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Lestat said:
white dudes shouldn't be saying either word



why not .....if you dont say it in a derogatory or racist way



if you are white and would not say this ...THEN YOU ARE A RACIST .because you give it meaning ....


if you say anything regardless of who or what you are saying and are not trying to offend anybody (and do not get offended by the same language)

then it is OK ....if any body has a problem with the language then they are the ones with the problem




but the reality is there is a double standard
 
What's up my brother? You the shit. Actually, I call every other guy "brother" or "bro" now in real life.
 
thats tough.

i wanan say bullshit, and u know that kid is just trying to stir up trouble and was probably giving him shit and acting out and stuff, and now is tryin to act all innocent. i wanna say fuck that nigga, as an english teacher especially, incoroprating new slang and dialects into thelanguage can be exciting for students. i also wanna say fuck it cause u know if a black teacher said cracka, or if a teacher called another teacher a derka it wouldnt be dealt with nearly as harsh

but on the other hand, he is old, and even though its such a doublestandard, theres always that chance that it was said with hate and innapropriately.

either way it sucks for the teacher
 
Everyone knows that the guy wasn't being racist, he was just repeating what he hears the students saying ALL day long. Should he have said it, no. However, he shouldn't lose his job over it either.

It is a HUGE double standard though. A black guy/girl can use white slurs all day long like cracka, honky (if ur George Jefferson), white bread, opie, ghost, ect, and nobody bats an eye. Now if a white dude thows out a slur (it doesn't even have to be nigger/ah) a big deal is made out of it. What's up with the double standard?
 
Apexx said:
Everyone knows that the guy wasn't being racist, he was just repeating what he hears the students saying ALL day long. Should he have said it, no. However, he shouldn't lose his job over it either.

It is a HUGE double standard though. A black guy/girl can use white slurs all day long like cracka, honky (if ur George Jefferson), white bread, opie, ghost, ect, and nobody bats an eye. Now if a white dude thows out a slur (it doesn't even have to be nigger/ah) a big deal is made out of it. What's up with the double standard?

prob. because thats what they were called when they were slaves.
 
My girl is mixed, she hears it from me quite often. It's about the tone. I would die for her so it is acceptable and obviously not disrespectful. I'm tired of all the PC bullshit.
 
I remember that issue on one of those talk shows...

The kid in the audience was screaming about Africa and about being slaves.

The mother then jumps out of the audience and screams back "YOU WERE BORN IN NEW YORK CITY! YOU'VE NEVER BEEN A SLAVE!"

It was priceless.
 
silverbackn said:
My girl is mixed, she hears it from me quite often. It's about the tone. I would die for her so it is acceptable and obviously not disrespectful. I'm tired of all the PC bullshit.

If someone I was dating called me that, he better be prepared to restrain me or kill me. Because it won't be pretty (his race is irrelevant).
 
Apexx said:
Everyone knows that the guy wasn't being racist, he was just repeating what he hears the students saying ALL day long. Should he have said it, no. However, he shouldn't lose his job over it either.

It is a HUGE double standard though. A black guy/girl can use white slurs all day long like cracka, honky (if ur George Jefferson), white bread, opie, ghost, ect, and nobody bats an eye. Now if a white dude thows out a slur (it doesn't even have to be nigger/ah) a big deal is made out of it. What's up with the double standard?

lol, yeah cause it's the same.
 
bluepeter said:
lol, yeah cause it's the same.


Ok, besides someone dropping the "N" bomb, why isn't it the same?
I'm not saying that either race saying stupid shit like that is right, I'm just asking why it's ok for one race and not the other.
 
SublimeZM said:
find me a black guy who was a slave and ill suck his dick.

untill then, fuck those niggas


Fuck who? Better watch yourself on this one....real life karma can somehow get ya.....there`s no place in society for someone calling another cracker, nigger, nigga or whatever.......... Reality of it is, people are sensitive to it and it should be avoided by all means...It`s direspectful from either race to whomever........
 
