When do you Ladies settle down?

[Marauder79]

When do you girls think its time to settle down and start thinking about the rest of your life?

Im 25 and most girls i find now are all depressed about finding someone and living up to expectations, security and money etc. etc.Theyre all done school or almost done .

Soooo is it time for you girls to drop that bad boy and go to the one whos gonna be that breadwinner and give you that nice car?

How important is that to you and why does it all of a sudden come at a certain point in your life and when usually?

 

[BUBBLES]

When do you girls think its time to settle down and start thinking about the rest of your life?

Im 25 and most girls i find now are all depressed about finding someone and living up to expectations, security and money etc. etc.Theyre all done school or almost done .

Soooo is it time for you girls to drop that bad boy and go to the one whos gonna be that breadwinner and give you that nice car?

How important is that to you and why does it all of a sudden come at a certain point in your life and when usually?

I am already a breadwinner and I already have a nice car so none of those are important to me since I already have them.

What is hard to find is a guy who is loyal and willing to love a woman unconditionally. I think boredom sets in easily on people and relationships break up or the guy becomes a "bad boy" wanting some adventure.

Every person wishes to settle down at a different age. For me 3 years ago it was 33 but I raised the bar to 40 years of age.

 

[luciano]

hm, the family has no place in the modern society in well developed country where women have good jobs and the legislation on their side .Kids r grown up only by on parent very well .The only force capable to keep that family united seem to be religious( faith) but that is obsolete today so family too .
In the poor countries is simplier , troubles keep man and women together they need each others help .

 

[*MissFit*]

i will never "settle" settle means just that.. that your not quite happy but you will make due with what is there..

i will however be ina relationship when i find a guy that is right for me.. doesn't mean he has money.. like hera i got a job and a car.. don't need that..

 

[Gymgurl]

Around 25 I thought about it

 

[pintoca]

Marauder, Bro... Judging by your threads I would recommend you go out and talk with more women... You will not find the answer to History's biggest enigmas (women and their ways) in this board...

Only practice and self confidence will help you, despite what the odd "Get laid now" manual wants you to believe

 

[Gymgurl]

Hey we can help give him some ideas....

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

when the condom breaks...

 

[Gymgurl]

Get the hell out of Dodge

 

[rudeboyja]

Most girls try to lock you down at like age 14... Seriously, if most people waited until later to settle down, more relationships would last

 

[milo hobgoblin]

For whatever few breif moments something better isnt immediately available they settle down..

 

[Gymgurl]

Depends on the def of settledown

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

Depends on the def of settledown

marriage and all that shit...

 

[TruBalla4Real]

hm, the family has no place in the modern society in well developed country where women have good jobs and the legislation on their side .Kids r grown up only by on parent very well .The only force capable to keep that family united seem to be religious( faith) but that is obsolete today so family too .
In the poor countries is simplier , troubles keep man and women together they need each others help .

You guys are pretty closed minded on this, eh? Men and women are meant to live together, they are different but fit together well. Isn't there an empty feeling when all you do is party, fuck, party, fuck (now I have/am doing my share of this so don't think I am preaching on high)? Can you honestly sit here and tell me that relationships have no long-term value or place in our society? That is precisely why we have so many fucked up kids running around propagating even more fucked up ideas. It's about finding someone you enjoy time with and want to build a life with. Don't let ur broken heart blind you from what could be a great thing.

Also, I am very liberal politically and ideologically but I still see the need for a solid family structure for a multitude of reasons.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

You guys are pretty closed minded. Men and women are meant to live together, they are different but fit together well. Isn't there an empty feeling when all you do is party, fuck, party, fuck (now I have/am doing my share of this so don't think I am preaching on high)? Can you honestly sit here and tell me that relationships have no long-term value or place in our society? That is precisely why we have so many fucked up kids running around propagating even more fucked up ideas. It's about finding someone you enjoy time with and want to build a life with. Don't let ur broken heart blind you from what could be a great thing.

Your screen name so doesn't fit you.

How'd you get a custom title as a non-plat!?!

 

[luciano]

dont get me wrong im pro-family , i only consider her fundation as religious and asociate the modern family crisis with lack of faith , thats all .

 

[rudeboyja]

You guys are pretty closed minded on this, eh? Men and women are meant to live together, they are different but fit together well. Isn't there an empty feeling when all you do is party, fuck, party, fuck .

I feel so empty :>(

From an anthropological point of view, marraige and monogomy are unnatural and men and women aren't meant to live together unless it's for a union to raise children