Well crap...what do I do now?

[Deleted member 33117]

Since things have been going slow in the relationship department, I had recently decided to focus on getting laid, until something works out. I've been fucking a few girls, and have a new fuck buddy (most amusing out of the group, who also happens to be fantastic in bed). Friday night, first time I slept with her, after she invited me out for a few drinks, and bought my drinks all night, we had a talk. She said she thought I was amazing in bed, and very sexy, but was not looking for a relationship right now, since she had a busy schedule with work and school. Plus she does not want to deal with the stress of getting involved with anyone right now. However, she has a very active libido, and she thought we should be regular fuck buddies for awhile to make things easier for us both in our current situations. I was game, she has some mad skills and likes to fuck for hours. SO me made an agreement to get together and fuck on any nights niether of us have made other plans for now.

Last night, after we are done, she says, "Well... you know...you are a really sweet guy, and damn good in bed... if you wanted to be more than fuck buddies I really wouldn't object." So I'm like, "I don't know... let me think on it and lets just see what happens." Since I'm not sure if I want to get involved with this girl, and we had agreed to just have casual sex.

Tonight I am in Houston, and have that funeral in Friday, so I talked to her after making some other calls, and she wants us to go out for dinner Friday night when I get home.

I'm going to sound like a total hypocrite, but I'm almost feeling like I got played into this. Its not that I am not interested in this girl, its just that I am not sure if I am or not. The sex is incredible, but do I want to get involved with her based soley on that? Shoot me some advice and perspectives here orbs. Some of you guys are pretty helpful when it comes to relationships, sex etc.

 

[jerkbox]

let fxygel hit it

 

[Buddy_Christ]

can i have cliffs notes?

 

[Deleted member 33117]

let fxygel hit it

Seriously, this girl would kill him. She is a bit too wild in bed for his first time.

 

[Dial_tone]

If you want a relationship with a girl don't screw her right away, even if it's offered.

 

[jerkbox]

Seriously, this girl would kill him.

is she a big fat person?

 

[vinylgroover]

read my 'pornstar' thread above and wax your lance by visualising yourself as me.

 

[Moderate_THIS]

I'm going to sound like a total hypocrite

You? No way

 

[Deleted member 33117]

If you want a relationship with a girl don't screw her right away, even if it's offered.

Yeah, because it starts making you think about things different. We haven't even gone out on a date. We met and exchanged numbers then a few days later (last friday) she asked me if I would like to meet her at so and so for a few drinks tonight with a few of her friends. She bought me about 10 mixed drinks, we talked, started kissing in the place and I asked her "are you ready to get out of here?" then went back to my place for mad monkey sex until noon. We had sex 7 times that night/morning.

WHen you do something like that the first time out with a girl, it totally makes you change perspectives. I was not necissarily thinking about a relationship. It was just a girl I met who hit on me, and I was in a mindset last week of "Well, these other girls seem to be playing games...fuck relationships, I'm going to get some ass this week."

 

[spongebob]

If you want a relationship with a girl don't screw her right away, even if it's offered.

love the avatar DT, thats the kind of bitch i could just tell to stand like that in the bedroom and beat off looking at it.

anyways, BBF, id just keep hitting it and let her know upfront that your really not ready for a relationship but you'll definitely keep her in the rotation, that is ofcourse she dont fuck up.