Tall, at least 6' ... broad shoulders, big build .... muscles, but not overly defined, while I admire the extremely cut, I don't want them to hold me, I want some softness...but with muscles you can feel, especially in the arms, back and shoulders.... dark hair, any color eyes .... not overly hairy, but like some chest hair, facial hair okay (I like it when he has the ability to grow facial hair, even if he stays clean shaven), don't like hairless guys .... deep voice .... likes to snuggles ... likes to be silly and have fun ..... sometimes comes home and just throws me on the bed and has his way with me (take charge!) .... asks me about my day ..... kisses me good morning and good night every night ..... debates with me when his opinion differs .... supports me (emotionally) ....