why did you cheat on your gf/bf???

[deco]

let the dirty truth come out

 

[H_T_]

because when opportunity knocks........but atleast i'm not like a woman where they will lie and scam and plot for months before doing it.

 

[StickFigure]

never have

 

[puddlemonkey]

I don't cheat if I have a g/f, but I have no troubles seeing a girl who has a b/f. Most of my relationships are that way, I think I look for those actually. I like the challenge. I like the fact I know she's a liar and I wont get attached to her because of that. I like the fact that it usually only lasts about 3-5 months on average and the first 3-5 months are always the best anyway. I like always having an "out". If she wants to get more serious, I tell her I can't trust her and break it off. If I get bored with her, I tell her I'm feeling guilty about what we're doing and break it off.

I know, I'm a horrible person and I'm going to hell blah blah blah

 

[deco]

I don't cheat if I have a g/f, but I have no troubles seeing a girl who has a b/f. Most of my relationships are that way, I think I look for those actually. I like the challenge. I like the fact I know she's a liar and I wont get attached to her because of that. I like the fact that it usually only lasts about 3-5 months on average and the first 3-5 months are always the best anyway. I like always having an "out". If she wants to get more serious, I tell her I can't trust her and break it off. If I get bored with her, I tell her I'm feeling guilty about what we're doing and break it off.

I know, I'm a horrible person and I'm going to hell blah blah blah

why do they do it?

 

[RottenWillow]

I wasnt yet truly committed to the relationship. I stop my cheating when he starting talking about engagement. I'm allowed the occasional girl on the side though.

 

[Wulfgar]

I don't cheat if I have a g/f, but I have no troubles seeing a girl who has a b/f. Most of my relationships are that way, I think I look for those actually. I like the challenge. I like the fact I know she's a liar and I wont get attached to her because of that. I like the fact that it usually only lasts about 3-5 months on average and the first 3-5 months are always the best anyway. I like always having an "out". If she wants to get more serious, I tell her I can't trust her and break it off. If I get bored with her, I tell her I'm feeling guilty about what we're doing and break it off.

I know, I'm a horrible person and I'm going to hell blah blah blah

so your the guy!!!













j/k bro...it ALWAYS takes 2...pisses me off when guys get pissed at the other guy for boning thier old lady...i get pissed @ both the motherfuckers

 

[mustang_00]

never cheated, but i've been cheated on once. I don't see the point in doing that... you work so long and hard at something just to risk pissing it away for a quick fuck!?!?! doesn't sound like a wise choice to me.

 

[puddlemonkey]

why do they do it?

Why do women cheat? Wow, there are many reasons. Attention, excitement, etc. The reasons will vary, but more of them do it than you think. I've had my share of women who everyone thought were sooooo sweet and sooooo innocent, girls that had everyone fooled into believing they were the perfect little fiancee or girlfriend. Don't care to admit it, but I've dated a couple married women too. My first relationship 10+ years ago was with a married woman. And yes, its skewed how I view women. I dated this girl for a couple months before finding out she was married. And not serparated married, she was married married.

Currently I'm seeing 3 girls. The newest one has a boyfriend who is on a business trip in Montana right now. Been with her for about a week, when he comes back we will probably be done as they have a kid and the b/f is around too much. She has the kid spend time with grandma when I come over for the time being. I know her through a friend who is a stripper (dated her for 6 months). Second one is a stripper (I like strippers, definitely no chance I'd get attached) who doesn't have a b/f, at least not that she's admitted to me. Been with her for about a month and a half, but she's gotta go soon because one, I've had my eye on one of her co-workers. And two, she is way too rough in bed. I'm ok with throwing you around a little bit, but when I wake up the next morning and I am so sore I can't get out of bed, not good. The third one I met at a concert. She has a boyfriend, and little time (like me), so we only spend about 1 day a week together.

