what the hell is going on?

[cal]

TXArmyGuy
I think you have a point there.

She does try to change a lot of things about me...and really makes a big deal about it...how I dress, what I do, etc...

 

[sigweed]

lol sounds like an old married couple.

im missing something though... you're both attracted to each other, yet you treat her baddly.

try not being a cock licker then ask her out.
Women need compliments like plants need water, but you dont need to overdue it. Just tell her she's beautiful sometimes, and you're set.

 

[cal]

yes,
I know ...it doesn't make any sense. She pointed that out. I treated all my female friends great, and she always asks why I dont treat her like I treat one of our mutual female friends...and why I have to treat her in this unpredictable way. Im about to move to...I dont think I will be moving to her complex though...lol.

We had talked about it briefly.

 

[cal]

asking her out is not a problem...i think right now i just need to establish more trust with her and lay low a bit.

we hang out a lot and talk till 5 in AM at her place, ...eat out togehter and of course she feels the need to always shop for clothing for me...and such, we have also gone out a few times to bars...and such together. Oddly enough every time we get about to do something physical I have to say something not so charming and ruin it all.

I guess I havent given up BC I do think she is a great person, charming and very fun and of course beautiful. I think though I will explore other options during the time being...continue our "friendship" and not take things too seriously and hopefully I can win her trust...

 

[Puddles]

It sounds like you're being defensive because you're afriad of getting too close with her and getting hurt. Have you had an abusive childhood or been in a painful relationship in the past that would cause you to hurt her before she hurts you" kinda thing?

 

[Testosterone boy]

I agree with Kayne.

Someone can read more than ten of those capitalized words? Good for you. Hurts my brain to know that a writer is more interested in pleasing himself than 20 or so readers.

 

[cal]

Mrs. Puddles,
Yes I was abandoned by my parents when I was four years old.

 

[Imnotdutch]

Someone can read more than ten of those capitalized words? Good for you. Hurts my brain to know that a writer is more interested in pleasing himself than 20 or so readers.

lol........well the capitals threw me for a bit but once I figured out the code it was easy.

 

[KAYNE]

Someone can read more than ten of those capitalized words? Good for you. Hurts my brain to know that a writer is more interested in pleasing himself than 20 or so readers.

JUST BECAUSE YOUR INTELLECTUAL LEVEL IS SUB-PAR, DOESNT MEAN EVERYONE ELSE'S IS.

BESIDES, I DONT DO THINGS ON HERE TO PLEASE ANYONE ELSE. IF I'M NOT GOING TO PLEASE ME, WHO IS?


KAYNE

 

[XBiker]

BESIDES, I DONT DO THINGS ON HERE TO PLEASE ANYONE ELSE. IF I'M NOT GOING TO PLEASE ME, WHO IS?


KAYNE

I hear AAP has got yur back.