NYC, I am saying it in a playful manner. It is never when it is heated or anything of that nature. She says racist stuff to me too, it is NEVER in a serious or degrading tone. We love each other, its different.
 
Lestat said:
white dudes shouldn't be saying either word

Out of respect the word shouldn't be said at all. No matter what race you are.
 
Apexx said:
Ok, besides someone dropping the "N" bomb, why isn't it the same?
I'm not saying that either race saying stupid shit like that is right, I'm just asking why it's ok for one race and not the other.

That's the whole point. You're trying to argue that blacks using racial slurs is the same as a white using the term nigger. It is not the same. That said, anyone that uses racial slurs regardless of colour is an ignoramus without the intellectual capacity to express themselves in a comprehensive manner.
 
Another part of it is this: As Americans how often do we sit around complaining about how bad things are in this country? Yet if someone from another country puts the U.S. down we take offense to it. SAME THING! You can talk about your own, but that doesn't mean you're gonna sit by and let someone on the outside do the same thing. If you don't get that you either don't want to or never will...probably both.
Everyone saying it's the same context when a white guy says it doesn't seem to grasp that the context CANNOT be the same unless you're black. If all you white guys called each other cracker (and the word actually had some meaning to it) I wouldn't call you that either.
 
Dial_tone said:
Another part of it is this: As Americans how often do we sit around complaining about how bad things are in this country? Yet if someone from another country puts the U.S. down we take offense to it. SAME THING! You can talk about your own, but that doesn't mean you're gonna sit by and let someone on the outside do the same thing. If you don't get that you either don't want to or never will...probably both.
Everyone saying it's the same context when a white guy says it doesn't seem to grasp that the context CANNOT be the same unless you're black. If all you white guys called each other cracker (and the word actually had some meaning to it) I wouldn't call you that either.

i agree... good post
 
Dial_tone said:
Another part of it is this: As Americans how often do we sit around complaining about how bad things are in this country? Yet if someone from another country puts the U.S. down we take offense to it. SAME THING! You can talk about your own, but that doesn't mean you're gonna sit by and let someone on the outside do the same thing. If you don't get that you either don't want to or never will...probably both.
Everyone saying it's the same context when a white guy says it doesn't seem to grasp that the context CANNOT be the same unless you're black. If all you white guys called each other cracker (and the word actually had some meaning to it) I wouldn't call you that either.

and this is why dt is the godfather of elitefitness..
 
I think it is absolutely ridiculous to let something like this piss you off when it is not said in a hateful or demeaning tone. I have had teammates who were black call me nigga. At my college they have a dorm that is strictly for athletes, I lived there for years. The majority of the people living there were black. I said it to them and they said it to me, like I said previously there was a mutual respect. It was always playful or while everyone in the room was laughing. I would be the first to knock someones teeth out who made a racist comment or called somebody a nigger in a hateful manner. I am obviously not a racist, the love of my life is half black. There are a lot of things in this life to get pissed off about, that isn't one of them. There is a time and a place for everything. My black friends call me a honky or a cracker all the time. Does that mean that I should haul off and beat their ass? Give me a break. If you're living your life in this hard ass mindset you will die young. Life is too short.
 
Phaded said:
and this is why dt is the godfather of elitefitness..

hardest workin man in the fitness chat bidness.
 
silverbackn said:
I think it is absolutely ridiculous to let something like this piss you off when it is not said in a hateful or demeaning tone. I have had teammates who were black call me nigga. At my college they have a dorm that is strictly for athletes, I lived there for years. The majority of the people living there were black. I said it to them and they said it to me, like I said previously there was a mutual respect. It was always playful or while everyone in the room was laughing. I would be the first to knock someones teeth out who made a racist comment or called somebody a nigger in a hateful manner. I am obviously not a racist, the love of my life is half black. There are a lot of things in this life to get pissed off about, that isn't one of them. There is a time and a place for everything. My black friends call me a honky or a cracker all the time. Does that mean that I should haul off and beat their ass? Give me a break. If you're living your life in this hard ass mindset you will die young. Life is too short.

