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Why cant i be a player?

B0ARDIN087

B0ARDIN087

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I dont really want to be a "player". but i cant just talk to like 5 girls and get on them all and be happy. i dont haev too much feelings for any of them but i still kinda feel for them all. sounds dumb but this is no good!
 
Fuck that. Do what you do bro. Being a "player" is usually something doods do to overcome their low self esteem and impress their boys cause they don't have much else going on in life.
 
lol, i think i have the "skillz" lol i just cant not get attached to people, even when i tell them up front there is no relationship down the road and they dont care...
 
because you actually have a heart bro, playing the game like that just isn't for everyone, I tired myself and just ended up feeling shitty about it. Do what works best for ya, no shame in getting attached to just one girl (lol but 5 would land you in hot shit)
 
Players are douchebags who make it harder for the regular guy to get lucky by banging and then dumping everything in sight. However, in their defense, a lot of women want to bag a bad boy, and change him, which isn't going to happen with a player.

Zig
 
ziggyziggy said:
Players are douchebags who make it harder for the regular guy to get lucky by banging and then dumping everything in sight. However, in their defense, a lot of women want to bag a bad boy, and change him, which isn't going to happen with a player.

Zig
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very true, I just dont know why we are drawn to the bad boys. Its not that we wanna change them - we just hope that they will
 
foreigngirl said:
very true, I just dont know why we are drawn to the bad boys. Its not that we wanna change them - we just hope that they will
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We aren't going to change until we want to, on our own. I see a lot of women that I know getting hurt and wondering what they did wrong. For a guy like that, its not about you, its about them. For a guy like me, DC's relatively transient population meant the best of both worlds. Short, no strings attached sexual relationships, and her not getting hurt by me because her time here was up.

Zig
 
ziggyziggy said:
We aren't going to change until we want to, on our own. I see a lot of women that I know getting hurt and wondering what they did wrong. For a guy like that, its not about you, its about them. For a guy like me, DC's relatively transient population meant the best of both worlds. Short, no strings attached sexual relationships, and her not getting hurt by me because her time here was up.

Zig
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I learned that the hard way. And I heard those words before - its not you, its me. Which I thought were full of crap....and then followed all those crying days and nights....drinking till you pass out...

wow, I dont miss that at all
 
foreigngirl said:
I learned that the hard way. And I heard those words before - its not you, its me. Which I thought were full of crap....and then followed all those crying days and nights....drinking till you pass out...

wow, I dont miss that at all
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I hear ya. I'm taking some time out of the loop to rethink a few things relationship-wise. Finding someone who's going to be here for a while would help, just not the 'hood honies where I live. :rolleyes:

Zig
 
ziggyziggy said:
I hear ya. I'm taking some time out of the loop to rethink a few things relationship-wise. Finding someone who's going to be here for a while would help, just not the 'hood honies where I live. :rolleyes:

Zig
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the only thing that I can tell ya is if you go to a club, dont go after the naughty girl...go after the shy one (or the one that looks more reserved) if you want a relationship that will last
 
foreigngirl said:
the only thing that I can tell ya is if you go to a club, dont go after the naughty girl...go after the shy one (or the one that looks more reserved) if you want a relationship that will last
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I don't do clubs much anymore. I met most of my women at bookstores, while working, or at low-key bars. I stay away from club wenches. ;)

Zig
 
ziggyziggy said:
I don't do clubs much anymore. I met most of my women at bookstores, while working, or at low-key bars. I stay away from club wenches. ;)

Zig
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thats good thing...I went to a club couple of moths ago (I havent been out in like almost a year) and when I saw how them girls are acting I got sick to my stomack and asked hubby if we can leave right away....no wonder why most guys think that girls are sluts....its sickening
 
foreigngirl said:
thats good thing...I went to a club couple of moths ago (I havent been out in like almost a year) and when I saw how them girls are acting I got sick to my stomack and asked hubby if we can leave right away....no wonder why most guys think that girls are sluts....its sickening
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Hey, women have hormones too................ :p

Zig
 
how do you find a happy medium between the two? Ive got a lot of both in me but I try and stay away from the bad side cuz it gets you nothing serious
 
Well, my happy medium was hooking up with women who were only going to be in DC for a short time. We both knew that the relationship wasn't going anywhere, so no one got hurt. I'm looking for something a bit more satisfying now.

