redsamurai said:
so is dakota really a stripper or not? If she is, I might have an answer for her question.........
i am a exotic dancer an
d i only occasionally (like every 6 months to a year) work a nite for some extra cash or else to fill in for dumb bitches that dont show up lol.
as for being a stripper - i love my day job and hope it can make my life as comfortable as i want it to be; but i want someone who isnt a cheat or liar,
i want too damn much !!!
as for being asian - nope im not - im dakotah native
redsamurai said:
the world is ALOT different for women than it is for guys. Your statements are very "assumptuary". Often.......good looking girls no matter how smart they are...........are judged on their looks and not taken seriously. After working in a club and watching hard working girls making 6 figures and sometimes WELL BEYOND.........I'll never fault a girl for that. And it really isn't the "easy" way out bro. Those women give up alot of themselves while they work in that proffession. There's a reason coke and other drugs are so prevelant with them.
Just as I left my old club one of the girls whom I really got along with finally quit too........she was making way more a real estate agent in the Bay area than she was making as a dancer. But the danceing got her through the lean times when she was trying to make a name in the business. I suspect that in light of recent events in the homebuilding business........she may be dancing again, but so what? She's got multiple kids with no father in sight that she's got to take care of.
ur just awesome!!! and i mean that sincerely
we can make some dough and nope its not the easy way out- people just say that cause they cant do something like that. it does take alot to do that job (for some of us)
and some of us make the best of it while we can while others abuse the situatuion.
I say rake the dough in if the guys are giving it; besides we arent going to be hotties forever.
superqt4u2nv said:
I think in the passed she danced but not sure what she does now. Anyway from knowing here on the boards I would not judge her by the fact that she may have worked as a dancer or still does she one of the sweetest people around these parts she deserves a good man.
redsamurai said:
not judging her personally, just judging the "boys" that want to date strippers. It's a fact. Stripping can make women the kind of money that takes college graduates with advanced degrees 10 years to make if not more. But forget meaningful personal relationships. The guys that want to date strippers fall into 2 categories......1) the little boys who want to go back to their dorm rooms and say they nailed a stripper and worse 2) The guys that want to sit at home and take advantage of women with notoriously low self esteem. These guys made my blood boil when I was in SF.......I honestly contemplated murdering one of them. If I had quick access to a weapon at that time, it might have gone through. Some of the sweetest girls I've ever known would get picked up outside my club by some of the dirtiest, dustiest no good mother fuckers I've ever run into.
something u said made it ring in my head-
i ended up with someone who had a great education but in the end didnt do anything with it- had the world by the balls if he/she wanted and tossed it for alcohol and sluts(true sluts that just give it away)
he had a fucking mid life crisis and i payed for it big time!!
education doesnt make u smart in all areas!!
its funny cause all my exs boys and s called friends are tryin some goofy shit thinking im special ed myself- and that i would actually date their retarded asses.
What gave them the clue that i actually want anything to do with them??? or i should be asking - who ever told u i would be interested in u after ur friend was a retard???