O.k. pondering on this... So is that why it's easier for guys to sleep with more and more women because they have no soul? I'm not just saying men... women do the same thing too. So to make up for their lost soul they need a virgin or a women less inhabited? They find that they are empty after sleeping with tons of people and so they want to fulfill the desire to be mated and so they choose a 'good' person as the mate? Yet they feel that even though they inhabited the land that the other person should not be given the same freedom to come to the same conclusion? Would it make more sense to want to marry someone who has come to the same conclusion as yourself, and not only just that but then they will also be more experienced? Why marry someone who hasn't learned similar trials and errors in life? Why marry someone who is adolescent and still has much to learn? Ohh I could keep going with questions here... Just getting different views....biteme said:Well here's the way I look at it. The longer you are single, the more people you are gonna end up sleeping with, so it doesnt matter to me as long as she isn't the type of person that has say 4 different partners a month for years on end. I couldn't even do that. It takes a piece of my soul even though I'm horny and can't help myself. It takes more than solely looks as that will fade as you said.