I target women ages 19-25, I'm 30. Been doing this for about 2 years. My first two relationships were more "long term". Yep, the married one, I was with her for a few years. This sounds bad, but I enjoy manipulating women. Its much harder to mindfuck a woman the older she gets, thats why I target the younger ones. See, women, well people in general, want what they can't or don't have. Its just human nature. Basically I like to place the cards in her hand that I want her to play without her even knowing it. I've asked out 2 girls in my life (the first two I dated), out of approx 30 that now. I make them the aggressor, cause much like men, women like a challenge too. Generally I find that the less attention I give a girl, the more attention she gives me. If a girl has you wrapped around her finger, you are done, you are no longer any fun for her. If she thinks you don't care, she wants you to care. If she thinks she cant control and condition you, she wants to control and condition you. I wouldn't say I treat my women like total shit, but I do treat them pretty bleh. I don't call when I say I'm going to, I rarely compliment them, I cancel at the last minute. The great thing about putting forth such minimal effort is any little tiny thing you do nice for them is HUGE in their mind. I know its bad, but I like to get in their head and play them like a video game.

I hope hell has good food.

 

[Lestat]

puddlemonkey = P I M P

 

[Trojan Horse]

Why do women cheat? Wow, there are many reasons. Attention, excitement, etc. The reasons will vary, but more of them do it than you think. I've had my share of women who everyone thought were sooooo sweet and sooooo innocent, girls that had everyone fooled into believing they were the perfect little fiancee or girlfriend. Don't care to admit it, but I've dated a couple married women too. My first relationship 10+ years ago was with a married woman. And yes, its skewed how I view women. I dated this girl for a couple months before finding out she was married. And not serparated married, she was married married.

Currently I'm seeing 3 girls. The newest one has a boyfriend who is on a business trip in Montana right now. Been with her for about a week, when he comes back we will probably be done as they have a kid and the b/f is around too much. She has the kid spend time with grandma when I come over for the time being. I know her through a friend who is a stripper (dated her for 6 months). Second one is a stripper (I like strippers, definitely no chance I'd get attached) who doesn't have a b/f, at least not that she's admitted to me. Been with her for about a month and a half, but she's gotta go soon because one, I've had my eye on one of her co-workers. And two, she is way too rough in bed. I'm ok with throwing you around a little bit, but when I wake up the next morning and I am so sore I can't get out of bed, not good. The third one I met at a concert. She has a boyfriend, and little time (like me), so we only spend about 1 day a week together.

I target women ages 19-25, I'm 30. Been doing this for about 2 years. My first two relationships were more "long term". Yep, the married one, I was with her for a few years. This sounds bad, but I enjoy manipulating women. Its much harder to mindfuck a woman the older she gets, thats why I target the younger ones. See, women, well people in general, want what they can't or don't have. Its just human nature. Basically I like to place the cards in her hand that I want her to play without her even knowing it. I've asked out 2 girls in my life (the first two I dated), out of approx 30 that now. I make them the aggressor, cause much like men, women like a challenge too. Generally I find that the less attention I give a girl, the more attention she gives me. If a girl has you wrapped around her finger, you are done, you are no longer any fun for her. If she thinks you don't care, she wants you to care. If she thinks she cant control and condition you, she wants to control and condition you. I wouldn't say I treat my women like total shit, but I do treat them pretty bleh. I don't call when I say I'm going to, I rarely compliment them, I cancel at the last minute. The great thing about putting forth such minimal effort is any little tiny thing you do nice for them is HUGE in their mind. I know its bad, but I like to get in their head and play them like a video game.

I hope hell has good food.

I hear ya on that too. BUT, one day there will be a woman that comes along and will play you. You'll probably fall in love with her and she'll do the same things to you that you did to previous women. Women are much slicker when it comes to these types of games. If you're a game player, it's a matter of time until you get played. Be careful.

 

[mustang_00]

Why do women cheat? Wow, there are many reasons. Attention, excitement, etc. The reasons will vary, but more of them do it than you think. I've had my share of women who everyone thought were sooooo sweet and sooooo innocent, girls that had everyone fooled into believing they were the perfect little fiancee or girlfriend. Don't care to admit it, but I've dated a couple married women too. My first relationship 10+ years ago was with a married woman. And yes, its skewed how I view women. I dated this girl for a couple months before finding out she was married. And not serparated married, she was married married.

