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Zander1983
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I'm going to turn this into sad loser post, but fuck it.
Way too often I snap at my girlfriend for stupid little reasons. I don't mean to, nor want to, but something that is so trivial can seem to make me crack momentarily. I always regret it seconds later because I never want to hurt her, which it does. I always immediately apologise too, but there is only so much of that you can do.
I absolutely hate the fact I do this to her, and don't want it to compromise anything. She doesn't deserve it and I want it to stop, but sometimes I have no control over the sudden rush of meanness that strikes.
It happened this morning on the way into class. Something so minor too... I'm seeing her again in about 45 minutes. She's quite angry and upset at me, and rightfully so.
What to do... I know I NEED to change my ways, but temporarily, I need to try to explain/apologise better, because it often seems like I'm playing catch-up.
Way too often I snap at my girlfriend for stupid little reasons. I don't mean to, nor want to, but something that is so trivial can seem to make me crack momentarily. I always regret it seconds later because I never want to hurt her, which it does. I always immediately apologise too, but there is only so much of that you can do.
I absolutely hate the fact I do this to her, and don't want it to compromise anything. She doesn't deserve it and I want it to stop, but sometimes I have no control over the sudden rush of meanness that strikes.
It happened this morning on the way into class. Something so minor too... I'm seeing her again in about 45 minutes. She's quite angry and upset at me, and rightfully so.
What to do... I know I NEED to change my ways, but temporarily, I need to try to explain/apologise better, because it often seems like I'm playing catch-up.
