Why are women so f@#ked up?

[lamamacita2]

Relationships take effort and years of molding on both parties. It takes a lot of patience. But good things come to those who wait.

Effort yes, but years of molding? I do disagree with that. You don't get into a relationship to mold someone. You either accept/appreicate/love their differences or move on!

 

[flexygrl]

I went to college, and not all girls are there to party and screw. Don't get me wrong...I did my share of partying, but I was/am really into my major and pretty nerdy.

How old are you?



Also, molding may be a harsh word. I don't necessarily thinks it's molding. Maybe enhancing all the good characteristics that he likes, is a better way. My husband didn't change me. I am still who I am, but he encouraged me to strive for the best in anything and everything I am after.

 

[lamamacita2]

I'm 22.

 

[Tiervexx]

I met the girl that was my best friend for close to a year when she dared me to strip down to my boxers at a party. She did so much to mess with my head.

Next time I meet a girl that does something of the like I will just tell her to stay the hell away from me. After all I don't need any more ego boosts anywhere near as much as I just need more friends.

 

[flexygrl]

One she will learn life from her friends and enviroment which will usually not result in too much of a good character development. On the other hand you can beome her mentor and take your time, date her, teach her, open the world to her and in time she will look up to you and love you and only

This was very true with us.

 

[flexygrl]

Iammamma,

Did you go to a college town, or a regular college? Yes, there are women out there like you and me, but we are the minority.

 

[gwl9dta4]

Effort yes, but years of molding? I do disagree with that. You don't get into a relationship to mold someone. You either accept/appreicate/love their differences or move on!

This is the biggest falacy in the world. This is why so many people have relationship troubles this days. everyone wants everything their way and wants to be the leader and general. And you can't have 2 generals in the relationship. Everyone is full of bad habits that irritate their partner. They key is to listen to your partner and adjust yourself within REASON to their liking in a particular area to make life easier for the both of you, this is to be done by both the male and female, hence the molding and not letting bad habits and stubbornness come between two people. This is the part that takes time.


For example:

I like skirts, but my girl waers pants. I asked her to wear more skirts because i like them. She loves me and says OK. She proceeds to wear skirts and decides she likes them a lot and feels more sexy, then we have more good sex, both parties benefited, see?

But she could be like: You like skits? Find some slut to wear them for you, i am an individual and like pants, screw you, i am woman.

I prefer the first.

 

[ammilio]

I think there is too much thought about it. Just look in different places. The gym? Maybe another town?

You can't go looking for a girl to settle down. As soon as you stop looking you will meet her. It always works like this.

The girls were not interested if they stand you up...and the ones that you get laid with are not interested in you either. You don't have a bad personality, you just have to find someone who LIKES YOU.

I am 22, female, and the only men I seem to meet are the ones looking for ass...lol. Hey, I take what I can get (sometimes...I am picky) but it pisses me off too. I am not looking to "settle down" but a REAL date that doesn't include my date trying his best to get me boozed up and end up with him trying to get in my bedroom...and I never get second "dates" either. I get invites to come to his house...or askes if he can come over and spend the night.
Huh??

I leave after that. It gets frustrating. You don't do any of these thing, because if you do...you turn the "right" girl away.

I proally don't make any sense...lol.

 

[flexygrl]

I think ammilio and Body should hook up!!!!

 

[Testosterone boy]

I met the girl that was my best friend for close to a year when she dared me to strip down to my boxers at a party. She did so much to mess with my head.

Next time I meet a girl that does something of the like I will just tell her to stay the hell away from me. After all I don't need any more ego boosts anywhere near as much as I just need more friends.

That trenchcoat and straw hat attire may be too much for some, you also seem to be extremely short?