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Who here lies about their AS use to their wives/gf's

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manfromba

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Married my wife 5 years ago and before that I was all natural, hit the gym 5 days a week, and looked damn good. After I said "I do" I let myself go to shit. I ate everything I wasn't supposed to, quit the gym and lived fat and happy with my wife.

Last I year I got really depressed when I realized I was getting wider and wider. I looked at old photos and got really depressed. So I joined a gym at 6' tall and 285lbs one year ago. Within 7 months I dropped 85lbs. Hell yeah!!

Well I got down to 190lbs and started eating a lifters diet, and went back up to 200lbs.

Decided to take the AS plunge (besides a little experimenting with WinV a few months ago) and now I am running sust and deca. Now my weight is up to 208lbs and thanks to liquidex, hardly any bloat.

Anyway back to the point. The other night my wife looked at me and said "WOW, your hardwork is finally paying off, your arms are bigger, your chest is getting chisled, stomach is still a little flabby haha!" The she asked what I was doing to get these latest results?

Well, I went into a long explanation about diet, hard work and hundreds of dollars of supplements from GNC. So far she bought it. Problem is she isn't stupid, as my gains increase so will her suspicions of AS use. My wife is pretty conservative, she barely drinks and thinks that weed is as bad as anyother drug.

Anyone else hide their AS use from their GF's/Wives? I figure that I am going to have to guy a bottles of celltech and empty them for proof!!
 
I hide it from everyone except my lifting partner who also uses. We swore to never tell a soul. This is something that has the potential to haunt you for the rest of your life...nothing to be taken too lightly.

Just tell her creatine/r-ala/protein.
 
I was in the same boat as you. After I started AS especially the test my wife was loving it. So finally I told her why I had turned into'nevrhasenuf', and she didn't care. Between by body, and the fact that she was getting "the works", she said "OK it's kool with me" and started giving me injections.
 
My girlfriend knows and just doesn't like the acne on the back. She trusts I know what I am doing so it is easier for her to justify.
 
My wife likes me to juice. She likes the way it makes me look and the way it makes me feel. She just went on test supplementation herself (HRT) and she wants me to go on as well. My advice is; you have to bring your wife on board slowly, but, you have to bring her on. If you don't, it will be trouble.
 
My advice is; you have to bring your wife on board slowly, but, you have to bring her on. If you don't, it will be trouble.
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I totally agree, but knowing my wife, letting her know maybe more trouble than I can handle. She is really conservative and gullible at the same time. Hiding it from her, is much easier than trying to educate her. So for now, I will take advantage of her gullible personality, at least for now.
 
Stillgoing said:
My wife likes me to juice. She likes the way it makes me look and the way it makes me feel. She just went on test supplementation herself (HRT) and she wants me to go on as well. My advice is; you have to bring your wife on board slowly, but, you have to bring her on. If you don't, it will be trouble.
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how much test is seh using ? i told my gf to use eq 100mg/week, do you think is enough or what ?, thx
 
my advice is to keep it to yourself as they may be accepting at first but given any potential health issue down the road (totally unrelated) the fact you use steroids will eat at their brain and then problems ensue. my last gf stripper (I'm stupid who isn't) thought she would not be puritanical about things but she ended up flippin out over it. she was also a paramedic who thought she knew everything about everythin medical when she was just full of the usual media hype BS
 
I live with my Girl and she knows.She actually wanted to see my inject.I just couldnt lie to her and it would be to hard especially since I'm doing SuS right now and that shit makes my ass hurt so I dont feel like trying to hide anything......
 
I refuse to tell anyone.

It's funny though when you look at someone at you see that they are clearly juiced to the gills and there friends think they're Mr.Natural... I just laugh. hehe.
 
I wouldn't marry a woman that I had to lie to. I wouldn't have a girlfriend that I had to lie to.

That isn't the kind of relationship I'd ever want to have.
 
Id never tell my gf its not worth the fight that would follow. Of course if I got caught she would pull the "If you told me I wouldnt be so mad" What a crock of shit
 
Well I started telling just my friends. BAD MOVE on my part. Wasn't bad untill a firend got mad at me one week. While he was out with a girl I was seeing he decided to tell her everything about me. So the next night at dinner I got the 20 questions. It all eneded with "I DO NOT LIKE THAT" Well we arnt talking anymore.

