Let me guess. You get more PMs about sex and whatnot when you post pics, and when you don't, you get nothing. You get more replies to threads that have pics than those that don't. Is this the pattern you are speaking of?
well it's not that i get really nasty pm's it's just that after i post them i get new people wanting to talk to me or so it seems. and i was in a bad mood yesterday when i posted the thread...
but that's not saying i don't want to talk to the people who pm me. i wouldn't respond if i didn't.