At my parents there was a ham, lamb, some ribs my mom picked up from a charity thing and all the usual sides or whatever.
None of it looked too appealing. I ate a piece of ham; I picked at my sides then shoved the rest on my daughter's plate who wasn't hungry from eating candy all day.
I left before I could see what sweet stuff was around.
Someone had the brilliant idea to do an egg toss. So, there was about 30 people outside in their best clothes getting egg all over them, that was better than dinner. Lol