What's your take on nice guy's finishing last?

[theoak01]

maybe im just an ugly fucker then lol,I sure as fuck am not a pushover,just have manners and am nice

 

[velvett]

There is a big difference in being nice and being a pushover. My opinion on the differences are;

Pushover -
Smothering types who shower the girl with gifts
Always opening doors
Letting her make most if not all of the decisions
Asking permission to do anything that doesn't involve her

Nice -
Giving compliments when they are needed ie:new outfit, hair style, etc

Performing duties that a woman normally would be unable to do ie: picking up something heavy, killing bugs, etc You can still be nice without having to be at her beck and call

Hearing her side to an issue/idea, giving your side/idea, then agree (NOT COMPROMISE) on something that you both would enjoy.

If it's a woman, not a girl, and knowing that you both don't have something already planned, simply saying "I'm going out with friends tonight" should be the end of it. Tell her where you're thinking about going is fine. None of that "is it okay if I go out with so and so". You're a fucking adult and don't need permission.

OH that is so true.

It actually can apply to both sexes.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

lol damn i knew id get brought into this.

but it seems to be true,if you try and be nice,treat a girl right and be a gentleman you will get walked on,its happened to me a ton. hence im single, fuck it,I wont change who I am just so I have a girlfriend

You think this point in itself would make something click in their heads.

 

[Testosterone boy]

Few women appreciate manners in a male.

You don't always have to be rude to get laid though.

I used to wonder about this phenom...prior to just not caring.

 

[biteme]

Actually I'm too easy going. I think I might be too boring for a lot of women because I don't really like to talk that much. It takes a lot of energy.

 

[Razorguns]

be a MAN.

american males have forgotten how to do that. Esp. in today's age of EMO.

 

[seizer]

You think this point in itself would make something click in their heads.

No doubt. Even if I tried to be a little different, it's be wayyyyy to hard and unnatural. Just wouldnt feel right to me.

 

[seizer]

american males have forgotten how to do that. Esp. in today's age of EMO.

and the thing is, the girls at that age feed them more reason to keep it up. If and once their brains turn on, they're are gonna be farrrrr behind.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

Actually I'm too easy going. I think I might be too boring for a lot of women because I don't really like to talk that much. It takes a lot of energy.

small talk does take a lot of energy though.

 

[Lestat]

many women like nice guys, some women like assholes.

few women like a man that is a doormat.