Why are women so f@#ked up?

[Deleted member 33117]

I think there is too much thought about it. Just look in different places. The gym? Maybe another town?

You can't go looking for a girl to settle down. As soon as you stop looking you will meet her. It always works like this.

The girls were not interested if they stand you up...and the ones that you get laid with are not interested in you either. You don't have a bad personality, you just have to find someone who LIKES YOU.

I am 22, female, and the only men I seem to meet are the ones looking for ass...lol. Hey, I take what I can get (sometimes...I am picky) but it pisses me off too. I am not looking to "settle down" but a REAL date that doesn't include my date trying his best to get me boozed up and end up with him trying to get in my bedroom...and I never get second "dates" either. I get invites to come to his house...or askes if he can come over and spend the night.
Huh??

I leave after that. It gets frustrating. You don't do any of these thing, because if you do...you turn the "right" girl away.

I proally don't make any sense...lol.

No, you make sense. I know alot of guys like that, and can understand your frustration. It would be nice to have a real date. Even my ex-gf and I didn't really have real dates. We were fuck buddies for over a year before I asked her out, and she actually said yes. Even after that, we didn't go out and do that many things together. We talked alot, and fucked every day, but never really dated. Th only relationship I had that I ever dated alot in, was a girl I was dating for about 8 weeks during the summer who after 8 weeks, told me her fiance went home every summer and during the holidays. He was coming back in a week when school started again, and she told me to hit the road because he didn't need to know about me. The worst part is, I bumped into her the next december, she ran up and hugged me, chatted with me for awhile then asked what I was doing for the holidays, if I was going to be around. I asked her what her fiance was doing, she said, "Well.. he goes home every Christmas for 4 weeks...". What a bitch. I feel sorry for the guy.

 

[anabolicmd]

What's wrong with my avatar?

Theres nothing wrong with it except for what you are wearing. It looks like you dyed your haines tighty whities maroon. I took a picture of myself in red briefs, it taught me never to do it again.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Hahah, omg. They are read, but they do look kind of maroon. Oh well, any girls on here from TAMU (Texas A&M university) will definately say something. The original picture looks red.

 

[lamamacita2]

This is the biggest falacy in the world. This is why so many people have relationship troubles this days. everyone wants everything their way and wants to be the leader and general. And you can't have 2 generals in the relationship. Everyone is full of bad habits that irritate their partner. They key is to listen to your partner and adjust yourself within REASON to their liking in a particular area to make life easier for the both of you, this is to be done by both the male and female, hence the molding and not letting bad habits and stubbornness come between two people. This is the part that takes time.


For example:

I like skirts, but my girl waers pants. I asked her to wear more skirts because i like them. She loves me and says OK. She proceeds to wear skirts and decides she likes them a lot and feels more sexy, then we have more good sex, both parties benefited, see?

But she could be like: You like skits? Find some slut to wear them for you, i am an individual and like pants, screw you, i am woman.

I prefer the first.

I wouldn't say that is molding...I would say that is simply asking your girlfriend to wear a skirt. There isn't anything wrong with that.

flexygrl: I don't understand your question. I went to Clemson University which is located in Clemson (a serious college town).

 

[ammilio]

Why??????? Why would you wanna date someone like that? I would never do that!! There are lots of things you can do together besides have sex!! Maybe that is what is wrong with lots of guys...they might wanna see you again, but sex might be the only thing in common, especially if ya'll had sex on the first date.
My advice would be if you wanna date a girl but you are not sure if you are into her or not wait like 3 dates before you have sex with her...
Just a thought. Maybe.

Obviously I don't exactly have the best advice either...

 

[DepressiveJuice]

What's wrong with my avatar?

well for a body that was made from fina, you sure are lacking quality muscle. then theres the looking soft issue. it looks like a physique that a new bber can acomplish naturally

 

[Deleted member 33117]

ammillio, well with her it was different. We were friends and had been having sex for along time before we started seeing each other. Sex was a hugh part of our relationship already, and that certainly wasn't going to change just because we were seeing each other exclusively (btw, when I'm serious about someone, I turn down those who hit on me. I'll flirt, but I'm not the cheating type, so that's where it stops). Believe I would never want to be with some like her, you have not idea how psycho she is, however I feel in love. It wasn't something I can really control. There were just aspects of her personality that I feel in love with. She does have alot of good points though. In any event, once I finally had all I could stand, I dumped her (for the 4th time, the first 3 she managed to get me back with some pretty underhanded, but effective methods). Things changed after that last one, once she started getting alot sicker (she already had some health problems, but never new the cause), and she didn't try to get me back. Anyway, It has been over 3 months now since we broke up.
Honestly, right now I'm looking for a relationship, so sex on the first few dates is a not my intent with anyone. If she inniates it during the first few dates, I'm not going to say no. However, it won't offend me if a women I'm dating doesn't.

 

[anabolicmd]

well for a body that was made from fina, you sure are lacking quality muscle. then theres the looking soft issue. it looks like a physique that a new bber can acomplish naturally

Well you have no idea what he looked like before the fina so your comment is out of place. I dont like the avatar myself, but his physique is lean and muscular enough.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

well for a body that was made from fina, you sure are lacking quality muscle. then theres the looking soft issue. it looks like a physique that a new bber can acomplish naturally

Everyone's a critic.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

DJ, I'm sorry if my soft, tiny pysique offends you.