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Forever girl is off my IM, but she just IM'd me with "You working hard or hardly working?"
Should I even reply?
Hurry
Should I even reply?
Hurry
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As much as I hate what she's done, I can't stoop down and be mean.
alien amp pharm said:
No
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so just ignore her?
Is there harm in carrying on a friendly conversation?
Is there harm in carrying on a friendly conversation?
stop before its to late
KillahBee
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Just type this, "If you are looking for a real man, one that is strong, independent and can really give it to you with his cock, you need to look elsewhere. I have no testicles whatsoever. Not even a trace of one teste. I am hopeless. I will give you all the attention you need and let you bitch me around because I am a sopping wet vagina and have no self respect. Perhaps you should take a walk over to the local highschool so that the football team can run a train on you. Then come over to my house and I will eat you out because that's just how big of a pussy I am."
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crew9 said:
She's off my IM (deleted). If I blocked her I would still have to see her IM name everytime I logged onto Instant Messager.
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crew9 said:
No, I still haven't said a thing.
My heart is racing though.
Deep down I want to either talk casually so she can see I don't want her, or say something mean.
I think silence might be the best revenge though.
supersizeme
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jesus christ
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supersizeme said:
lol
I'm pathetic huh.
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Ok, peeps I'm calm again.
I won't reply. The way I look at it she's A) stringing me along B) wanting to chat as a friend. C) bored
Either way I'm not into it. No more getting my emotions built up only to be let down again.
I won't reply. The way I look at it she's A) stringing me along B) wanting to chat as a friend. C) bored
Either way I'm not into it. No more getting my emotions built up only to be let down again.
supersizeme
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goddamnit where's bluepeter
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slickdadd said:
I have Trillian which connects to all IM programs. My buddy I chat with is behind a work firewall and he doesn't show up as 'online' so I have to have the 'offline contacts' list shown to chat with him. Her name would show up under the offline contacts.
Besides, this kinda gives me some satisfaction by ignoring her whenever she IM's
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opioxoipo said:
Come on guys, bash him!
I think I might talk to her now.
tee hee hee
Just a little tip from someone who`s broken up a lot with women. lol. I don`t know how you left it with her, but you ALWAYS have to leave the ball in her court. Give her something to remember you by whenever she thinks about you breaking up. Even if she`s the one who broke up with you.
You say you don`t want to be just friends, so you tell her that. "I don`t want to be your friend, I want to be your lover, if you can do that, then call me." Something like that. NOW the ball`s in her court. If you don`t respond to her messages, then she`ll know why AND she`ll know what she has to do in order to change things.
As it is now, she thinks you`re just not available to talk at the moment or whatever. There`s nothing really she can hold on to from what you ended it with if you just babble back and forth with her.
Hate to see you get whipped like this P-shop boy.
You say you don`t want to be just friends, so you tell her that. "I don`t want to be your friend, I want to be your lover, if you can do that, then call me." Something like that. NOW the ball`s in her court. If you don`t respond to her messages, then she`ll know why AND she`ll know what she has to do in order to change things.
As it is now, she thinks you`re just not available to talk at the moment or whatever. There`s nothing really she can hold on to from what you ended it with if you just babble back and forth with her.
Hate to see you get whipped like this P-shop boy.
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Well I know she's just wanting to chat. Nothing more.
GL, you're right, she'll just think I'm busy doing work or something.
Perhaps I can leave my away message (which she always checks) as "When you can make up your mind then we can talk" or something.
or "Not falling for it anymore"
GL, you're right, she'll just think I'm busy doing work or something.
Perhaps I can leave my away message (which she always checks) as "When you can make up your mind then we can talk" or something.
or "Not falling for it anymore"
GoldenDelicious
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if i was you id stay in her world as it suits you, interact how it suits you, meet up when it suits you, and make out when and how it suits you
i use this technique (call it ultimate selfishness) when i am in touch with people prone to use me. i just draw a line and stick to it.
works well if youre a cold heartless bastard. very well.
i use this technique (call it ultimate selfishness) when i am in touch with people prone to use me. i just draw a line and stick to it.
works well if youre a cold heartless bastard. very well.
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Ha, I'm clever.
She loves basketball and use to play in highschool.
I put up an away message of "What's your favorite part of basketball? Probably having a rebound, huh?"
She loves basketball and use to play in highschool.
I put up an away message of "What's your favorite part of basketball? Probably having a rebound, huh?"
