What's your take on nice guy's finishing last?

[seizer]

small talk does take a lot of energy though.

man, TELL me about it...fucckkkkk

 

[seizer]

man, TELL me about it...fucckkkkk

i have a headache already

 

[heatherrae]

many women like nice guys, some women like assholes.

few women like a man that is a doormat.

true.

 

[StickFigure]

hhmmmm.........

 

[theoak01]

You think this point in itself would make something click in their heads.

in who;s head? mine or womens?

 

[thelion2005]

are women just that messed in the head? what do you guy's think about quality dudes getting treated like shit?

A man of quality simply must wait until he finds a match and/or young women grow up more. I watch so many young women turn their backs on a "good guy" because he is not exciting or dangerous. They make a train wreck of their lives. If they go too far, no man with character will want them, especially if they have children by a bum.

"Messed up women" can be fascinating with almost a siren draw to them. I learned the hard way to look, but not touch. Marrying them is a sure path to your personal and financial destruction.

Wait ... have patience ... frequent places that women of substance go to ... be forgiving of past mistakes if real change has taken place ... look at women from other cultures or countries ... look at care givers, nurses, waitresses.

While you wait, go ahead and give of yourself TO A LIMIT. Then, stop. You may be looking at a person in great need that you can not help ... a person who will run back to the tough guy who beats her.

Finish last? Not really. Who really lost?

 

[seizer]

A man of quality simply must wait until he finds a match and/or young women grow up more. I watch so many young women turn their backs on a "good guy" because he is not exciting or dangerous. They make a train wreck of their lives. If they go too far, no man with character will want them, especially if they have children by a bum.

"Messed up women" can be fascinating with almost a siren draw to them. I learned the hard way to look, but not touch. Marrying them is a sure path to your personal and financial destruction.

Wait ... have patience ... frequent places that women of substance go to ... be forgiving of past mistakes if real change has taken place ... look at women from other cultures or countries ... look at care givers, nurses, waitresses.

While you wait, go ahead and give of yourself TO A LIMIT. Then, stop. You may be looking at a person in great need that you can not help ... a person who will run back to the tough guy who beats her.

Finish last? Not really. Who really lost?

What is the purpose of running back to the "tough guy"?

And as I've bolded your quote, you can sorta guess my situation...seems like she'd rather the dudes who treated her like nothing. It doesnt really add up to me, but I dont think it's supposed to.

The thing that sucks most is that I care more...

 

[seizer]

What is the purpose of running back to the "tough guy"?

And as I've bolded your quote, you can sorta guess my situation...seems like she'd rather the dudes who treated her like nothing. It doesnt really add up to me, but I dont think it's supposed to.

The thing that sucks most is that I care more...

she suckered me right in

 

[theoak01]

she suckered me right in

they always do,one day bro a good girl will come along,thats what I truly believe,id rather spend this time alone then with the wrong girls making all kinds of mistakes just to fill time

 

[sublime35]

I think it's because ( as stated eariler) it seeems like they think they will be able to change him and turn him in to a better person.