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theoak01

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im in a weird spot,ive got this friend,ive always been into her,and now shes got a job with the company im with and on the job im currently on,we have been spending tons of time together having a blast and im liking her alot more every day.

im not to sure how to read her though,not sure if she thinks of me as only a friend or what.

now im shy,dont know how to approach this,nor do i wanna make work weird as we sometimes travel for months on end and that would suck.

how would you guys approach this?

i dont want any bullshit remarks by the way,only straight up answers.
 
first off does she have a man? if not does she have any female friends that you know that you could ask them how she feels about you or drop the hint that you have feelings for her. if not play it cool and drop a few subtle hints that you are intereseted in her and see how she reacts to it.

but i warn you its not a good idea to date in the workplace man, never turns out good.
 
It is an ideal situation for your since you are into her. But still a difficult situation to encounter. Just take your time, I would be slightly flirtacious but nothing over the top.
 
Just roll with the punches man, don't get ahead of yourself, but don't let the opportune moment pass you by. When you feel the time is appropriate ask her out on a date. Problem here is whether she sees you as a friend and the only "safe" person in a strange place, or if she is genuinely interested. Use your instincts brocephalus.

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
no female friends of hers,nope,ive dropped a few hints i think,but fuck im shy and retarded with women.

as for in the workplace i know its a bad idea most of the time,but i liked her before and the more time i spend with her i cant stop thinking about her
 
theoak01 said:
no female friends of hers,nope,ive dropped a few hints i think,but fuck im shy and retarded with women.

as for in the workplace i know its a bad idea most of the time,but i liked her before and the more time i spend with her i cant stop thinking about her
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sometimes you have to go out on a limb and take a chance of lookin like a retard. just straight up tell her how you feel and see how it goes.
 
Scotsman said:
Just roll with the punches man, don't get ahead of yourself, but don't let the opportune moment pass you by. When you feel the time is appropriate ask her out on a date. Problem here is whether she sees you as a friend and the only "safe" person in a strange place, or if she is genuinely interested. Use your instincts brocephalus.

Cheers,
Scotsman
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ya man thats what im afraid of,her seeing me as the only guy she knows in a company full of perverts,fuck,i suck
 
im comfortable as hell around her when we just hang out and such,everytime i think about asking her on a date my stomach gets in knots im so nervous.

i think im just gonna risk it
 
theoak01 said:
im comfortable as hell around her when we just hang out and such,everytime i think about asking her on a date my stomach gets in knots im so nervous.

i think im just gonna risk it
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thats the only way to really ever know how she feels
 
theoak01 said:
im comfortable as hell around her when we just hang out and such,everytime i think about asking her on a date my stomach gets in knots im so nervous.

i think im just gonna risk it
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get drunk and do it!!!
LOL jk

You just need to put yourself out there and be in a vulnerable position.
Best of luck to you! :doc:
 
theoak01 said:
im comfortable as hell around her when we just hang out and such,everytime i think about asking her on a date my stomach gets in knots im so nervous.

i think im just gonna risk it
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Just fucking do it damn it.

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
theoak01 said:
no female friends of hers,nope,ive dropped a few hints i think,but fuck im shy and retarded with women.

as for in the workplace i know its a bad idea most of the time,but i liked her before and the more time i spend with her i cant stop thinking about her
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A few drinks to loosen up would probably help you out. It also gives you an excuse to look like an ass. If she shoots you down make a joke of it, so things won't be weird for either of you. Good luck bro
 
why are you going to verbalise it, and pin the whole thing on a yes/no answer? you crazy or what?

the girl is probably comfy around you
the girl HAS to spend time with you (giving you lots of access to her personality)

what you need to do is make yourself attractive to her, to match the comfort she feels for you (thus avoiding the 'friend' zone) so you need to start alluding to the other women who like you, the quality people you hang out with, the manly alpha qualities you posses bla bla bla

the absolute biggest fuckup you can make right now is to hit on her before she likes you. make ehr like you first. THEN ask her out
 
GoldenDelicious said:
why are you going to verbalise it, and pin the whole thing on a yes/no answer? you crazy or what?

