When to tell her???

[aandd]

Dayum! I'm glad I'm not married to some of you guys! My husband decided a few months ago that he wanted to do a cycle, and since I didn't know shit about gear I found my way here so that I could research what he was getting US (yes, US) into.

Quite honestly, given that it is illegal here, I would be fucken PISSED if he got our family involved in gear without giving me a chance to research it and decide if it was a risk I was willing for him to take.

Now, if it's just a GF, and she is not put at risk by your using (ie: you don't live together, have kids together, etc) - then it's probably best to keep it a secret. Women are indeed scandalous when they want to be.

 

[Klowns]

Don't tell anyone if you can help it....My room mate knew cause he went with us to get the stuff from mexico, and one night at one of the house parties, someone was like man you're getting really big. I was like thanks man, a lot of good eating and working out, never went such a long way. My drunk room mate walks up and is like "Well ya, and the steroids" I wanted to punch him right in the face. People look down on you and talk shit when they really know nothing about it.

That stuff spreads fast, all it takes is for 1 other person or yourself to leak it, and anyone that knows you and someone who does know that you're on and your whole lifelong compilation of people you know find out.

I did however tell the girl i'm kinda with now though, only cause i knew she was already cool with it, and she wasn't retarded, she saw the gains and how fast. Now the girl before that, I lied my ass off to glad i did too, what a bitch.

 

[Tux]

I told the last girl I was with, about 2.5yrs ago, and even though we broke up rather badly, she was honest with me when she said she'd never tell a soul. I've not heard a word mentioned to me or about me by anyone about gear. My current gf... well, she's probably the girl I'm going to marry, but I sure as hell wouldn't tell her yet. Her dad is an MD like mine, but even more conservative. She's surprisingly open-minded about a LOT of things though, so in the future, if I do propose, I'll probably tell her. I've never lied to her, not once, so if she asks I'd at least say I used them in the past. She's very naive about some things( only 20), but when she sees me at 205-210lbs at 5'5" and 12% or less bf this winter she's gonna have to know somethings up lol! Luckily she already sees the 10lb bags of protein powder everywhere, the creatine, the glutamine, etc, I'll blame it on that unless she directly asks. But overall I say no. Unless you're married AND trust her implicitly, or she uses also, never tell them... NEVER. The juice ain't worth THAT kind of squeeze.

 

[Güclü_oglan]

i never tell them

 

[stuck]

Everyone's relationship is different, so there's no rule that applies to everyone. I'm sure a lot of women would appreciate the fact you didn't tell them for X years then you marry them and come clean. Yeah that'll go over well. That, and 50% of all marriages end in divorce, alwayse uglier than some gf breakup, so I don't buy into that either. There's no script for doing this. No one's right and no one's wrong.

 

[trying2grow101]

Don't trust anyone including bros because when it comes to pussy or money even you best friends will stab you in the back. And girls love to run their mouths. Just say protein and good genetics is the reason.

 

[_Yossarian_]

I havent read any of the responses on this thread, but I totally agree with whomever said "never".

 

[swordfish151]

Swordfish-
They blow you up so fast its hard to believe anything else would do that that quickly. Maybe its just me, but when I did d-bol everyone who knew me said something about it within a couple of weeks...family, friends, co-workers. If you see someone on a daily basis they're definately a lot more noticable than if you were doing just injectables because the build-up is quicker and more drastic, whereas injectables (most) are more gradual. This is what they're famous for. Have YOU ever done a cycle? Have YOU ever done d-bol?

Yes i have bro, and when i have taken dbol i have taken liquidex.....and no one has come up to me and said "hey..your on DBOL..." get real bro...

 

[230lbs]

Tell who, what?

 

[21gun]

Tell who, what?

exactly