Zig
 
ziggyziggy said:
If I make it two weeks, then I am satisfied.

Zig
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even that is too long... :) My husband couldnt wait for a week until I came home from a trip
sorry, dont wanna add fuel to a burning fire
 
foreigngirl said:
even that is too long... :) My husband couldnt wait for a week until I came home from a trip
sorry, dont wanna add fuel to a burning fire
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Well, that's a done deal, anyway. :rolleyes:

Zig
 
Boardin087 said:
I dont really want to be a "player". but i cant just talk to like 5 girls and get on them all and be happy. i dont haev too much feelings for any of them but i still kinda feel for them all. sounds dumb but this is no good!
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Boardin087,

Do you ever watch animal shows on PBS or Discovery Channel? If so, I bet you noticed that many species have a dominant male who has sex with all the females in the group, while the other males get none and wait for him to die or until they are tough enough to kick his ass and become the alpha male themselves. Many males never get to be an alpha male (never get laid). In the Elite Player's Guide, I'll show you how to rule your pack and why it's so important!

George Spellwin, excerpt from Elite Player's Guide to Getting Laid read more...
 
George Spellwin said:
Boardin087,

Do you ever watch animal shows on PBS or Discovery Channel? If so, I bet you noticed that many species have a dominant male who has sex with all the females in the group, while the other males get none and wait for him to die or until they are tough enough to kick his ass and become the alpha male themselves. Many males never get to be an alpha male (never get laid). In the Elite Player's Guide, I'll show you how to rule your pack and why it's so important!

George Spellwin, excerpt from Elite Player's Guide to Getting Laid read more...
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:evil: Always on the lookout!
 
George Spellwin said:
Boardin087,

Do you ever watch animal shows on PBS or Discovery Channel? If so, I bet you noticed that many species have a dominant male who has sex with all the females in the group, while the other males get none and wait for him to die or until they are tough enough to kick his ass and become the alpha male themselves. Many males never get to be an alpha male (never get laid). In the Elite Player's Guide, I'll show you how to rule your pack and why it's so important!

George Spellwin, excerpt from Elite Player's Guide to Getting Laid read more...
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what good would that good do me.
 
Boardin087 said:
lol, i think i have the "skillz" lol i just cant not get attached to people, even when i tell them up front there is no relationship down the road and they dont care...
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lol i was kidding ;)

you can be a 'playa' if you want, you just have to be a selfish, socially useless prick, most of the time. most of the 'playas' i know couldnt hold a relationship down if they tried, which is interesting. theyre good at the first week of a relationship, and then they suck.

just do what makes you happy. dont use women as an emotional crutch, it jsut doesnt work.

cheerios :)
 
I wouldn't consider myself a player at all, in fact i enjoy the perks of relationships, but like everyone else I've gone through phases where I've "played" girls, and from my experience and the experience of a couple close friends who are most definitly players, you don't just wake up a choose to be a player, it chooses you. These guys are players because they'd be stupid not to be. They have gorgeous girls approaching them all the time for sex and they hardly have to throw any game at them at all... its pretty much that simple. Whereas 99% of the rest of population has to actually do stuff to attract members of the opposite sex; you aren't players, you're getting played.
 
Being a Player = Overrated.

If you are a really "I don't give a fuck about people's feelings", then you will have a ball... otherwise, eventually (and it WILL happen) somebody will be out there to play you like a violin... then you will know how it feels to be treated like shit
 
Boardin087 said:
I dont really want to be a "player". but i cant just talk to like 5 girls and get on them all and be happy. i dont haev too much feelings for any of them but i still kinda feel for them all. sounds dumb but this is no good!
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Being a player is like Fly fishing.