Now the 2 girls I am seeing now, either dont care or dont have a clue. Both like my look and the fact I am not a blithering slob like most of the other people out there.

So I will keep it to myself. If I am serious about a girl and she asks, I will prob start out buy asking back "does it really matter?" If they say no then I will tell all. If they say yes then maybe something like I take GNC prohormones :)
 
SofaGeorge said:
I wouldn't marry a woman that I had to lie to. I wouldn't have a girlfriend that I had to lie to.

That isn't the kind of relationship I'd ever want to have.
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That's what I'm talking about!

Before I started my cycle a few weeks ago I sat down with my girl and told her what I was thinking about doing and asked her opinion...I want to be completely open with her and not have anything to hide. I'm going to marry this girl some day and that means she has to be someone that I can trust and talk to about anything. She was concerned about the risks and that I would change...someone in her past juiced and turned into a total dick. I explained all the research I've done, how mild my cycle is going to be, and that I want to know if my personality changes at all...I'll drop the gear immediately. So she's cool with it as long as I'm safe. And now she can tease me about taking it in the ass :)
 
Not to mention, if you two ever have children - this could be " exhibit a " -good evidence against you on child custody and visitation rights. You could be represented as irrational and moody by her lawyer....just giving you another scenario if you do come clean now.


Should've been addressed at the begining though. You dont ask her, you tell her your taking them. If you sleep on the couch a few days, big deal.
 
i just hooked up with a really wicked chick and instead of lieing to her like i did with every other hoe i met, i told her straight up.

at first she was totaly cool with it saying she trusts what im doing. but she is a nursing studen and the shit they teach them about gear is fucking retarded so now she is worried about it a lot.

i just keep reasuring her and telling her how society is all fucked up. endorsing tabacco and alcohol. how many people die each day from tabacco alone? and how many people have EVER died from gear? thaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaatts right
 
The only people who actually know i use AS are my gym related friends. Obviously, i have been asked by others, including girlfriends and parents but i always reply with 'no, of course not i just use the natural supplements'.

The thing is, i have been so tempted to say yes, and explain how i cycle them, taking the necessary precautions and post therapy, but i know they would never understand. My parents saw some of my protein powder when i first started training and almost freaked out, they started askin me about the side effects of takin it. Imagine what would happen if they new i was taking AS!!!

SD
 
lol my dad woulldnt give a shit but the legal aspects on how if u get busted it might be hard to get a job or some shit.....and the syringes make it look way way worse....ppl think syringe with junkie but thats not true with AAS
 
tiger88 said:
..and the syringes make it look way way worse....ppl think syringe with junkie but thats not true with AAS [/B]
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Very true, and they would never think its actually safer than using orals!:bawling:
 
My wife said she'd give me my HRT shot every week. Does this count?? J/K. I know I'm not a real gearhead. Somthing for me to strive for....Anyway, I think every situation is different. just b/c she is cool now doesn't mean 5 yrs from now she will be. I love my wife and we have an open and honest relationship but if I ever were to take it to the next level, I don't think it's info I would volunteer. At the same time, I wouldn't lie to her if she asked.
 
ElAndrogenico said:



how much test is seh using ? i told my gf to use eq 100mg/week, do you think is enough or what ?, thx
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Bro, a women on HRT vs. doing a cycle are two totally different things. Further, cycling for women is totally different than for men. I know only a little about cycling for women, so I will only say that dose looks high to me. The last thing you want to do is go too high in a women's cycle, particularily with a long acting ester like EQ (if she starts getting masculinization, you can't quickly reverse it). If you are considering advising your gf on a cycle go to the womens board and do a lot of research. See posts by Realgains and Warlobo.

FYI - if I were to give my wife a cycle, it would be anavar 5mg a day for 8wks with careful monitoring for masculinization....
 
I told my best friend and it turned out to be a mistake. Ive only done 2 cycles but now whenever I begin to look good for summer he just assumes on back on gear and accuses me of it. Its a pain in the ass, noone realizes the hard work still has to go into making you look good even with gear. They assume you take a magic pill and bam you are all jacked up
 
I told my wife and asked her not to speak about it to anyone except my best friend. That was a mistake. She ended up telling some of her friends and I'm sure they think negatively of me now.

