Well that's it, the FOREVER relationship has ended.

[alien amp pharm]

Yep, that's right.
The girl I thought to be the perfect one turned out to be just like the rest.

She has a ton of 'guy friends' and is always making new ones and hanging out with them. She gave me the same ole "they are just friends, I love you, trust me, etc." Well here lately (since school started) she's been acting all shady. If I ever questioned anything I was labeled jealous and controlling.

Within the past couple of days she's been acting real strange. Having guys over and not answering her phone when I call, Not saying "I love you" when we get off the phone when people (guys) are around.

Then this morning she gives me the ole "I don't think we should do this anymore". She blames it on me, saying I have a problem with her being around guys and stressing her out about it. I truly did not see this coming because although it bothers me the situations she puts me in with guys, I never got upset over it.

My guess: She has been hanging around a guy and wants to start seeing him.

 

[ChefWide]

time to make a change

 

[alien amp pharm]

time to make a change

?

What kind of change? Don't date young, immature girls? I think you are right.

 

[ChefWide]

?

What kind of change? Don't date young, immature girls? I think you are right.

Good call.

 

[Y_lifter]

next !

 

[Werd]

next !

What he said....

 

[KillahBee]

Not to be a dick, maing, but I will NEVER feel bad for a person above the age of 17 that lets themself believe the fairytale and get all caught up in the hype instead of using their head to see the situation for what it is worth (a lot easier said than done for many, I know). And I am not saying you want us to feel bad for you, but Jesus, what is it about people that make them just go insane when starting a relationship and convince themselves that it is going to be so great without actually analyzing the situation the way it should be? Do they want/need love that bad?

 

[jerseyart]

Sorry bor,

but she sounds young and it could have been worse. You could have married the ditz.

Now you know why any girl that says "I only have guy friends" is not relationship material

 

[alien amp pharm]

Not to be a dick, maing, but I will NEVER feel bad for a person above the age of 17 that lets themself believe the fairytale and get all caught up in the hype instead of using their head to see the situation for what it is worth (a lot easier said than done for many, I know). And I am not saying you want us to feel bad for you, but Jesus, what is it about people that make them just go insane when starting a relationship and convince themselves that it is going to be so great without actually analyzing the situation the way it should be? Do they want/need love that bad?

Well this girl seemed different (I know you've heard that before).

We had everything in common, and I mean everything. Liked the same exact stuff and had all the qualities I was looking for.

She said it was because of me fighting with her (over guys), but I KNOW that was not the case. Something changed in her and it wasn't on my end.

I need love yes, thought I found love, but in the end it was just the same ole bullshit I've dealt with for most of my 28 years.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Now you know why any girl that says "I only have guy friends" is not relationship material

True that.
I knew what was going on here and that's why it bothered me. I just don't fabricate stuff. I can live with a girl having guy friends, but the situations she put me in/thru were a bit too much (and obvious). That's were we had our problems (which she is blaming me for).

I'd be lying if I said I didn't see this coming.