You look for a good location to cast your lure and charm. Present your bait the right way to make them bite... Once they take the bait you have to be patient to reel them in, you don't want the line to snap! If it does she’ll just be: "the story about the hot one that got away" every player and fisherman has one of those, and he'll tell you about it over a couple of beers..

Once you pull them out of the water you stick your finger in its mouth, look at her and say dayumm you were a tough one but I finally got you! Maybe show her off to your buddy who is having a shitty day and nothing is biting his worm... If she is a real catch, take a few pictures with her next to you so you can show your friends.
Then you take the hook out of her mouth, put her back in the water and wait till she swims away on her own, release her to the wild unharmed and maybe a little wiser.


Three things I advice you with.

1- Don't go out there to hurt a chick's feelings. Try to keep it real with the chicks and don't promise them love and marriage and shit. If you have to promise a chick the world, just to get in her pants... You have no game. If you meet a chick who is looking for a relationship, you should be able to fuck her without ever making any hint that you want a relationship with her. She will convince herself that if she fucks you good enough, you will want to be her boyfriend even if you never told her you wanted a relationship. She has nobody to blame but herself... PS: If she is fragile, walk away. Unless you think you want to keep her.

2- Do not be jealous. No need to be catching feelings for a chick just cause she opened her legs for you!(see #3) Let them hos have their fun too.
If you see them with another guy do what I do. Be friendly, say "hi" and smile! shake the other dude's hand and tell him what a pleasure it is to meet him. Make casual small talk and ... when the dude is not looking ... give her a little sign... a wink, a smile, a light tap on the ass ... something to let her know that you still expect to shoot loads on her face, even if she is talking/dating some dork......... Then say your good-byes and again tell the dude it was a pleasure meeting him and go on your way.... She will call you.


3- Don't catch feelings. Get all that fuzzy heart warming care bear bullshit out of your system. It will only turn you into a sooping wet vagina dripping of poosee boogers. Sure, the first few chicks you fuck you’ll want to mary. You should be over that shit by the time you get out of Jr High. By the time you’ve tapped your 20th piece off ass, all you’ll think about sampling some more before you settle on something you like…


Be safe… SAFE… SAFE I tell you. Never, eva ,eva, eva fuck any girl without a condom…. Always use a condom, there are things that will not go away with Penicillin. I should know, my son is 3 years old now.




-BRR






(PS: I love my son, he is a blessing from god! His mother and I were married, I use to love her very much. I just couldn’t miss the opportunity to make a joke)











.
 
GoldenDelicious said:
lol i was kidding ;)

you can be a 'playa' if you want, you just have to be a selfish, socially useless prick, most of the time. most of the 'playas' i know couldnt hold a relationship down if they tried, which is interesting. theyre good at the first week of a relationship, and then they suck.

just do what makes you happy. dont use women as an emotional crutch, it jsut doesnt work.

cheerios :)
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Don't be a Player hater.
 
foreigngirl said:
dude, what I saw was insane: it looked like a scene from a lesbian erotica movie
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There are very few peeps in clubs who actually have their heads screwed on straight.
 
KillahBee said:
Fuck that. Do what you do bro. Being a "player" is usually something doods do to overcome their low self esteem and impress their boys cause they don't have much else going on in life.
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Fuckin A bro. Granted I got with a lot of girls before I got married but not a ton, all the guys i know that sleep with tons and tons of girls are generally actually miserable and when they do try to settle down they get dissed by the good ones. My wife was actually my first gf and for all the years I was just hooking up with girls it looked cool to everyone else but it kinda sucked for me. It's fun for the night but trust me you don't want to be a "player" because there is no long term satisfaction in it.
 
Boardin087 said:
I dont really want to be a "player". but i cant just talk to like 5 girls and get on them all and be happy. i dont haev too much feelings for any of them but i still kinda feel for them all. sounds dumb but this is no good!
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Being a player is just meeting your personal challenges w/ attaining women, money or whatever. Challenge yourself to run game on `dem freaks and don`t put feelings into it.
 
ok, i take it back, its really easy to be with many gilrs and be happy. sorry georgie, its college that did it and not ur book..... but im sure the book woulda helped ;)
 
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