what do you think?

[daised]

2 weekends ago i did not go out at all except for the football game for an hour
last weekend i went out with my sister for 3 hours and to the football game
this weekend i went to the football game, and now my parents are trying to pull this crap that i can't go out tonight.

fuck this, fuck them. I've tried living by thier rules (why i havn't done anything the pst two weekends) but they are getting ridiculous. NOw they say i can't go out tonight b/c i didn't give them notice and i have to babysit. my question is where was my notice? Shouldn't i have been informed that i had to babysit tonight before 25 min before they left. My sisters are 13 and 11 they are both trained for safe sitter. Instead i have to sit around here and watch my parents come stumbling in at 1 am drunk? And when i asked my dad why i wasn't given any notice about them going out he said, you aren't the parent. I said neither are you.

I think I'm going to leave anyway.

 

[BO-CEPHUS]

Either leave THEIR home or shut the fuck up!

It is that simple...

 

[daised]

Either leave THEIR home or shut the fuck up!

It is that simple...

no it's not because i'm only 17. i can't legally leave.

 

[BO-CEPHUS]

no it's not because i'm only 17. i can't legally leave.

Then you will have to live by their rules until you are 18 years old.

 

[daised]

but i can't

 

[BO-CEPHUS]

but i can't

Why not?

 

[decem]

no it's not because i'm only 17. i can't legally leave.

quit hiding behind the law... i moved out when i was 17.. granted it was with a girlfriend who lived only 5 miles away.. and it was only for 3 weeks.. but i still moved out.

 

[daised]

my parent would call the cops and have me detained, hell they have done it before.

anyways, so this was me being rebelous: I went out to McDonalds for dinner and lekt my sisters home alone for 1/2 an hour, now i'm drunk with my little sister.

 

[K2_Exotech]

Daised, getting drunk isn't getting back at your parents, I know you may not feel like your trying to. But search yourself, don't you kindof feel that if you weren't mad at them you wouldn't want to?

Me personally, I hate beer. It tastes like horse urine, and I have to drink lots to get drunk. I smoke instead. it's a good taste, the high is better, and there's no barfing. If only weed were legal.

 

[daised]

oh yeah, i totally rather smoke, but i don't have those type of provisions on me right now, and don't have time to go get them,

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

Hmmm...You are babysitting, but you are drinking....and prefer to be smoking. Your parents will be home later, drunk.

Well, it seems like they are shitty parents, and you are following in their footsteps.

Well done. I am sure they are proud.

 

[daised]

Hmmm...You are babysitting, but you are drinking....and prefer to be smoking. Your parents will be home later, drunk.

Well, it seems like they are shitty parents, and you are following in their footsteps.

Well done. I am sure they are proud.

i'm not drunk. i always say i'm going to have a drink then stop. I use to drink even when my dad's drinking was bad and u knew he was an alcoholic. but the past couple of weekends i couldn't make myself drink. I get it out and just let it sit there. I just stare at the cup, I want to pick it up so bad because i know when i drink I don't have to face reality and I don't want to. But still I can't make myself drink. So instead i usulayy just end up going to bed around 8 hoping that everything will be better in the morning, but it never is.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

Never said you were drunk. Said you were drinking. Said your parents will be drunk.

Stay alert, stay alive.

 

[Balls of Steel]

Daised cracks me up. What a slut, if i was in one of your classes I would make fun of you all period. Im a good kid and you are a loser. You should be more like me, I have nver drank smoke etc. I get straight a's and am the man. My gf (she isnt my gf yet) is the exact opposite of you. She is a sweet nice good girl, and she hasnt used drugs ever. SHe will be ok, but you, you are a slut. Maybe it is becuase her parents are religious, and they raised her right.

You think all this crap you do makes you cool, but five years from now you will still be a litte immature girl, who depends on her parents becuase you didnt give a fuck about anyone but yourself and your childish games growing up.

I dont get along with my parents either, but I dont fuck up my life and be a druggie slut just to rebel against them like you.

What are your grades may I ask? If you dont have all a's then maybe you should be studying and not going out. Get a job, I work 20 plus hours a week just so i can afford supplements.

You think you are hot shit, but you aint nothing. I know many girls like you, i just ignore them when they try and talk to me. I have no use for skumbags.

 

[daised]

Balls of shit

I don't thik this stuff makes me cool. I started it because I thought it would make me cool. I now do it because it is a habit. I use to work 60 hours a week during the summer, and 40 hours a week during the school year but my parents made me quit because "they never saw me." I use to have a 3.7 but i honestly don't care abour my grades anymore... it's hard to explain.
Also I am religious, I go to a Catholic school and have since I was 5, so i doubt that is the reason wh yyou gf has not done drugs. She also proabbly didn't grow up in a house where drugs were common. She probabbly grew up in a house where her parents supported and loved her, unfortunately I didn't. Think before you talk.


I am not a slut

 

[daised]

also i am thiking about sending this to the defense attorney on Pucs case. what do you guys think?

