How does one remedy this sucking?
I'm 30 years old and still in grad school stefka... I could have went to grad school at 23 after graduating but was so pathetic and impulsive after graduating from Creighton, that I joined Navy, and wasted really 4 years of my life, yeah sure had some adventures, but in reality I could have used that time in pursuing a phd or something, also, now due to me not wanting to go another 4 years in order to teach an emerging field that is predominant only on west coast, and somewhat on east coast and Denver as well.
I'm basically going to med school, well to basically please parents cause whole family are docs, and so the next 5 years will be more school with the outcome of me doing unorthodox psych reserach at best or teach... so yeah I suck as well, I recently ended a relationship and instead of coping, I"m being rididculous in attempting to date again, which due to advice from a friend, I will do the right thing and just abide. So I"m basically gonna be 35 before my education ends...
Moreover, last year I was comfortable being alone all the time after work and school, now I found all my free time I'm spending here, so yeah, not exactly the dalai lama either.
It doesn't matter what I think, even though in my book you are successful, if you wanna label it as something, but we both are young, and shit passess so fast, I mean things are speeding up, whatever is bothering you will pass...
And yeah, u are smart. and I don't give that compliment out easy...