Currently I'm seeing 3 girls. The newest one has a boyfriend who is on a business trip in Montana right now. Been with her for about a week, when he comes back we will probably be done as they have a kid and the b/f is around too much. She has the kid spend time with grandma when I come over for the time being. I know her through a friend who is a stripper (dated her for 6 months). Second one is a stripper (I like strippers, definitely no chance I'd get attached) who doesn't have a b/f, at least not that she's admitted to me. Been with her for about a month and a half, but she's gotta go soon because one, I've had my eye on one of her co-workers. And two, she is way too rough in bed. I'm ok with throwing you around a little bit, but when I wake up the next morning and I am so sore I can't get out of bed, not good. The third one I met at a concert. She has a boyfriend, and little time (like me), so we only spend about 1 day a week together.

I target women ages 19-25, I'm 30. Been doing this for about 2 years. My first two relationships were more "long term". Yep, the married one, I was with her for a few years. This sounds bad, but I enjoy manipulating women. Its much harder to mindfuck a woman the older she gets, thats why I target the younger ones. See, women, well people in general, want what they can't or don't have. Its just human nature. Basically I like to place the cards in her hand that I want her to play without her even knowing it. I've asked out 2 girls in my life (the first two I dated), out of approx 30 that now. I make them the aggressor, cause much like men, women like a challenge too. Generally I find that the less attention I give a girl, the more attention she gives me. If a girl has you wrapped around her finger, you are done, you are no longer any fun for her. If she thinks you don't care, she wants you to care. If she thinks she cant control and condition you, she wants to control and condition you. I wouldn't say I treat my women like total shit, but I do treat them pretty bleh. I don't call when I say I'm going to, I rarely compliment them, I cancel at the last minute. The great thing about putting forth such minimal effort is any little tiny thing you do nice for them is HUGE in their mind. I know its bad, but I like to get in their head and play them like a video game.

I hope hell has good food.

is this something anyone can learn or do you have to be born with the "asshole" gene? no offense but some guys can be dicks and some can't and when the ones who can't try they usually look stupid...

 

[Spanky11]

as the girl i was with a long time ago refused to give head.

simple.

 

[puddlemonkey]

I hear ya on that too. BUT, one day there will be a woman that comes along and will play you. You'll probably fall in love with her and she'll do the same things to you that you did to previous women. Women are much slicker when it comes to these types of games. If you're a game player, it's a matter of time until you get played. Be careful.

The first one got me, she was the only one I've ever cared about and got hurt by. Got hurt bad. But it will never happen again, I was young and dumb, now I'm too desensitized to love. Women are nothing more than puppets to me. If I find a girl I think I could fall for, I know its not worth the pain, so I pass and move on to the next one.

 

[puddlemonkey]

is this something anyone can learn or do you have to be born with the "asshole" gene? no offense but some guys can be dicks and some can't and when the ones who can't try they usually look stupid...

I think it can be learned over time. Only problem is once you get infected with the love virus you're screwed. You need to feel no attachment to the girl. This is much easier for guys than girls because most women develope an emotional attachment to a guy when things get physical. Having multiple women helps tremendously. If you have 4 girls that you are seeing and one leaves, so what, you still have 3. You invest all your time and effort into one girl and she leaves, well now you're left with nothing. You put all your eggs in one basket and you're more likely to feel you "need" that basket.

 

[deco]

I don't know where you find those girls but I have to say everything about treatment is true. I'm a natural born asshole so it comes easy to me.
On the other hand, personally I never felt the need to cheat as I'm fine with the fact I'm hittin one pussy. However the only time I have ever done it was when I was drunk and the opportunity was right infront of me. I don't wanna spend my time chasing around girls when I already got one, just don't have that urge. In either case, I was wondering others experiences.

 

[KillahBee]

Because I could not think of a better reason not to cheat.

I don't regret any of it. I have cheated on every long-term GF I have ever had, but that was all also when I was under the age of 23. A big reason I don't have a GF now is because I do not think I would not cheat on her, so I only date now.

I don't believe monogamous relationships are natural and/or healthy, so that's that.

 

[manny78]

There's some big Pimpin' goin' on here !

 

[DannoMight]

I haven't

 

[Phenom78]

I don't cheat if I have a g/f, but I have no troubles seeing a girl who has a b/f. Most of my relationships are that way, I think I look for those actually. I like the challenge. I like the fact I know she's a liar and I wont get attached to her because of that. I like the fact that it usually only lasts about 3-5 months on average and the first 3-5 months are always the best anyway. I like always having an "out". If she wants to get more serious, I tell her I can't trust her and break it off. If I get bored with her, I tell her I'm feeling guilty about what we're doing and break it off.

