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what do you girls like to do out on a date

sconoscuito

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im thinkin about askin this girl out cause I've been without 1 for a while now

so was wonderin what you girls like to do on dates, what you guys think girls like doin on the date etc

oh and I met this girl on thurs so I was thinkin callin her maybe on wed or thursday, sound good?

p.s. shes not the stripper girl
 
When I do actually go out with women... I will take them somewhere fun and light. Like a park, museum, beach, etc. I am not much for the whole dinner date the first date. Don't like to lock myself or the lady into a whole night when neither of us really know if we like each other yet.
 
i gotta nice car, missin a jet and cash for italian dinner in italy

"When I do actually go out with women... I will take them somewhere fun and light. Like a park, museum, beach, etc. I am not much for the whole dinner date the first date. Don't like to lock myself or the lady into a whole night when neither of us really know if we like each other yet."


I would do that but I dont think I can just talk to her the whole time without almost nothing else to do, I need like an activity. I can play bball, maybe that cause like I can cross her over few times and than dunk on her couple of times, I think she would like that... and maybe buy her a mop towards the end of our date







anyway, I was actually thinkin like hangin out wit her on friday, do some stuff and than hit up a little party or somethin, does that sound bad?
 
go to a movie-lots of options.


you guys got nothing to talka bout, just shut up and watch, you guys got shit to talka bout, talk quietly, you guys ready for some lovin, move to the back handicap section and get it on
 
sconoscuito said:
you guys missed one of my questions

when do you usually call the girl, after how many days?
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depends how much I liked her. Whenever I feel like it. I don't play games like that.

I see nothing wrong with calling the day after and letting her know you had a good time with her (if you did). I always figure if you start out playing games, you will have to keep it up.

But then again I may have misinterpreted what you were implying by that question. If so, my bad.
 
Not sure where you live, but if amusement parks are open this time of year, you could take her to one. That way you're going on rides, playing games and eating food. You won't have to talk the entire time and you could just talk about what you're doing right then.

Oh and call her whenever you feel like calling her... no need to play games. Well, don't call every 2 seconds leaving messages like the guy did in Swingers ;) .
 
Playing pool is a pretty cool first date ativity. I am with Paulo on trying to keep the first date something fun. Dinner dates can lock you in for longer than you may like.
 
ok honest answer


FUN
want to interact with them

movie is too boring and cant get to know them

dinner is ok but dont make dinner the only thing on the date
 
lucidBlue said:
Oh and call her whenever you feel like calling her... no need to play games. Well, don't call every 2 seconds leaving messages like the guy did in Swingers ;) .
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Exactly, lol.
 
after a first date (goes really good)

holw long do u wait to call her back?

and chics what u think is the ideal time?
 
Here's a great FREE first date: Go to the local promenade or any place with a whole bunch of interesting stores, and just fuck around. Go try on silly clothing together, go into music and book stores, etc.

It costs absolutely nothing, it's fun, there's never a shortage of stuff to talk about, and it's an excuse to find out about her. E.G., what cd's does she pick up when you go to tower?

Also, on calling... I find it depends on how much they're into it when you get the number. Like if she's all up in your shiznitty then you want to call quickly so it's fresh in her mind. But if she's only mildly interested you can get away with 2+ days.
 
oh aright so 1 week is coo

i'll ask her if she missed me

she did


she tried to call me through her friend but I didnt pick up just listened to the message

"Also, on calling... I find it depends on how much they're into it when you get the number. Like if she's all up in your shiznitty then you want to call quickly so it's fresh in her mind. But if she's only mildly interested you can get away with 2+ days."

damn Im doin exactly the opposite but you're right I think



aright which is better left or the right side
http://images.cardomain.com/member_images/7/web/523000-523999/523457_3_full.jpg

obviusly I will shave before I go anywhere, maybe even take my glasses off
 
tiger88 said:
after a first date (goes really good)

holw long do u wait to call her back?

and chics what u think is the ideal time?
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Day date - that night or the next day - try and leave her a message of some sort that you had a great time and nothing else.

Night date - call her the next day and say the same - hopefully you'll be planning your next date.

After my second date with the man he had our next three dates planned.

:chomp:
 
casualbb said:
Also, on calling... I find it depends on how much they're into it when you get the number. Like if she's all up in your shiznitty then you want to call quickly so it's fresh in her mind. But if she's only mildly interested you can get away with 2+ days.
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Very true too.
 
superqt4u2nv said:
Playing pool is a pretty cool first date ativity. I am with Paulo on trying to keep the first date something fun. Dinner dates can lock you in for longer than you may like.
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Playing pool is a great choice for dates, first or other wise. Fun environment, beer (if you're old enough), tunes on the jukebox and banter and conversation while oyu guys play. Besides, she might try to make one of those shots where she has to bend all the way into the table to rach the ball, make sure you are in good eye range if this happens.


casualbb said:
Here's a great FREE first date: Go to the local promenade or any place with a whole bunch of interesting stores, and just fuck around. Go try on silly clothing together, go into music and book stores, etc.

