why cant i meet a mature guy

[KillahBee]

I soothe myself with food to lessen my burden on others.

And we thank you for that

 

[Smurfy]

And we thank you for that

of course/ I aim to please.

 

[Wulfgar]

Dahkota just wants a FWB??

www.plentyoffish.com

kthxbye

 

[redsamurai]

so is dakota really a stripper or not? If she is, I might have an answer for her question.........

 

[Wulfgar]

In all honesty I actually know a stripper named Dakota

shes asian..which is weird IMHO

 

[calveless wonder]

I know about three "dancers" that have their shit together and on some level the reputation is deserved but I would never name call someone for doing a job they can make a shit load of money doing without knowing them; I just try to be reasonable.

yeah, and let me guess..they're paying their way through college and investing their stack of hundreds in mutual funds

there's absolutely nothing sadder than an intelligent and capable girl who has to take the easy way out and use her body to make money. met a few like this...
could have easily done anything they wanted in the world with their brains and charisma alone.


now, of course..if you're as dumb as rocks. at least they're contributing something to the world

 

[calveless wonder]

In all honesty I actually know a stripper named Dakota

shes asian..which is weird IMHO

LOL!!

EF dakota is asian i think too? i think shes part jap like me

 

[Wulfgar]

why do asian girls like to have a totally american stripper name?

Thats like a white girl from texas wanting to be called Chow mein or soemthing

 

[redsamurai]

the world is ALOT different for women than it is for guys. Your statements are very "assumptuary". Often.......good looking girls no matter how smart they are...........are judged on their looks and not taken seriously. After working in a club and watching hard working girls making 6 figures and sometimes WELL BEYOND.........I'll never fault a girl for that. And it really isn't the "easy" way out bro. Those women give up alot of themselves while they work in that proffession. There's a reason coke and other drugs are so prevelant with them.

Just as I left my old club one of the girls whom I really got along with finally quit too........she was making way more a real estate agent in the Bay area than she was making as a dancer. But the danceing got her through the lean times when she was trying to make a name in the business. I suspect that in light of recent events in the homebuilding business........she may be dancing again, but so what? She's got multiple kids with no father in sight that she's got to take care of.

yeah, and let me guess..they're paying their way through college and investing their stack of hundreds in mutual funds

there's absolutely nothing sadder than an intelligent and capable girl who has to take the easy way out and use her body to make money. met a few like this...
could have easily done anything they wanted in the world with their brains and charisma alone.


now, of course..if you're as dumb as rocks. at least they're contributing something to the world

 

[calveless wonder]

the world is ALOT different for women than it is for guys. Your statements are very "assumptuary". Often.......good looking girls no matter how smart they are...........are judged on their looks and not taken seriously. After working in a club and watching hard working girls making 6 figures and sometimes WELL BEYOND.........I'll never fault a girl for that. And it really isn't the "easy" way out bro. Those women give up alot of themselves while they work in that proffession. There's a reason coke and other drugs are so prevelant with them.

Just as I left my old club one of the girls whom I really got along with finally quit too........she was making way more a real estate agent in the Bay area than she was making as a dancer. But the danceing got her through the lean times when she was trying to make a name in the business. I suspect that in light of recent events in the homebuilding business........she may be dancing again, but so what? She's got multiple kids with no father in sight that she's got to take care of.

You're right about attractive girls being judged by their looks. That will never change. But why is that an excuse and who says you have to give into it? Most people think i'm a snooty south beach guido jackass just by looking at me (which is only like 30% true LOL). But why give in to what peoples initial impressions are?

Apparently you haven't worked in sales. Some of the most successful people in real estate or finance i know are good looking, smart women. They may play off it a little, but they never cheapen themselves. You talk to them for a few minutes and realize why they are where they are. They don't use their body as a crutch.