If that is how you and your friends and your 1/2 black girlfriend communicate with each other . . . Cool.

I would never refer to my 100% white boyfriend as cracker. And, he would never use either term with me (or anyone for that matter). If he even slipped and said it in the "correct" tone, his sexy smirk better be quicker than my temper.

Trust me, that's not a hardass mindset, at all. Its about respect. I don't like either term (I don't care who uses it) and I hope the people in my life respect me enough to not use it around me.
 
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Tytan said:
Fuck who? Better watch yourself on this one....real life karma can somehow get ya.....there`s no place in society for someone calling another cracker, nigger, nigga or whatever.......... Reality of it is, people are sensitive to it and it should be avoided by all means...It`s direspectful from either race to whomever........
i get called shit all the time.

plus i said nigga

watch the video, there is a difference between nigger and nigga
 
It's not a big part of our relationship. We have a very deep respect for each other. It all comes down to trust. If she was bothered by me saying it occasionally then I wouldn't say it. I guess it just depends on who you are talking with. I would NEVER say it to someone who would be offended by it. I guess you would just have to know our personalities. There is nothing that pisses me off worse than racism. It's on the same level as hitting a woman or abusing a child in my book. I meant no disrepspect to you NYC, I think very highly of you. I respect your opinion and how you feel about it. I don't doubt that if someone lipped it off to my girl they would be eating through a straw for a while. I almost lit one of my friends up the other day for saying it in a loaded manner, my girl had to calm me down over the phone and say that the world is full of stupid people and to not worry about it.
 
Dial_tone said:
Apparently a teacher called a student 'n***ah instead of n***er and he still got in trouble for it...what's a white man gotta do in this world?

http://www.whas11.com/sharedcontent/VideoPlayer/videoPlayer.php?vidId=49293&catId=49

Had an english teacher in college who had to make a point of using the n word in class, while teaching "Heart of Darkness"
It was interesting hearing a white person's perspective on black folks. I think the terms were "rich dark black" ones and those "muddy" brown ones :lmao:
 
its only ok to say it when your friends with the person your saying it to... same with: fagget, fatboy, dickhead, cracker, bitch, pussy, cunt....etc...
 
bluepeter said:
lol, yeah cause it's the same.


It's exactly the same. If there's hate behind a comment, the fuggin word doesn't matter. That's why charges differ if a crime is hate related. Kill someone.. murder 2. Kill someone because they're gay... hate crime, murder 1.

Disrespect to someone because of their background, be it racial, religious, sexual preferance, etc., is unacceptable. Period. Slavery has been around for a while. It will be around for a while. Race has nothing to do with it.
 
jnevin said:
It's exactly the same. If there's hate behind a comment, the fuggin word doesn't matter. That's why charges differ if a crime is hate related. Kill someone.. murder 2. Kill someone because they're gay... hate crime, murder 1.

Disrespect to someone because of their background, be it racial, religious, sexual preferance, etc., is unacceptable. Period. Slavery has been around for a while. It will be around for a while. Race has nothing to do with it.
i agree, intent is everything
 
jnevin said:
It's exactly the same. If there's hate behind a comment, the fuggin word doesn't matter. That's why charges differ if a crime is hate related. Kill someone.. murder 2. Kill someone because they're gay... hate crime, murder 1.

Disrespect to someone because of their background, be it racial, religious, sexual preferance, etc., is unacceptable. Period. Slavery has been around for a while. It will be around for a while. Race has nothing to do with it.

Because of history, race has everything to do with it. Saying that it is exactly the same is like saying that all races have been treated equally since the beginning of time. The rest of your point, I agree with.
 
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