the girl is probably comfy around you
the girl HAS to spend time with you (giving you lots of access to her personality)

what you need to do is make yourself attractive to her, to match the comfort she feels for you (thus avoiding the 'friend' zone) so you need to start alluding to the other women who like you, the quality people you hang out with, the manly alpha qualities you posses bla bla bla

the absolute biggest fuckup you can make right now is to hit on her before she likes you. make ehr like you first. THEN ask her out
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Best advice yet
 
theoak01 said:
im in a weird spot,ive got this friend,ive always been into her,and now shes got a job with the company im with and on the job im currently on,we have been spending tons of time together having a blast and im liking her alot more every day.

im not to sure how to read her though,not sure if she thinks of me as only a friend or what.

now im shy,dont know how to approach this,nor do i wanna make work weird as we sometimes travel for months on end and that would suck.

how would you guys approach this?

i dont want any bullshit remarks by the way,only straight up answers.
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Slip in some jokes about sex when conversation allows it, and check her reaction towards it, and you. You gotta be completely neutral and casual about it though....otherwise she'll probaby know what's up.

But if you wanna just go for it, be ready for any consequences and wierdness. If it works, awesome. If not, you still work together so it's gotta be :whatever: or else.... :insane:
 
Don't do it unless you plan on marrying her or quitting the job. It will be hell if it doesn't work.





or ask her, "Would you ever date a coworker?" See what she says. lol @ giving advice after I said "Don't do it.". lorloa
 
good job, hopefully you get to play with some boobies or something.
 
well we went,had fun,after we went off on our own anyway,my buddies and their girlfriends are all about the pda and that made us both uncomfortable,however i still cant read this girl,so I doubt ill pursue it any further
 
theoak01 said:
well we went,had fun,after we went off on our own anyway,my buddies and their girlfriends are all about the pda and that made us both uncomfortable,however i still cant read this girl,so I doubt ill pursue it any further
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Ok something isn't right here.....You went and "had fun" but you don't think you'll pursue her? So how'd you fuck it up and/or what happened?
 
theoak01 said:
no female friends of hers,nope,ive dropped a few hints i think,but fuck im shy and retarded with women.

as for in the workplace i know its a bad idea most of the time,but i liked her before and the more time i spend with her i cant stop thinking about her
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Oak let her make the first move. It will be subtle ( you may not pick up on it )
but if she's interested she will keep on until she gets your attention. :qt:

Just be cool. :)
 
theoak01 said:
im in a weird spot,ive got this friend,ive always been into her,and now shes got a job with the company im with and on the job im currently on,we have been spending tons of time together having a blast and im liking her alot more every day.

im not to sure how to read her though,not sure if she thinks of me as only a friend or what.

now im shy,dont know how to approach this,nor do i wanna make work weird as we sometimes travel for months on end and that would suck.

how would you guys approach this?

i dont want any bullshit remarks by the way,only straight up answers.
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Good luck with this my buddy. I don't know what to tell you here. :)
 
crew9 said:
Ok something isn't right here.....You went and "had fun" but you don't think you'll pursue her? So how'd you fuck it up and/or what happened?
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didnt fuck it up,we had a blast,still hang out all the time,go for food together after work etc.

i just didnt think i got a sign saying "make a move stupid"

so im gonna take pamelas advice and keep my eyes open for her to make a move.
 
theoak01 said:
im in a weird spot,ive got this friend,ive always been into her,and now shes got a job with the company im with and on the job im currently on,we have been spending tons of time together having a blast and im liking her alot more every day.

im not to sure how to read her though,not sure if she thinks of me as only a friend or what.

now im shy,dont know how to approach this,nor do i wanna make work weird as we sometimes travel for months on end and that would suck.

how would you guys approach this?

i dont want any bullshit remarks by the way,only straight up answers.
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Ummm. . .like you just did. . .only to her instead of us. . .honesty will take you a long way in life. Be careful though, office romances are almost always trickier. . .some companies even have rules against it, especially if one person could end up being the other one's boss. I've seen a lot of very successful ones, though. In this busy-ass world of ours, it's hard to meet/spend time with people outside of work.

Proceed with caution. . .but, proceed. :)
 
thanks bro,its def hard in my line of work as we are on assignment for months at a time working 7 days a week 12-18hrs a day.

however both of us get along great,ive known her before she came on with the company and neither of us plan this as our career we want to be cops,this is a stepping stone
 
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