Who here lies about their AS use to their wives/gf's

[jasonstrong]

Married my wife 5 years ago and before that I was all natural, hit the gym 5 days a week, and looked damn good. After I said "I do" I let myself go to shit. I ate everything I wasn't supposed to, quit the gym and lived fat and happy with my wife.

Last I year I got really depressed when I realized I was getting wider and wider. I looked at old photos and got really depressed. So I joined a gym at 6' tall and 285lbs one year ago. Within 7 months I dropped 85lbs. Hell yeah!!

Well I got down to 190lbs and started eating a lifters diet, and went back up to 200lbs.

Decided to take the AS plunge (besides a little experimenting with WinV a few months ago) and now I am running sust and deca. Now my weight is up to 208lbs and thanks to liquidex, hardly any bloat.

Anyway back to the point. The other night my wife looked at me and said "WOW, your hardwork is finally paying off, your arms are bigger, your chest is getting chisled, stomach is still a little flabby haha!" The she asked what I was doing to get these latest results?

Well, I went into a long explanation about diet, hard work and hundreds of dollars of supplements from GNC. So far she bought it. Problem is she isn't stupid, as my gains increase so will her suspicions of AS use. My wife is pretty conservative, she barely drinks and thinks that weed is as bad as anyother drug.

Anyone else hide their AS use from their GF's/Wives? I figure that I am going to have to guy a bottles of celltech and empty them for proof!!

she's eventually going to find out...so why not tell her?
If she catches you lying about it suddenly all her suspiscions will be that you lied about everything...eventually you will leave something out, get a bad bruise, or the cops show up-god forbid-telling her now she will support you she is your wife educate her on the facts it's not like you are on 4 grams a week year round...believe me it will be a lot better on peace of mind and heck she might even start popping ya...now that's what I call bonding...

 

[ripper911]

yea i told my girl after my first cycle and she was OK with it after she knew how much i knew about it....at first she thought it was dangerous cause she hadnt known anything at all about it but then i educated her on what i know how i knew it and how i have this board that will help me and assist me on everything i didnt know

 

[manfromba]

Jason,

I married this woman knowing how conservative she is. Actually meeting her was one of the best things I did because I was pretty reckless and heading down a wrong road before I met her. With her conservative philosophy she would never understand or even want to understand how to use gear, how safe it can be or how it improves everything about me, body and mind. Telling her now would just put us in divorce court.

I am self employed and motivation is the key to my business. Since I got back in shape, everything has been looking good for me. I have a lot of energy, motivation and I don't feel like a fat slob anymore.

I am just going to hope that she never realizes what is going on. She sees me go to the gym 6 days a week, eat clean and pop suppliments.

She doesn't even know anyone who has ever used gear, except for my BB friends and she thinks they got that way from dedication at the gym.

Now if I ever grow arms like Greg Valentino, I'll tell you guys how the divorce went. HAHAHA!

 

[SuperSnake]

rule of thumb,

never tell anyone, espcially wives or girlfriends, because the first time they really get mad at you or you break up with them, they will tell everyone they can, including the divorse court. Say bye, bye to custody of your kids.

 

[jasonstrong]

Jason,

I married this woman knowing how conservative she is. Actually meeting her was one of the best things I did because I was pretty reckless and heading down a wrong road before I met her. With her conservative philosophy she would never understand or even want to understand how to use gear, how safe it can be or how it improves everything about me, body and mind. Telling her now would just put us in divorce court.

I am self employed and motivation is the key to my business. Since I got back in shape, everything has been looking good for me. I have a lot of energy, motivation and I don't feel like a fat slob anymore.

I am just going to hope that she never realizes what is going on. She sees me go to the gym 6 days a week, eat clean and pop suppliments.

She doesn't even know anyone who has ever used gear, except for my BB friends and she thinks they got that way from dedication at the gym.

Now if I ever grow arms like Greg Valentino, I'll tell you guys how the divorce went. HAHAHA!

manfromba,
I admire what you have achieved through your efforts....almost 100lbs is a lot ....
However if the relationship is that fragile that it will end it then I don't know....I personally would not like to tip toe around like that but you know her and love her so i can't tell what is right.

I dated a girl a couple of months ago that left me after she asked me and I was honest. she said she could not handle a drug user.
Kind of ironic since she drank and did X and ketamine and smoked when out.

 

[SuperSnake]

manfromba,
I admire what you have achieved through your efforts....almost 100lbs is a lot ....
However if the relationship is that fragile that it will end it then I don't know....I personally would not like to tip toe around like that but you know her and love her so i can't tell what is right.

I dated a girl a couple of months ago that left me after she asked me and I was honest. she said she could not handle a drug user.
Kind of ironic since she drank and did X and ketamine and smoked when out.

AHHH the power of PUSSY and the Fear of Divorse Court. 2 pretty good reasons. Once your married its a whole different game. Just dont tell anyone and dont leave your gear and pins where she will find them.

 

[dzuljas]

i dont lie to my girlfriend, i just hide it from her

 

[THeMaCHinE]

Well. Here's a thought -- if you can't/won't tell her, yet you love her and want to preserve the marriage, maybe you shouldn't be doing AS. You achieved a lot without them after all ...

If you know your choice to use AS will put you in divorce court, yet you do them anyway, what does that say about your commitment to your marriage? Do you value your own personal wants (not needs) over your marriage?

Not trying to be a dick, just offering another viewpoint and option.


Another thought, perhaps if you were diagnosed with low T and were prescribed HRT through a doctor, you could tell her? It's more expensive, but it can be done.

 

[miudo30]

depending on the wife or girlfriend you are probably going to be the only person that is going to know how she reacts to certain issues.

but what she doesn't know won't hurt you
what she does know could very well hurt you

good luck

 

[manfromba]

if you can't/won't tell her, yet you love her and want to preserve the marriage, maybe you shouldn't be doing AS.

Good point! Eventhough I love my wife with all of my heart, I still feel this is something I need to do. That's the best explanation I can give.

As far as hiding gear, no problem I have leases on buildings that she never goes to or has a key for. She really has no interest in my business, she just likes the money that comes in