I know, I'm a horrible person and I'm going to hell blah blah blah

LOL

Awesome post

 

[Nathan]

I wasnt yet truly committed to the relationship. I stop my cheating when he starting talking about engagement. I'm allowed the occasional girl on the side though.

Kudos to your boyfriend. That's a secure dude right there.

I've never cheated but I'm also not one to agree to be anyone's boyfriend, mostly because I've dated a lot of girls who had boyfriends, but also because I've seen boyfriend's get played and the look on their faces isn't all that appealing. I say if you want to be single and have fun, then do so. I've never understood the point of calling somebody your gf/bf and then being involved sexually with other people. Always seemed really lonely to me. In conclusion, I have no idea why people cheat but I wouldn't trust the ones who don't know themselves well enough to know what they want for sure.

 

[ponyfitness]

Wow I thought I was the only one with that attitude. Kudos to PM for being man enough to explain it because I think he's right.

I had a long relationship with a woman who was married and was the most innocent little thing you ever saw until she was naked and wanted sex. I NEVER thought I had a shot boning her until she invited me over one day and showed up at the door wearing next to nothing and jumped on me. She never cheated on her husband except to have a 3some with another guy (or so she claimed). I gave her attention and emotional support and she gave me great head. Her husband sucked in bed too and treated her like crap. She's still married to him though. One time I was at a party at their house and she almost fucked me upstairs while her husband and guests were downstairs. Her husband got paranoid after a while so I told her it wasn't worth it.

I try not to get emotionally attached too much but then I've been screwed over many times in the past so that's what messed me up about the whole thing.

 

[newbie210]

I don't cheat if I have a g/f, but I have no troubles seeing a girl who has a b/f. Most of my relationships are that way, I think I look for those actually. I like the challenge. I like the fact I know she's a liar and I wont get attached to her because of that. I like the fact that it usually only lasts about 3-5 months on average and the first 3-5 months are always the best anyway. I like always having an "out". If she wants to get more serious, I tell her I can't trust her and break it off. If I get bored with her, I tell her I'm feeling guilty about what we're doing and break it off.

I know, I'm a horrible person and I'm going to hell blah blah blah

second that, best situation for myself.

 

[mkazzbmf]

Its as simple as upgrading for me. I am struggling right now with not cheating, My GF is the perfect woman for me so I have to buckle down and just NOT do it.....I look at it like drugs and booze.....I am an addict so I just have to stay away to stay clean. But thank god coppin the beege (BJ) isnt cheating otherwise I would be in a bad way.


Kaz

 

[deco]

hmmm interesting stuff. Funny how some of these girls find all this time on the side.

 

[deco]

I think if you're a complete slut for each other in the relationship there should be less problems of cheating. You gotta go past the limits.

In either case, I was wondering what sort of motivations are out there, like I said I dont feel like upgrading at all and sex is amazing so the only thing left is stupid decisions you make when you're drunk.

 

[theoak01]

i was young and my dick took over,do I feel bad? then yes now ,not a chance in hell shes beyond repair

 

[Wulfgar]

I just stick exclusively to gangbangs and date only girls who like multiple cock @ one time. I figure if its cool we are fucking like 15-20 different mammals a week its not cheating..right?

 

[Bikini Mod]

hmmm interesting stuff. Funny how some of these girls find all this time on the side.

Ummmmm one could say the same about men.

Honesty, cheating, fidelity, character, integrity, honor... not gender specific.

I have never cheated on anyone I was committed to. I have been cheated on twice by men that I loved very much and who claimed to love me.

Not that hard to get over being cheated on when compared to all the other fucked up shit one can do to another.

 

[Bikini Mod]

And if I had a dime for every married man that made me all sorts of indecent proposals... sheesh.

 

[deco]

my bed it wasn't gender directed at all actually, simply tryin to say how much freedom some couples have. I usually get busted for every little thing.

 

[Bikini Mod]

my bed it wasn't gender directed at all actually, simply tryin to say how much freedom some couples have. I usually get busted for every little thing.

Your bed... or your bad?!



A couple should give each other total freedom and how could you "get busted" if you weren't doing anything you shouldn't have been doing?