It costs absolutely nothing, it's fun, there's never a shortage of stuff to talk about, and it's an excuse to find out about her. E.G., what cd's does she pick up when you go to tower?
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I also like this one. I've had tons of fun dates at the Santa Monica prominade and places of the likes.

If the conversation starts getting dull, ask her if she likes to play "tune in tokyo", always a winner.

My general rule with calling women is to wait atleast 1 week, but thats mostly for the ones that I only felt a superficial interest in. If I meet one that I really dig and feel a little more than superficial interest, then I'll call sooner.
 
fistfullofsteel said:
Mercedes benz limo to your private jet then take her out for an italian dinner in italy. I think a woman might dig that.
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LOL

Too much pressure to find the right dress, shoes and purse.

:worried:
 
casualbb said:
Here's a great FREE first date: Go to the local promenade or any place with a whole bunch of interesting stores, and just fuck around. Go try on silly clothing together, go into music and book stores, etc.
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That was basically my first date with my ex. We went shopping because I needed a dress to wear to a wedding. He helped me pick out dresses to try on and then I modeled each one for him. Then I helped him pick out new shoes. We had a great time. I had never dated anyone that liked to shop before. I always smile when I think of that first date :).
 
sconoscuito said:
aright which is better left or the right side
http://images.cardomain.com/member_images/7/web/523000-523999/523457_3_full.jpg

obviusly I will shave before I go anywhere, maybe even take my glasses off
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well, out of the two, I like the left one better.

On the right, what color pants you got there bro? They don't really match your shirt. Either wear a navy, black, charocoal or maybe a khaki color, but not those. Plus, I don't really dig on the black undershirt thing you got going.
 
I love go carts on those outside tracks.
That is just silly fun.

Best dates - dinner in a village that has little shops that you can walk around and browse after you eat. (great way to get a peek into what each other's into) - Then stop back at a cafe or a place that has great specialty coffee and desserts and mange there.



Movies or any form of live entertainment are not good first dates.
Picnic lunches at the beach at not good first dates.
 
Paulo said:
well, out of the two, I like the left one better.

On the right, what color pants you got there bro? They don't really match your shirt. Either wear a navy, black, charocoal or maybe a khaki color, but not those. Plus, I don't really dig on the black undershirt thing you got going.
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yea the one picture was smugly, I stopped wearing all that stuff for a while cause I pretty much stopped going out since I was playin some bball

anyway
heres some other colors I got

http://images.cardomain.com/member_images/7/web/523000-523999/523457_9_full.jpg

http://images.cardomain.com/member_images/7/web/523000-523999/523457_8_full.jpg

that shit is good, girls like it but I dont think I'm gonna try and go all formal

pants are gray, I got few others like black with this almost invisible little stripes

some good stuff basically
 
I've been lucky and the woman I've dated have always been tied to friends of mine. So getting to know them better just consisted of hanging out with her and our friends and just hooking up. Never really an awkward moment because others are around to keep up the convosations.

I've never really meet someone I didnt know that didnt know the same people I knew. So I didnt have to go out on 'dates" and try to get to know each other.


Actually, come to think of it with my ex we went on dates together to get to know each other. Totally forgot our first date was to Manhattan and we just walked around and went into different stores. I bought her a hot woman tangtop Yankees shirt.
 
flex123 said:
I've been lucky and the woman I've dated have always been tied to friends of mine. So getting to know them better just consisted of hanging out with her and our friends and just hooking up. Never really an awkward moment because others are around to keep up the convosations.

I've never really meet someone I didnt know that didnt know the same people I knew. So I didnt have to go out on 'dates" and try to get to know each other.
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thats somethin that I might do, since she goes to univ with my friends I might just ask everyone if they wanna hang out somehwere or somethin

bring some of my other friends, she can bring hers and just kick it kinda

I dont kno though, I'll see whats up after the call


when you guys call her you call her for a reason right, like ask her what shes doin or if she wants to go out or somethin

I dont wanna just call her and be like blah blah duuuh uuuuhhh so yea

thats why if I call on thursday I can just ask her if she wants to do in on friday or sat
 
sconoscuito said:
oh aright so 1 week is coo

i'll ask her if she missed me

she did


she tried to call me through her friend but I didnt pick up just listened to the message

"Also, on calling... I find it depends on how much they're into it when you get the number. Like if she's all up in your shiznitty then you want to call quickly so it's fresh in her mind. But if she's only mildly interested you can get away with 2+ days."

damn Im doin exactly the opposite but you're right I think



aright which is better left or the right side
http://images.cardomain.com/member_images/7/web/523000-523999/523457_3_full.jpg

obviusly I will shave before I go anywhere, maybe even take my glasses off
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id fuck the guy on the left if his beard wasnt so gay
 
Paulo said:
well, out of the two, I like the left one better.

