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What do you consider marrying young?

She's 22 I'm 25. Been together for 2 1/2 years. Had a 5 month break up last winter/spring. Living together for like 3 weeks. She wants to be settled down w kids at 25. That's typically how it goes in her family

She needs to get that attitude of "I must do this by this age" out of her head. Kim Kardashian is a complete moron, but that is what she blamed her last wedding on.
 
She's 22 I'm 25. Been together for 2 1/2 years. Had a 5 month break up last winter/spring. Living together for like 3 weeks. She wants to be settled down w kids at 25. That's typically how it goes in her family

She is what is known as a "time liner"
She has to have xyz by age such and such. In this case the things she has to have by a certain age (marriage/kids) cant be forced by a certain age and have to happen naturally on their own timeline.
So are you just an empty tux for her to marry by her deadline? Youll never know because she has put it out there that her goal is to simply be married with kids by 25. She may not actually want to marry you.

I hate bishes like this and always avoided them and never regretted dumping their ass
 
Completely agree with with SD ^^^ hate chicks with a stupid "master plan" I love seing them with that 25 year time line and they're 23-24 and dont even have a boyfriend, they are SO insane

Plunk, didn't she get pissy at the idea of a prenup, most women get pissed.... but I guess it depends on the terms.
 
She's 22 I'm 25. Been together for 2 1/2 years. Had a 5 month break up last winter/spring. Living together for like 3 weeks. She wants to be settled down w kids at 25. That's typically how it goes in her family

If you look up the recipe for divorce, this is it!

Way too young! Life is not the same as it was 30 yrs ago and prior.
People respected marriage, today a divorce is as common a the cold!
People change so much in their 30's, I say later 30's + is a time to consider it.
Get to know yourself first
My parents are the only people I know who are still married out of mostly everyone I know.
 
Deets, rob

The problem with divorces is when it comes to "equitable" (or even worse, "equal") distribution of marital assets. The laws are quick to make things marital assets (i.e. salaries, properties, investment accounts).

My premarital agreement is simple in that it spells-out that assets are to be kept separate. So I have a checking account as does she. I own property as does she -- but it's all separate. There is a procedure for transitioning property between us and we have certain holdings that are explicitly marital (i.e. the joint checking account we opened to pay day-to-day expenses). But in the absence of an explicit transaction that turns a piece of separately-owned property into a marital asset, it will remain separate under all circumstances (divorce, death, etc. etc.).

It's a fairly short agreement, but it has been upheld in Tennessee many times.
 
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