What's your take on nice guy's finishing last?

[hanselthecaretaker]

EMO = http://www.bofunk.com/video/2675/you_must_be_emo.html

I could only watch about 20 seconds of that shit before wanting to kill. Must not be emo.

 

[MrMuscle]

I always finish last, the girls love it.

 

[velvett]

I always finish last, the girls love it.

RIGHT ON!!!!

 

[GoldenDelicious]

guys who act "nice" want the same things as the guys who act like assholes. they just use a different angle. rather than be direct (or rude) they lurk around their prey pretending to be anything other than what they are (predators) seeking to align themselves with their prey, prior to sexualising the relationship (which is creepy, insidious, and a prelude to the girl being weirded out)

true "nice guys" are few and far between. the ones we're talking about are just another breed of predator. one that stalks a lot longer and sucks a lot harder

cheers

also, im stoned on ambien. ciao

 

[chewyxrage]

You just have to find the right lady and make it clear from the beginning that drama won't be tolerated.

Just be the nice guy who won't take any shit.

 

[blueta2]

You won't finish last with a good woman and that's all you need to worry about anyway. Fuck all the trainwrecks, not worth your time.

BRAVO!!! I love this answer!
You are so right!

 

[blueta2]

You;ll be far more likely to have a successful marriage if you wait until the woman is 30. They go through too many changes. Heck, might even want to wait until they're 50 and desperate. LOL

men go through as many if not more changes up until then also

 

[treilin]

My training partner is 23 yoa and single. He has a college degree, played sports in college and is still jacked, he owns a couple of businesses and makes good money for a young kid, his dad died unexpectedly a couple of years ago and so, he helps his mom pay his brother and sister's college tuition, he's one of the nicest people that I've ever met (probably explains his success in business) and he looks like Brad Pitt before he got friggin weird. . . my wife and all her friends just think he's adorable.

He's been shelved by three different women in the last couple of months. He looks to me for advice cause I'm an old married geezer but I still remember what it was like to be 23 and I recently told him that maybe he was being a little too nice. He's been acting a little more aloof lately. . .I'll let you know how that works out.

Give me his name and number, I won't do him wrong

 

[dullboy]

You won't finish last with a good woman and that's all you need to worry about anyway. Fuck all the trainwrecks, not worth your time.

dullboy says it's self perpetuating, isn't it?

 

[dullboy]

dullboy will explain this as best he can.

you should trust dullboy in these matters because he's a certfied expert.


young girls (under 27ish), generally desire boys whom they have an expectation will impress their social group peers (their girlfriends).

just as women dress for other women (do you guys really give a fuck what bag or shoes a girls wear?), they search for men who will impress other girls.

this is also why girls crave experienced men, but then late cry foul when they get dicked over by the experienced man. literally.