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hanselthecaretaker said:Definitely a virgin for wife material (but it would be so tough to find an all around good one in this day and age). In fact psychologically speaking, as far as she goes, it would lend itself to a great advantage. Provided she's with a good guy, she would develop her sexuality to fit mesh with her man's from the get go. Part of the reason the divorce rate is so high today has to do with morals from a sexual standpoint declining- more accurately, with so much freedom to get casual sex these days, not many are left who have the discipline to stick out a commitment....and sex used to be a somewhat sacred part of that commitment in a marriage. Now it's just another thing. The "no sex before marriage" rule (if you want to call it that) was a good moral safeguard of sorts that reinforced structure in a relationship and provided discipline that would naturally be much easier to carry through into a marriage. It's so accepted these days to do the easy thing that most of us find it odd that anyone would want to have it any other way.
Obviously there are advantages and disadvantages to both moral standpoints.
well said