I like bigger guys. I like a man to look like a man, big and strong but I don't know how much I can really appreciate the big freakish look unfortunately but the right personality and I just don't care about what you want? Whatever he wants is fine with me. I don't know? I like skinnier guys too, I can do 5'6 and 150 and still be super attracted to the guy if his face is pretty. Lol. I don't really have a physical ideal I guess. A good size depends on how tall you are, but I guess if I HAD to say I would say if you are around 6ft then 200-230 is the perfect size. I guess.