When is the last time you were demied for a kiss, or denied someone else?

[calveless wonder]

Let me hear it!
I met a british girl while I was on vacation in Greece and I hung out with her on the beach with my friend and her friend all day. At night we went to a bunch of bars and then to a club. I was dancing all close and freaky with this chick and whent in for the kiss..... denied. She genuinley liked me so I thought I was good to go. But I was drunk and didn't realize her protective friend was in plain sight sitting with my friend at the bar. The next day my buddy said he saw me get denied, and I was surprised for some reason he saw that. He all along wanted to hook-up with that chick Elle that I was chilling with, and the other girl he was with wasn't ugly... but she was sort of nuts and overly protective of her friend. No worries as I made an australian friend who was even cooler and prettier the next day.

cultural thing bra. alot of english people are like that with public affection.

i got denied due to the girl being in a relationship not too long ago.

its normal to happen to anybody that actually tries to kiss a girl (instead of being a pussy and not)

 

[Oceano]

cultural thing bra. alot of english people are like that with public affection.

lmao

i got denied due to the girl being in a relationship not too long ago.

its normal to happen to anybody that actually tries to kiss a girl (instead of being a pussy and not)

if u go in hard they have no choice

 

[lartinos]

cultural thing bra. alot of english people are like that with public affection.

i got denied due to the girl being in a relationship not too long ago.

its normal to happen to anybody that actually tries to kiss a girl (instead of being a pussy and not)

good info, never knew that

 

[calveless wonder]

I don't know whether reading this thread effected my thought process but it actually happened last night with this chick I met lol. I was dancing with this chick and just went for it really early. She turned her head and I just laughed and we kept dancing. Later in the night we were dancing again, albeit a little more sexually and I redeemed myself.

 

[lartinos]

I don't know whether reading this thread effected my thought process but it actually happened last night with this chick I met lol. I was dancing with this chick and just went for it really early. She turned her head and I just laughed and we kept dancing. Later in the night we were dancing again, albeit a little more sexually and I redeemed myself.

It may have made you think about it more I guess. I fucked up your game, lol.

 

[Jocques Straap]

True Story, I'll try and be brief.

A friend and I were at the D-backs game. Meanwhile, my roommate(male) was also at the game. It was the first "date" between my roommate, and some random girl. Anyways, the kiss-cam comes up on the big screen. They put the camera on my room mate and his date. He moves in for the kiss, the chick turns her head away, and deny' him in front of the whole stadium!! The crowds reaction was priceless!!!

Talk about an awkward next few innings. If a girl did that to me I would probably tell her I was going to the bathroom, but really leave the stadium and find something worthwhile to do with my time. --

 

[calveless wonder]

It may have made you think about it more I guess. I fucked up your game, lol.

Haha. It happened at Mansion too.

But no, it actually did make me think about it in a positive aspect.

The major weakness in my game was always waiting too long for that initial kiss. I fixed a lot of that over the years by saying something specifically about kissing them right before I do it to make it easier but that's hard to do smoothly in a really loud club.

And the realization I came to is, who gives a shit? When you have a decent rappor and at least a tiny bit of attraction just go for it. Its a great strategy because If she's really not into you and you misread her signals somehow she'll most likely tell you something to that effect and you're not dicking around wasting time.

If she doesn't say anything but pulls away, than it most likely just means she's not at that comfort level...yet.so you brush it off, build it up a little more and then go for it later.

Its just like trying to close a sale but managing the objection if it comes up and then reclosing. You just can't be afraid of the rejection

 

[needtogetaas]

True Story, I'll try and be brief.

A friend and I were at the D-backs game. Meanwhile, my roommate(male) was also at the game. It was the first "date" between my roommate, and some random girl. Anyways, the kiss-cam comes up on the big screen. They put the camera on my room mate and his date. He moves in for the kiss, the chick turns her head away, and deny' him in front of the whole stadium!! The crowds reaction was priceless!!!

Talk about an awkward next few innings. If a girl did that to me I would probably tell her I was going to the bathroom, but really leave the stadium and find something worthwhile to do with my time. --

wow

 

[lartinos]

Haha. It happened at Mansion too.

But no, it actually did make me think about it in a positive aspect.

The major weakness in my game was always waiting too long for that initial kiss. I fixed a lot of that over the years by saying something specifically about kissing them right before I do it to make it easier but that's hard to do smoothly in a really loud club.

And the realization I came to is, who gives a shit? When you have a decent rappor and at least a tiny bit of attraction just go for it. Its a great strategy because If she's really not into you and you misread her signals somehow she'll most likely tell you something to that effect and you're not dicking around wasting time.

If she doesn't say anything but pulls away, than it most likely just means she's not at that comfort level...yet.so you brush it off, build it up a little more and then go for it later.

Its just like trying to close a sale but managing the objection if it comes up and then reclosing. You just can't be afraid of the rejection

That club is pretty good, way better than the mansion here in NY.
you don't have to wait on that line do you? That shit sucked, surrounded by douche bags who shouldn't even be allowed in.

 

[calveless wonder]

True Story, I'll try and be brief.

A friend and I were at the D-backs game. Meanwhile, my roommate(male) was also at the game. It was the first "date" between my roommate, and some random girl. Anyways, the kiss-cam comes up on the big screen. They put the camera on my room mate and his date. He moves in for the kiss, the chick turns her head away, and deny' him in front of the whole stadium!! The crowds reaction was priceless!!!

Talk about an awkward next few innings. If a girl did that to me I would probably tell her I was going to the bathroom, but really leave the stadium and find something worthwhile to do with my time. --

Haha howd I miss this post.

But in all reality, that's kinda a shitty position for her to be in on a first date . Talk about pressure.
depends on the inning too lol. But that in itself shouldn't be a dealbreaker.