My wife is against the shots but doesn't mind the orals (makes a lot of sense I know but there is no reasoning or educating her). Now I just keep quiet about it and don't tell a sole. I think she suspects I am on but would not go through my stuff. She is pretty respectfull of my privacy. I keep some HRT gel around and tell her that's all I am on.

We are both around 30 and her sex drive is increasing while mine is decreasing. She gets laid more when I am on and I get more muscle so I don't see what the big deal is about me being on! Told her I am looking into DR perscribed/monitored HRT.

Some women there is just no reasoning with.
 
I've been with my bodybuilder BF for about a year now and I suspected his use. I straight out asked him to tell me the truth. I told him straight up that lying and secrets are no way to build intimacy. He looked me in the eye for a good 30 seconds... I could see him weighing his options.. and finally he said "yes."

What he didn't know is that I had found his "stash" and if he'd lied, I was out the door right then. Good man. He's a keeper! :)

Turns out he'd never told ANYONE before. I told him I was cool with it, but asked him teach me everything he was doing and why.. and educate me about possible side effects, what I should watch out for, etc.

I feel strongly he's a grown man and can do what he wants with his body. I expect the same amount of respect. I wouldn't dream of asking him not to do what he felt he needed ~ that includes this or anything else he needs to do with his body or his life path. He does know that if he gets aggressive or weird that some changes will be in order which is either me out the door or him changing what he's taking.
 
manfromba said:
Married my wife 5 years ago and before that I was all natural, hit the gym 5 days a week, and looked damn good. After I said "I do" I let myself go to shit. I ate everything I wasn't supposed to, quit the gym and lived fat and happy with my wife.

Last I year I got really depressed when I realized I was getting wider and wider. I looked at old photos and got really depressed. So I joined a gym at 6' tall and 285lbs one year ago. Within 7 months I dropped 85lbs. Hell yeah!!

Well I got down to 190lbs and started eating a lifters diet, and went back up to 200lbs.

Decided to take the AS plunge (besides a little experimenting with WinV a few months ago) and now I am running sust and deca. Now my weight is up to 208lbs and thanks to liquidex, hardly any bloat.

Anyway back to the point. The other night my wife looked at me and said "WOW, your hardwork is finally paying off, your arms are bigger, your chest is getting chisled, stomach is still a little flabby haha!" The she asked what I was doing to get these latest results?

Well, I went into a long explanation about diet, hard work and hundreds of dollars of supplements from GNC. So far she bought it. Problem is she isn't stupid, as my gains increase so will her suspicions of AS use. My wife is pretty conservative, she barely drinks and thinks that weed is as bad as anyother drug.

Anyone else hide their AS use from their GF's/Wives? I figure that I am going to have to guy a bottles of celltech and empty them for proof!!
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she's eventually going to find out...so why not tell her?
If she catches you lying about it suddenly all her suspiscions will be that you lied about everything...eventually you will leave something out, get a bad bruise, or the cops show up-god forbid-telling her now she will support you she is your wife educate her on the facts it's not like you are on 4 grams a week year round...believe me it will be a lot better on peace of mind and heck she might even start popping ya...now that's what I call bonding...
 
yea i told my girl after my first cycle and she was OK with it after she knew how much i knew about it....at first she thought it was dangerous cause she hadnt known anything at all about it but then i educated her on what i know how i knew it and how i have this board that will help me and assist me on everything i didnt know
 
Jason,

I married this woman knowing how conservative she is. Actually meeting her was one of the best things I did because I was pretty reckless and heading down a wrong road before I met her. With her conservative philosophy she would never understand or even want to understand how to use gear, how safe it can be or how it improves everything about me, body and mind. Telling her now would just put us in divorce court.

I am self employed and motivation is the key to my business. Since I got back in shape, everything has been looking good for me. I have a lot of energy, motivation and I don't feel like a fat slob anymore.

I am just going to hope that she never realizes what is going on. She sees me go to the gym 6 days a week, eat clean and pop suppliments.

