Why are women so f@#ked up?

[Deleted member 33117]

It is a proven fact that women will always go after men that don't want them in they way that they want.

They do this because they want to change men so that they can feel powerful or something like that.



To further prove my point several of my ex-friends are girls that wanted to turn me strait so that they could feel sexy and powerful but once they figure out that, that was not gana happen and that I really just needed a friend they lose all interest and started ditching me.

Women that really want a relationship will look for horny animals. Women that just want sex will look for someone like me or you. I know it sucks ass but this is how at least 80% of them work.

That is the most interesting answer yet, and would explain alot. In any event, I would have to agree with flexygrl also. 90% of the women in my town are between 18 and 25. This is a college town. Literally 70% of the population are enrolled in college.

Tiervexx, what blows my mind are the guys I know who have a date every freakin weekend and always say they can't get laid. Its like wtf, I can't get a date, but I can get laid any time I want. Then they ask for my secret and I ask for thiers. Their answer"To get a date all you have to do is ask them." WHich doesn't work. Then I tell them, "to get laid all you have to do is occasionally be near women, and eventually one will offer. If you do a good job, and give her your phone number, she'll call you up later on and ask if she can come over." They of course say, "Yeah, whatever, like that ever happens." This seems to give some validity to your theory. So I need to change stratigies. I need to act like all I care about is fucking, then I'll actually get a date, but I won't get laid on these dates.

You are also right about the gay thing. My workout partner (for 2 workouts a week) at one time was a bodybuilder who happened to be gay. All of the girls at they gym always talked about how hot he was and what a waste is was that he was gay. Two girls I knew even said they were going to try to convert him back too women.... or would at least love to try.

 

[flexygrl]

Another thing to keep in mind is that a lot of girls that go away to a college town are lions dying to get out of their cage. They are so repressed at home with curfews and rules that when they finally get out, they go wild.


I never went away to college, never wanted to either.

 

[gwl9dta4]

gwl9dta4:

I could possibly agree with your first paragraph if I knew that is the way BBF was. I won't flame you for the second one, but I think younger girls can bring in way more immaturities than BBF wants to deal with.

Relationships take effort and years of molding on both parties. It takes a lot of patience. But good things come to those who wait.

and to flexygrl:

I am glad you agree. There is a reason why the age difference has been preferred in the past. But has now gotten out of vogue and is looked upon as perverted by some. I have done this with my current GF of 5 years and it's all good. Afterall we are together for 5 years and no she's not a slave or anything like that, LOL!

 

[Shak]

are you meeting girls that are too young to know what they want? try someone older than you...

in my experiences, you can't force meeting the right person. she'll come along when the time is right, probably when you're least expecting it -

enjoy being single and young. before you know it, you'll be old and in a relationship wishing you were single and young...

 

[Deleted member 33117]

I think younger girls can bring in way more immaturities than BBF wants to deal with.

Probably true, however I'm looking for long term material. gwl and flexygrl both gave the same suggestion. Interesting also. I usually avoid the 18 year old freshmen because they are to immature for relationships and clearly the one's that try to pick me up for sex don't get very far because it has been my experience that most really young girls are not that great in bed. I usually shoot for 20-25, the age group flexy suggested avoiding. This is food for thought.

 

[rnch]

BBF:

peeps mature at differnt ages. as flexygrl sez, gals in that age group are majorly foiked up in the head. give it time, bro.....SOMEONE will find YOU and appreciate you for the unique person you are.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

It's #2

I knew it! I have no personality!

 

[lamamacita2]

I went to college, and not all girls are there to party and screw. Don't get me wrong...I did my share of partying, but I was/am really into my major and pretty nerdy.

Now, a lot of my friends partied a lot too...but they were there to find their husband. They weren't there because they loved school. They wanted to find a college educated man and where else is better than a college? They aren't sluts either and I am not saying the reason they are there is right, but it is the truth.

 

[gwl9dta4]

Probably true, however I'm looking for long term material. gwl and flexygrl both gave the same suggestion. Interesting also. I usually avoid the 18 year old freshmen because they are to immature for relationships and clearly the one's that try to pick me up for sex don't get very far because it has been my experience that most really young girls are not that great in bed. I usually shoot for 20-25, the age group flexy suggested avoiding. This is food for thought.

Look at it this way, the immature 18 year old is immature because she is inexperienced and uneducated. So this can go in either way. One she will learn life from her friends and enviroment which will usually not result in too much of a good character development. On the other hand you can beome her mentor and take your time, date her, teach her, open the world to her and in time she will look up to you and love you and only
you. But the down side is that it takes time and patience. But it has worked for millions of sucessfull men around the world and the ladies are happier with a decisive smart man. it's win win for both parties.

 

[flexygrl]

I am glad you agree. There is a reason why the age difference has been preferred in the past. But has now gotten out of vogue and is looked upon as perverted by some. I have done this with my current GF of 5 years and it's all good. Afterall we are together for 5 years and no she's not a slave or anything like that, LOL!

I totally agree with you. We are 7 years apart. I am not a slave, but I know my place. We have a relationship similar to my parents. They are also 7 years apart. His word is law. He is fair, and if we disagree he will take my opinnion into account, but he always makes the final decisions on anything. He's really good to me. I am very lucky.