where do you draw the line between

[fistfullofsteel]

i have no control what he other person does. if they keep on doing it, should i still be forgiving.

 

[JohnyJuice]

i have no control what he other person does. if they keep on doing it, should i still be forgiving.

No. Forgive the first time. If they do it again, thy need a beating for a couple of reasons..
1. They were probably never sorry to begin with, they just said it to get out of the situation.
2. They knew it hurt you the first time and didn't care, so they did it again.
3. They are stupid. Stupid for doing it again and stupid for getting caught.

Fuck 'em

 

[fistfullofsteel]

let's go by the lexicon definition of forgive


forgive: 1. To grant pardon for or remission of (something) 2. To cease to blame or feel resentment against. 3. To remit as a debt. 4. To show forgiveness, grant pardon.

 

[Silent Method]

i have no control what he other person does. if they keep on doing it, should i still be forgiving.

Yes, you should forgive - but you should be smart enough to get out of the situation. Lets get specific here, what are you talking about? If your keeping yourself in a situation where your getting pissed on it would seem to me that you are a big part of the problem.

 

[toga22]

Forgiveness is an attribute only of the strong. And for those deeds in which you will never be able to forgive....you must forget. Otherwise, they will remain within you like an open wound...infecting your soul.

~toga

 

[fistfullofsteel]

Yes, you should forgive - but you should be smart enough to get out of the situation. Lets get specific here, what are you talking about? If your keeping yourself in a situation where your getting pissed on it would seem to me that you are a big part of the problem.

i am not talking about anything in particular. i was just wondering that is all. i wonder a lot. i also thought it would be a good topic to talk about. i am not looking for a specific answer. i just wanted some view points of others.


thanks for sharing.

 

[Thaibox]

Beating them is the only true way to say "I forgive you".

Thats not even a little funny shitbag

Anyway, if my girl cheats on me, she's gone. Forgiveness, bullshit, its called betrayal and destroying one's trust. If you forgive that, you're foolish

 

[Silent Method]

i am not talking about anything in particular. i was just wondering that is all. i wonder a lot. i also thought it would be a good topic to talk about. i am not looking for a specific answer. i just wanted some view points of others.


thanks for sharing.

Fair enough. Keep it up.

 

[Silent Method]

Anyway, if my girl cheats on me, she's gone. Forgiveness, bullshit, its called betrayal and destroying one's trust. If you forgive that, you're foolish

I think it's foolish not to forgive. If my girl cheated on me she'd be long gone. I'd forgive her, but that doesn't mean I don't understand what she did to me. I'm not sure you understand what forgiveess is. It's not saying "aww shucks, it's ok honey." Forgivness is a decision to clear your heart of hatred and poison.

 

[mechee]

it's a tough one, there are many circumstances that would affect whether or not to forgive-is it karma coming back @ you for some shit you did to someone, maybe you forgot about, or it could be, like someone said, that their reasons can justify why they did wrong and would make forgiving that person easier, i try to see everything in every possible way that i can just cause everyone doesn't share my views and vice versa.
to forgive is good but never forget-cause it'll happen again