I thought about what was going on right now in my life and realised that maybe you don't know what it is like to be me. I find it ironic that in a time were the United States is trying to "stand UNited" you are keeping me from the person that I am closest too. He was my support, is my support, and will be my support. You can not stop this, although I know you are trying at
this very time. PUC has saved my life, at time I did not want to live
he was the only one who told me I mattered. He taught me that you could drink without being an alcoholic. My father is an alcoholic and I use to drink all the time. When I was with Puc (as in when we were dating not when we were physically together) I drank less, but I realised I could have a casual drink without aganizing myself over it. puc showed me that I could make
myself happy, but I had to do it. Lately I've had to deal with many
tramatizations, and when others have someone there to support them I don't. I am now realiant on drugs (prozac) because I have no other support to stop me from my sucidial tendencies. My grades have slipped from a 3.7 to a 2.8 on a four point scale. I must admit I do more drugs now than I did when with Puc (onceagina refering to the time period when i was dating him, not when I was physically with him) because I have no warmth in my life. My father is an alcoholic that goes on rages, and has frequent mood swings. My mother is in denial about my father,
drinks ocassionally, and has mood swings consistantly. I have never seen her take responsibility for something. She has never once said "it is my fault." My little sisters grow up in a totally unstable enviornment, where they cry themselves to sleep. I can not escape this nightmare that replays itself every 24 hours because I am under 18 and not yet "responsible" enough to take
on the burdens of life. But are my parents responsible enoungh? I am under 18 so I can not move out, but I can be charged as an adult in a case with the law. I have gone drinking with my father. I have smoked weed with my father's best friend. I am rejected by my mother as never good enough. So this is my question: When does the justice system work for me?

 

[Lao Tzu]

if you can prove that having him in your life will make your life better or that sending him to prison will make both your lives worse the judge & DA may be more lenient.

 

[daised]

if you can prove that having him in your life will make your life better or that sending him to prison will make both your lives worse the judge & DA may be more lenient.

thanks, realy all you have to do is look at the past couple of months. i've been staying out of trouble, but all i do is smoke and sleep. i don't have to fell that way.

 

[OMEGA]

DAISED BE PATIENT

live by your parents rules till you graduate from college, then get a jobby job, a get your own place.

till then realize that the toughness your parents put on you in their eyes is for your own good.

right or wrong that is their intent.

and you are so young, you haverthe rest of your life to do what you want....finish your education, then do what you want.

because if you leave know, and enjoy the pleasures of youth to the hilt, at the expense of your education, ethics, morality, and common sense, you will never enjoy your later adult hood. youll have to play catch up, academically or professionally

i have seen countless young boys and girls act upon what you are feeling, and most have been ravaged by the doggie dog world that is out there my dear.

especially the good looking girls, that have been led astray, and have been used, abused, drugged upped, and consumed by wolf like men, who had there way with them.

i may sound like a wanna be righteous dude, but I am not that much older than you.....so heed my freindly words, and ignore my gender....

we are both human, and subject to the fallacies of humanity.

please listen

 

[Balls of Steel]

You know, I post alot of BS on these boards, but It is just that, BS. You have serious problems if you use drugs. Personally, i think it is fucked up that youd date somone that much older, and i wont even comment on yours and his drug usage.

My father has spent his fair time in jail for drug abuse (my parents are divorced) and I am friends with him. He is a good guy, but I dont take after him one bit. My parents have always pushed me to suceed, but even if they didnt I would still be sucessful. You have serious problems daised. you should be placed under custody of an aunt or foster parents IMO. Not with puc, he is a bad influence on you if he "teaches" you to drink. There is no excuse for such a bad GPA. I dont understand people like you, you are unmotivated. Everyone has excuses though, but excuses are like assholes, everyone has one, but they are all full of shit if you look at them.

 

[pumpin-N-humpin]

You definetly have problems bro. What you need to do is go down to the recruiting office and pick what branch of service you want to join. I am in the Navy and I have gone through alot before I joined and I can tell you this, I DID NOT JOIN EARLY ENOUGH. You should give that a shot, I think it would be good for you. There is plenty of women in every part of the world for sailors, I am having the time of my life.



You can email me and I will tell you about some of the times in the Navy. I am now in Guam and lovin every minute of it.

 

[Balls of Steel]

Daised is a girl. She is just....well...she is "beastly"

 

[Balls of Steel]

Originally posted by my friend chris (the guy who got hit by fattie
Heya daised, give me a holla

:

LOL

 

[daised]

I know I have problems, and am trying to move past them. IT's hard. I honestly don't know what to do about my parents, but I can't keep living with them for that much longer. IT's not healthy for me.

BOS--- You are lucky, you grew up in a good home where you were given love. I am depressed. I go through moods where I do nothing but lie around and sleep, nothing seems to matter because I am so unhappy. This is why my grades are bad. I will try for a while and then just stop even caring because it doesn't seem to matter. When you struggle to get out of bed everyday, struggle to live each day your grades usually aren't your focus.

 

[OMEGA]

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[Fonz]

BOS, don't EVER get a job as a therapist/doctor because
half your patients would probably committ suicide.

Anyways daised, I'm pretty sure you can petition the court
to "release" yourself from the custody of your parents
if its is BENEFITTING to you AND you can show that
you can hack it on your own. i.e get a job/pay your biils/
be resposible for your own health/etc.. etc...
I believe its called emancipation.

Anyways, you are 17 therefore you only have one more
year to go.

Personally, if i were in your situation i would not leave unless
I made SURE my siters were Ok. I woud definately not leave
if my father was going to do to them as he's doing to you.

The vicious circle has to stop at a certain pint.

Fonz

 

[daised]

i worry about my sisters, I only have another 238 days till i'm 18!! hopefully i can last that long, but it will be sooo hard. I just have to be strong.

 

[OMEGA]

bump

we need musclebrains on this one

 

[daised]

thanks everyone for your support. I think I'm going to get my perscription for prozac upped so I don't have such a hard time dealing with it, but I'll lower it once it's the summer and I have my freedom.