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I've been friends with a girl from grad school for now like 3 months.
Right from the start we had great chemistry and flirted a lot. From the first day she complimented my body and said that she was attracted to me physically.
We have had many arguments right from the start. We argue like we are lovers or something. Every single time its me being a jerk. I always apologize. She has told me on several occasions that I would be the perfect boyfriend for her, if I wouldn't be so mean to her sometimes. I do admit that sometimes in our arguments I say things that I regret and that it hurts her for sure. She compliments me all the time, ...about my body, clothes, being "cute", funny, and outgoing. I pretty much never compliment her, and she said that is part of the problem. I sometimes don't treat her like a lady ...when she asks if I think she is pretty, normally I act like an idiot and say no.
We have a very strange interaction, where we both feel the need to one up each other. She says I try to put her in her place, and I said the same. In public we do this alot. When we are alone we have some great conversations and really "connect" as she put it. She says I'm a little full of myself...she has also told me on several occasions that she wants to marry someone like her dad, and that I'm so much like him. Also when I talk to other girls she acts really annoyed with me and ...when I dont want to go out she gets really mad ...says if I dont go she will never talk to me again...etc. We have very simliar personalities and in some ways I dont think I have ever connected with someone in this way.
I need some input.
Should I bother to continue this...is she giving me the signal that if started treating her like a lady ...she would give me a whirl?
Right from the start we had great chemistry and flirted a lot. From the first day she complimented my body and said that she was attracted to me physically.
We have had many arguments right from the start. We argue like we are lovers or something. Every single time its me being a jerk. I always apologize. She has told me on several occasions that I would be the perfect boyfriend for her, if I wouldn't be so mean to her sometimes. I do admit that sometimes in our arguments I say things that I regret and that it hurts her for sure. She compliments me all the time, ...about my body, clothes, being "cute", funny, and outgoing. I pretty much never compliment her, and she said that is part of the problem. I sometimes don't treat her like a lady ...when she asks if I think she is pretty, normally I act like an idiot and say no.
We have a very strange interaction, where we both feel the need to one up each other. She says I try to put her in her place, and I said the same. In public we do this alot. When we are alone we have some great conversations and really "connect" as she put it. She says I'm a little full of myself...she has also told me on several occasions that she wants to marry someone like her dad, and that I'm so much like him. Also when I talk to other girls she acts really annoyed with me and ...when I dont want to go out she gets really mad ...says if I dont go she will never talk to me again...etc. We have very simliar personalities and in some ways I dont think I have ever connected with someone in this way.
I need some input.
Should I bother to continue this...is she giving me the signal that if started treating her like a lady ...she would give me a whirl?
Someone can read more than ten of those capitalized words? Good for you. Hurts my brain to know that a writer is more interested in pleasing himself than 20 or so readers.