On the right, what color pants you got there bro? They don't really match your shirt. Either wear a navy, black, charocoal or maybe a khaki color, but not those. Plus, I don't really dig on the black undershirt thing you got going.
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id also like to add that that guy looks pretty weak. maybe you should set him up with a training program to help him get some size, and you can show him a thing or too ;)
 
I cant help the training part too much, I just dont grow.

Been hittin the weights hard, I just get more athletic look and thats all, doc told me its cause I'm still growin(joints, bone structure) plus I have to do lotta runnin for my sport and things dont work out

my brother is 27 and he just started gaining weight, like size wise... before that he was a skinny bastard just like I was
 
SoreArms said:
I also like this one. I've had tons of fun dates at the Santa Monica prominade and places of the likes.
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Dude... 3rd street promenade was exactly what I was thinking of. Nice!
 
Oh, and go for the picture on the right. Yes, change your pants to the colors Paulo mentioned.

Also, ditch the undershirt, and unbutton one or two top buttons. Supposedly this is more likely to make women think of sex.
 
lucidBlue said:
I had never dated anyone that liked to shop before.
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:mix:
 
For dates early into a relationship I think it's nice to go out to eat or go out and be active together (walk around a lake, rollerblade, etc). That gives you a chance to talk.
 
There`s a lake by where I used to live. I would go there and walk aroung the little path that circles the lake and talk while watching ducks or people fishing, walking around etc. You get to know each other, it`s cool. You not even facing each other when talking. You`re just looking straight ahead or looking around. I took my wife there on our first date, right after the nearby Burger King. lol Hey it worked.

Movies are`nt really a good choice IMO. You really need the time to talk with someone and get to know them. You can`t do that at the movies.

Dinner`s cool if it`s casual with drinks. Not a formal suit and tie place.
 
sconoscuito said:
I cant help the training part too much, I just dont grow.

Been hittin the weights hard, I just get more athletic look and thats all, doc told me its cause I'm still growin(joints, bone structure) plus I have to do lotta runnin for my sport and things dont work out

my brother is 27 and he just started gaining weight, like size wise... before that he was a skinny bastard just like I was
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Don't sweat it, I didn't start packing on any decent muscle until my mid twenties.

I'm 27 almost 28 and I've packed on muscle so fast that people are convinced that I juice.(which I don't yet)
 
sconoscuito said:
im thinkin about askin this girl out cause I've been without 1 for a while now

so was wonderin what you girls like to do on dates, what you guys think girls like doin on the date etc

oh and I met this girl on thurs so I was thinkin callin her maybe on wed or thursday, sound good?

p.s. shes not the stripper girl
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You should take her to a place where you can have fun, and talk over dinner - Dave & Busters! You can have dinner there & then have a couple of drinks at the bar - more "talk time"...then have a blast & play! This way you can see if she's a "fun"/exciting person... If she's bored then she's BORING.
 
sconoscuito said:
im thinkin about askin this girl out cause I've been without 1 for a while now

so was wonderin what you girls like to do on dates, what you guys think girls like doin on the date etc

oh and I met this girl on thurs so I was thinkin callin her maybe on wed or thursday, sound good?

p.s. shes not the stripper girl
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A good girl is a great catch so forget the budget. Here is what works for me: Supersize her meal at McDonalds so hunger pangs do not cause grumbling.

When you go to the car wash do not expect her to help. Ask her the name of her fav radio station so she can listen to tunes while you wash the wheels.

Wear tight pants so she fully appreciate all the hard gym work as you fill the gas tank and help create an illusion of spending loads of money.

When you see some nice flowers in somones yard, stop and get some for her.

Do not mention your other squeezes while fielding various cell phone calls. They like to eavesdrop.

Do not vidoetape the sex. The red lcd light on the camcorder glows in the dark and can really ruin your game.


Just a start really.
 
MissJanet79 said:
You should take her to a place where you can have fun, and talk over dinner - Dave & Busters! You can have dinner there & then have a couple of drinks at the bar - more "talk time"...then have a blast & play! This way you can see if she's a "fun"/exciting person... If she's bored then she's BORING.
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dave and busters ROCKS !!!


awsome place


i miss chicago sometimes but then when i see the palm trees i dont :)
 
For a first date...a theme park cant be beat...ride those 2/3 scale indy cars...play putt-piutt, shoot pool........go and split 3-4 appetizers, slpit desseret and coffee.
 
tiger88 said:
dave and busters ROCKS !!!

awsome place

i miss chicago sometimes but then when i see the palm trees i dont :)
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Yeah weather can be crappy...but I really can't complain... I love having seasons... Plus my family lives here - can't live w/out them!! :qt: :heart:
 
Geez.....I kind of wish that I felt like dating. I think it is possible to go on enough dates to figure them out and pretty well lose interest in the scene.

I could write a book on bad experiences. Women are NO better than men.
 
Actually, the second date.. Roller/Ice skating is a must..
Lots of required touching, hand holding, hugging etc and no guilt doing it..
 
Dinner, some mini golf, if its still going well, hit a nice quiet lounge, then if you still wanna hang, you go somewhere that you can talk some more for awhile.
 
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