:
seriously, i see it time and time again on here... if you like a woman, then romance her. don't insult her and then pm her and tell her she's hot... it's not going to get us all hot and bothered.

anyone else notice that?
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NO!!!!!!

That would never go on around here.:rolleyes:


It's called maturity.

Hopefully they will grow into it.:)
 
Re: Re: why do dudes think insulting chicks is going to turn them on?

Freak Show said:
because it just does you stupid whore! Now gimme some sugar.
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is it getting hot in here? *fans herself*

oooh give it to me baby...
 
it has to do with my theory of "asshole guys vs the nice guy" i have a paper i wrote on it in college for sociology. got me a perfect score and rave comments from the professor, if you want to read it i will type it up for ya.
 
naturally anabolic said:
it has to do with my theory of "asshole guys vs the nice guy" i have a paper i wrote on it in college for sociology. got me a perfect score and rave comments from the professor, if you want to read it i will type it up for ya.
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Do it. How are you feeling today btw? Are you considering any plans to do something else for a living.



Back to the topic, pimps have done that for decades, and it seems to work. You just have to find the right type & the right scenario for it to work.
 
Everything I know about women I learned from hardcore, European porno movies.

AS
 
nordstrom said:


Do it. How are you feeling today btw? Are you considering any plans to do something else for a living.



Back to the topic, pimps have done that for decades, and it seems to work. You just have to find the right type & the right scenario for it to work.
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Nord, i will be seeing them in court before i continue looking for new employment.
 
are you kidding smalls?

I love it when a guy dosn't look at me when I'm talking and tells me to shut the fuck up.....

I hate it when guys ask how my day was, and open doors for me.....

Get a clue guys! and treat us like crap, we will come running to ya.....



(for the love of god, guys don't have a clue, at least most don't if they really think most women like to be dissed)
 
jennifer said:



(for the love of god, guys don't have a clue, at least most don't if they really think most women like to be dissed)
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i'm sorry but that's a load of poo. no woman will admit they want to be treated like shit. admitting it would be showing weakness or a flaw if you will. but he's right. you do it. damn near all of you fall for it. deny it if you will cuz you want to sound strong or something, but i bet my camel there have been times you've bent over backwards for some shit-heel and been treated poorly regardless.

your friend,
Osama_B_L
 
jennifer said:

(for the love of god, guys don't have a clue, at least most don't if they really think most women like to be dissed)
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Hey, I had a clue.:angel::D


But, like I said, it will come with maturity, hopefully.:)
 
naturally anabolic said:
hey jen, long time no see
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whats up hottie?





Maybe if you all would stop going after stuck up whores, you would find that REAL women like to be treated with respect.......But no, you keep going after the same types of women

Big4life........yes, its all about maturity, and going after a girl for her personality, and not just her looks...


I have dating assholes in the past (a couple of years ago) but the last couple of guys including my 2 1/2 year relationship have been with awesome guys that treat me with mucho respect. If a guy is even slighty disrespectful to me, or anyone for that matter, its a major turn off
 
naturally anabolic said:
it has to do with my theory of "asshole guys vs the nice guy" i have a paper i wrote on it in college for sociology. got me a perfect score and rave comments from the professor, if you want to read it i will type it up for ya.
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Copy and paste Nat ana.........nothing like the truth.:D

jen, I hear what you're saying, and it's true, but once again, most women.......are immature, and act just like men, interested in physical assets FIRST....then they find out they have a mirror image of themselves, somebody who only is interested physical assets..and tires of them quickly.
 
jennifer said:



Maybe if you all would stop going after stuck up whores, you would find that REAL women like to be treated with respect.......But no, you keep going after the same types of women

Big4life........yes, its all about maturity, and going after a girl for her personality, and not just her looks...