She doesn't even know anyone who has ever used gear, except for my BB friends and she thinks they got that way from dedication at the gym.

Now if I ever grow arms like Greg Valentino, I'll tell you guys how the divorce went. HAHAHA!
 
rule of thumb,

never tell anyone, espcially wives or girlfriends, because the first time they really get mad at you or you break up with them, they will tell everyone they can, including the divorse court. Say bye, bye to custody of your kids.
 
manfromba said:
Jason,

I married this woman knowing how conservative she is. Actually meeting her was one of the best things I did because I was pretty reckless and heading down a wrong road before I met her. With her conservative philosophy she would never understand or even want to understand how to use gear, how safe it can be or how it improves everything about me, body and mind. Telling her now would just put us in divorce court.

I am self employed and motivation is the key to my business. Since I got back in shape, everything has been looking good for me. I have a lot of energy, motivation and I don't feel like a fat slob anymore.

I am just going to hope that she never realizes what is going on. She sees me go to the gym 6 days a week, eat clean and pop suppliments.

She doesn't even know anyone who has ever used gear, except for my BB friends and she thinks they got that way from dedication at the gym.

Now if I ever grow arms like Greg Valentino, I'll tell you guys how the divorce went. HAHAHA!
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manfromba,
I admire what you have achieved through your efforts....almost 100lbs is a lot ....
However if the relationship is that fragile that it will end it then I don't know....I personally would not like to tip toe around like that but you know her and love her so i can't tell what is right.

I dated a girl a couple of months ago that left me after she asked me and I was honest. she said she could not handle a drug user.
Kind of ironic since she drank and did X and ketamine and smoked when out.
 
jasonstrong said:

manfromba,
I admire what you have achieved through your efforts....almost 100lbs is a lot ....
However if the relationship is that fragile that it will end it then I don't know....I personally would not like to tip toe around like that but you know her and love her so i can't tell what is right.

I dated a girl a couple of months ago that left me after she asked me and I was honest. she said she could not handle a drug user.
Kind of ironic since she drank and did X and ketamine and smoked when out.
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AHHH the power of PUSSY and the Fear of Divorse Court. 2 pretty good reasons. Once your married its a whole different game. Just dont tell anyone and dont leave your gear and pins where she will find them.
 
Well. Here's a thought -- if you can't/won't tell her, yet you love her and want to preserve the marriage, maybe you shouldn't be doing AS. You achieved a lot without them after all ...

If you know your choice to use AS will put you in divorce court, yet you do them anyway, what does that say about your commitment to your marriage? Do you value your own personal wants (not needs) over your marriage?

Not trying to be a dick, just offering another viewpoint and option.


Another thought, perhaps if you were diagnosed with low T and were prescribed HRT through a doctor, you could tell her? It's more expensive, but it can be done.
 
depending on the wife or girlfriend you are probably going to be the only person that is going to know how she reacts to certain issues.

but what she doesn't know won't hurt you
what she does know could very well hurt you

good luck
 
if you can't/won't tell her, yet you love her and want to preserve the marriage, maybe you shouldn't be doing AS.
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Good point! Eventhough I love my wife with all of my heart, I still feel this is something I need to do. That's the best explanation I can give.

As far as hiding gear, no problem I have leases on buildings that she never goes to or has a key for. She really has no interest in my business, she just likes the money that comes in:D
 
My girl gives me my shots. I have told one of my closest friends and thats all. I have had several people accuse me of using steroids but I deny the hell out of it. "No...of course not. I just take lots of protien and creatine."
 
SofaGeorge said:
I wouldn't marry a woman that I had to lie to. I wouldn't have a girlfriend that I had to lie to.

That isn't the kind of relationship I'd ever want to have. YOUR CORRECT!THATS WHY I TOLD MY WIFE JUST IN CASE SHE FINDS OUT,..THAT WAY SHE WONT GET MAD,..UR ONLY BEING HONEST,IF SHE DONT LIKE IT OH WEEL DEAL WITH IT,
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I think you should tell her if you love her and if you think she's "the one." Yes, she might be mad, but if she loves you she'll hear you out. And it would be much worse if she found out on her own and you'd been lying to her the whole time.
 
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