You know smallmovesal, I know what you are getting at, but let me tell you this:
There really are men who would actually talk to women totally regardless of their appearance and physical attractiveness. These men do indeed treat women the same way no matter how ugly or how beautiful they are. To those men it doesn't matter whether you are a drop dead gorgeous supermodel or a hiddeous spinster or whether you have posted your pictures for public evaluation on the internet...
If you would like to know where to find those men, well they all live in an isolated monastery north of Kathmandu...
...and they have never seen a woman in their lives.
hardgainer (yup)