I have dating assholes in the past (a couple of years ago) but the last couple of guys including my 2 1/2 year relationship have been with awesome guys that treat me with mucho respect. If a guy is even slighty disrespectful to me, or anyone for that matter, its a major turn off
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What attracted you to the assholes you dated? I'd wage a bet that the same thing that the majority of women are attracted to....difference is, you have the sense to realize it, most do not...therefore, the abuse continues......

the only people who can make immature men act right, are the women. Obviously men won't do it themselves, but if women would change their approach, or their MO towards these assholes, then you would see men change.
 
gymnpoppa said:



What attracted you to the assholes you dated? I'd wage a bet that the same thing that the majority of women are attracted to....difference is, you have the sense to realize it, most do not...therefore, the abuse continues......

the only people who can make immature men act right, are the women. Obviously men won't do it themselves, but if women would change their approach, or their MO towards these assholes, then you would see men change.
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I started dating really young...age 13 (if you call that dating)

Anyhow, the first guy to pay attention to me, I started to like (yes, I was really young and immature)

Well, he was a complete asshole, seriously. I knew he was, but I still loved being around him, and loved it when he called. I didn't "choose" the asshole, he choose me, and I didn't have any other guys chasing me at the age of 13, so I stayed around.

Then the next guy I dated (age 15) was a little better then the last guy, so I thought he was a good guy....but yet again, he was a complete asshole, and if I met him now wouldn't give him the time of day....

With each guy, it got a little better, but they were all trash.....but I didn't know any better!!

Until I met an awesome guy when I was 18. He treated me like gold, and actually CARED what I had to say!! imagine that! But, I was turned off from it at first, because I was so use to the assholes. But the longer I dated him, the more I loved how I was treated, and after him, I was hooked on sweet respectful guys. I dated him for a year....Then about a year later, I met my ex that I dated for 2 1/2 years, and he was/is such a sweetheart.

So that's the summery of why I dated assholes, and why I won't now
 
Gentlemen are who they are...
You don't have to say rude comments or try to impress...
People who do that are insecure about what might come out of their mouth if they actually knew themselves....
When you learn to be yourself, no one can take that...
and you will be respected for it...
 
Jen,

If they were such sweethearts and gentlemen, why are they both ex's? Obviously something was missing, maybe the asshole factor.

Let's get something straight. Women love drama in their lives. Don't know why, but it's a fact. A sweet, sensitive, respectful guy is great, but he won't offer a woman what she fundamentally needs to exist, which is drama and conflict in her life.

With drama and conflict comes attention, and women love attention, hence their magnetism towards assholes.
 
vinylgroover said:
Jen,

If they were such sweethearts and gentlemen, why are they both ex's? Obviously something was missing, maybe the asshole factor.

Let's get something straight. Women love drama in their lives. Don't know why, but it's a fact. A sweet, sensitive, respectful guy is great, but he won't offer a woman what she fundamentally needs to exist, which is drama and conflict in her life.

With drama and conflict comes attention, and women love attention, hence their magnetism towards assholes.
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Each guy become my "ex" for a different reason.........all the assholes are gone as well as the nice guys that I dated

I wasn't in love with any of them and thats the main reason
 
Jen,

Sorry, i meant it as a rhetorical question, i wasn't looking for an answer because it's none of my business.

But do you agree with the rest of my argument? I have not gone out with a girl yet who hasn't looked for attention through conflict and drama, which is why they are attracted to assholes in the first place.
 
I think he proves his point...
When someone makes a negative remark, it gets answered..
When someone writes something nice or real..
It gets left alone with no replys...
I'm going to bed on that note.....
I'll still continue to be "Olde Skool"...
:D
 
naturally anabolic said:
it has to do with my theory of "asshole guys vs the nice guy" i have a paper i wrote on it in college for sociology. got me a perfect score and rave comments from the professor, if you want to read it i will type it up for ya.
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i wanna read it. be interesting to see how you pass it off.
 
SMALLS
YOUR SO IGNORANT. WHAT ARE YOU DOING WITH THOSE THREE BRAIN CELLS YOU HAVE UP THERE???



