What would you do if your 16 old kid did this?

[biteme]

you should put her in a boot camp. There are dangers of giving her to the authorities based on what she would tell them about you. Either way, you should cut ties with her. Sorry, I know it's harsh and I'm sure there's ample blame to be put on you as well for how she is. But you just can't operate like that. She needs to go somewhere where she can find herself........it's obvious it's not with you and not with her mother either. You can make the argument she's a product of a brokenhome bro........but that's the way it is. She has to find her own way now.

I've been thru the steroid accusations before with the ex-wife. Not worried about that... I only brought up the pot issue because the mother is doing it with her.. I wouldn't give a rat's ass if she did it on her own.... If anyone else did to me what my daughter did... I would definitely have them arrested... so I wonder if I should treat her any differently.

 

[redsamurai]

I've been thru the steroid accusations before with the ex-wife. Not worried about that... I only brought up the pot issue because the mother is doing it with her.. I wouldn't give a rat's ass if she did it on her own.... If anyone else did to me what my daughter did... I would definitely have them arrested... so I wonder if I should treat her any differently.

there should be options other than putting her in jail with the other riff's that'll only make her come out worse. Boot camp bro.......

 

[redsamurai]

But you know, if she doesn't make any amends for what she did, maybe you do have to have her arrested. I dunno........

 

[biteme]

I'd be satisfied if they made her get a job and pay for the damages. The girl loves her money. That would be the motivation that might prevent her from ever doing something like that again.

 

[redsamurai]

I'd be satisfied if they made her get a job and pay for the damages. The girl loves her money. That would be the motivation that might prevent her from ever doing something like that again.

I gott ask bro, does she think you're just going to forget about this? Like does she expect to be welcomed back into your home?

 

[biteme]

I gott ask bro, does she think you're just going to forget about this? Like does she expect to be welcomed back into your home?

We'll see. She hasn't tried to come back yet, but when she does she will not be welcomed.. without a sincere apology and after making amends for the damages. I don't think it'll happen.

 

[redsamurai]

We'll see. She hasn't tried to come back yet, but when she does she will not be welcomed.. without a sincere apology and after making amends for the damages. I don't think it'll happen.

Why not just leave her to your ex? Cut ties alltogether? You're indebted for what, 3 more years?

 

[jerseyrugger76]

I didn't read thru all 8 pages, but can you send a chick to military school? You obviously don't want her with you and it sounds like leaving her with your ex will only encourage her to become even more self-centered and disrespectful than she already is. So, I'd say military school (boarding, not a day school), or turn her in and get her acquainted with the prison system. And her mother too.

 

[Sean Scott]

Bro I feel sorry for you. You really cannot do anything I live in Michigan and your not an adult untill 17. So you would be dragged through the system along with your child. Also if you have been taking care of her and you are her guardian you just cant throw here out at her age. becareful wiht that.

Cut your loses ask her nmother to take her an never allow her to return. after she is miss used by enough men she will relize how much of a fuck stick she is..

 

[gotmilk]

how are her grades in school?