Why can't girls...

[Sexual Mustard]

...just say "No, I'm not interested in dating you," as opposed to just giving you the runaround like "Well, I'm gonna be booked up for a while..." or "I'm gonna be busy on that day, and then I'm going out of town...blah blah blah".

Ever happen to you guys when you ask a girl to do something (I'm sure it has)? Nobody likes rejection, but at least be straightforward about it.....I'm not going to lose any sleep if you just say "no."

Thanks and good night.

 

[Sassy69]

SM - you have a point... its sort of more of a question of when the girl will get the response "... Bitch!" from the guy - right there when she rejects him, or later after he figures out he's been rejected.

 

[thefacelessballer]

i hear yah, id rather a girl be honest with me.

ive told a few girls off for giving me the runaround.. it pisses me off

 

[manny78]

just slap her next she says some of that bullshit..... I'm sure then she wont do it again lol

 

[lynaghgrew]

because they r nice and dont want to hurt our feelings.

which would u prefer: sorry im seeing someone,
or fuck off u ugly, nerdy loser?

 

[Warik]

which would u prefer: sorry im seeing someone,
or fuck off u ugly, nerdy loser?

I'd prefer the second - you can't laugh in her face after putting on your expensive sunglasses and adjusting the collar of your expensive shirt after the first.

-Warik

 

[Slice of Peach2]

SM - you have a point... its sort of more of a question of when the girl will get the response "... Bitch!" from the guy - right there when she rejects him, or later after he figures out he's been rejected.

I was going to say something similar to this. We don't want you to be mad at us, or hurt us. So, we...lie.

 

[gymnpoppa]

Slice, Uh I disagree

We would prefer you to be blunt (like you are) and to the point.........I'm hearing Warik on this because women often select the boneheads over the Men.....because they don't get to the point....they bring on the dogs/ and playas. Neither gender should bring the negativity to a chance meeting, and certainly not the baggage of the past.......and if the dude does call you a bitch, when you have been nice..............
ya still don't need to mislead em.......shut em down....be blunt.......if that doesn't work, try a restraining order.....if that doesn't work.......put holes in em

 

[danielson]

jeez...its REALLY annoying when there is no straight answer. i thinkn the universal one is 'i see u as a friend' or i like u but im not attracted to u. both would do.

 

[bstone]

I figure

I figure that here are two reasons why women do this. One, they like to keep all doors open. You know, if they get really bored one night and have nothing else to do they can still call that guy who they always blow off.
Two, they have no balls. Literally.
This does not go far all women! so ladies, don't get all pissy. I know that the women of Elite have all got big brass ones and would never do something like that. I am just speaking of the majority of all the non-elite women in the world.

Just an opinion.

 

[Sexual Mustard]

yeah, don't get me wrong--I'm not generalizing all women. But most of them don't realize that if they're honest and nice about saying "no," then we have no reason to call them a bitch or a dyke.