BTW....CHECK YOUR PM



KAYNE
 
Oke first:

assclown!
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O shit that is funny. Never heard that expression before! Smalls your hilarious. :D Sexy back too! Meeouw. ;)

I think i may have a different view point of this then other women who have posted.

There IS some truth in what the men are saying. I have seen that straight women sometimes do seem to go with men who treat them badly. But i think it is a matter of poor self esteem in these woman who do this. They feel they should have no better treatment then this.

However, women with better feelings about themselves will soon tell you how you can bloody well fuck off if you treat them "like shit". I think we see a lot of couples where the women get treated badly and stay because the men and women who want this sort of relationship look for each other.

This same sort of thing happens with lesbians too. Not so much as with hetero couples but it does happen.
 
I dated assholes for years before I met my husband. He is everything they were not (nice, caring, kind, considerate, as well as being MAJORLY hot :p ). There were various reasons I dated assholes.

Firstly, for reasons I don't want to go into involving family situation and the way others (won't say "friends") treated me all ym life it never occurred to me that being trated like shit was in any way abnormal. I had never had anyone in my life - family, acquaintances, classmates - other than my gran - who did NOT treat me like absolute shit most of the time. I thought being manipulated, emotionally abused, screamed at, and expected to spend all my time ministering to other people (because they mattered and I did not) was normal and that I was a bad person. Heck, everyone kept telling me I was, that was all I heard until I was around 15.

So when assholes treated me like shit, I didn't realise that I shouldn't have to put up with this kind of thing. I had the lowest self esteem you could imagine and didn't realise I was reasonably hot and could date lots of guys if I wanted. I felt that if someone was interested, I had to go out with them, and do everything they said, and if I didn't like that, I was a bad person.

Eventually I had a nervous breakdown and ended up in hospital due to one asshole I was dating being such an utter dickhead to me and constantly getting into arguments with me and putting me down because he didn't like what I had said/done/tone of voice/something I was wearing/I disagreed with him etc etc around 10 times a day. And I started to recover some self-esteem, or develop some, I ditched the guy and vowed I would NEVER date another asshole.

And I never did. Bottom line, a lot of women learn at home from their familes that they aren't worth shit, so they take all the crap that is dished out. There are plenty of nice guys going out with absolute bitches as well, works both ways.

circusgirl
 
Most women, and they wont admit it deep down inside want or for a lack of better words are “used” to guys treating them badly. Many women grew up and were abused verbally/physically by younger or older brothers, their father or uncles or other male relatives or ex boyfriends and husbands… they are used to it and this is ALL they know..these same type of girls now in their current stage of life crave the attention they were not given when they were younger..many of them find their need tended to here on the internet where they can be anyone they like and send naked pics to every tom dick and harry, and jane that they meet..……….as soon as these females meet a guy who treats them nice it bugs them out and they start questioning WHY the guy is being nice and thinks there is some alterior motive…and they make the relationship go down hill….for the most part the nice guy DOES finish last with women, especially when dealing with these abuse cases with issues………………there are “normal” girls out there that not only command respect but have been given that respect all of their lives…these women are not into drama and the 2nd it starts they are out…I’ve dated both types of these women and the “normal” ones are like night and day compared to the ones with “issues” much more stronger of a woman and sure of herself and the relationship goes MUCH more smoothly.

If any females argue or start hating on me..I guess they are the ones with the issues I described above….a “normal” girl who has been and will always be treated right will agree with me and other than saying they agree, have no other reason to reply to me with a rebuttal.
 
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It's not the asshole factor that women are attracted to but the fact that most assholes are exciting and fun to be with in certain situations while the "respectful/caring" guy is seen more as boring and not as controversial.

Once the woman gets older and realizes that they can do better and that's not what they want they decide to settle down with someone who respects them for who they are and the guys who were once assholes also grow up and begin to learn how to treat women properly.
 
naturally anabolic - you wrote a college report on this topic? lol no shit...bro id LOVE to read that...


I did my thesis on OCD....
 
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