GoldenDelicious
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lol youre a nut, PM me her AIM thingo id love to have a chat 
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She IM'd after I put that up...
her: yeah, so if that was directed towards me...fine...just dont ever bother speaking to me again
her: have a nice life
her: yeah, so if that was directed towards me...fine...just dont ever bother speaking to me again
her: have a nice life
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her away message says "pathetic" now.
That was`nt the right thing to tell her bro. But hey, that`s what makes this world go round...
GoldenDelicious
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you stud you
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Oh shit, she's seriously owning me right now on IM
Why do I do this to myself? Somebody shoot me.
Why do I do this to myself? Somebody shoot me.
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hang on... I will when we're thru
bran987
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I cannot believe you did that.
oh god it hurts
there's just no way
everyone was here - telling you what not to do
you even asked us for advice!
why would you make a bitter comment that would make it obvious to her you are still upset about her and aren't OK.
I'm like depressed now
I will bow down to you when you reveal fxygel is your alter and you were making these threads to see how long it would take us to figure it out!
oh god it hurts
there's just no way
everyone was here - telling you what not to do
you even asked us for advice!
why would you make a bitter comment that would make it obvious to her you are still upset about her and aren't OK.
I'm like depressed nowI will bow down to you when you reveal fxygel is your alter and you were making these threads to see how long it would take us to figure it out!
supersizeme
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alien amp pharm said:
So you never removed her from your buddy list. Either that or you actually did but readded her recently. I don't know which is worse.
Seriously man...you're 28 and this 23 year old tart has your shit so pwnt that you can't even see straight. You're playing third grade games with her like who can leave the most manipulative away messages. You are my nigga, but grow up and stop acting like a pair of wet panties.
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supersizeme said:
She was and is removed...she IM'd me.
she's 20 man, get it right!
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I don't want to post this stuff up, you all will rip me apart, lol.
ok, give me a sec to hide the names....
ok, give me a sec to hide the names....
GoldenDelicious
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lol i stayed up for this aap, but i thnk itll be worth it 
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her (when she IM'd me): workin hard or hardly workin?
her (after I left that away message): yeah, so if that was directed towards me...fine...just dont ever bother speaking to me again
her: have a nice life
me: tell me I'm wrong then
me: I only added you to IM for three days and all I saw was stuff about being with Jacob
me: seems the time you didn't have for me you all the sudden seem to have for him
me: I think all I was to you was a rebound...how do you think that makes me feel? I poured my heart out to you.
her: seriously Alienap, I'm taking you off, you take me off lets just forget it
her: you werent one but I am tired of trying to tell you that
her: just forget it
me: if that's what you want. Glad I mean so much to you
her: you do mean alot to me
her: but I cant prove that to you
her: I tried to talk to you on here today and you just ignored me
her: how do you think that makes me feel
me: "but I can't prove that to you"
me: you know you could
me: that's what hurts
her: thats what I'm talking about
her: fine, I'm sorry I hurt you
her: just dont bother speaking to me anymore, you mean alot to me but I cant handle this anymore, if you cant just at least talk to me then we are going nowhere fast
her: you are getting upset over nothing
me: i'm not upset at all
her: um, you wont talk to me when I IM you, and then you put up a "rebound" away message
her: what is that supposed to say to me
me: tell me about it then. I never talk to you so what am I suppose to think when you put up "with Jacob" messages up all the time?
me: you never had that time for me
me: did you?
her: I'm sorry
her: no I didnt I told you that after the first few weeks that it would slow down
her: and it has
me: well i'm glad you finally have free time....even though we aren't able to share it now
her: yep
her: maybe it is to soon for you to talk to me
me: i give up. I don't know why we could never work our issues out .My mind has been wandering. I'm just confused.
her: no big deal, you can always just talk to me about things Alienap
her: I would rather you do that than offend me with an away message
her: well, I am sorry I truly am
her: but you said it yourself, neither of us are in any way ready to get back together, and you said you dont want to see me yet
me: see you as a friend? yeah, not what I want
her: i know
me: be honest, is that all you think you'll want?
her: no
her: if it was ALL I could have, then yes
me: lol, this may make me look pathetic, but do you even see me in your future? other than a friend
her: I'm not worried about it, I honestly dont know, it is too far for me to make that kinda call
me: too far in the future?
her: yes
me: gotcha
her: so are you dont talking to me now?
her: is that it?
me: not unless you want it to be
her: so do you still want to talk to me on here or is it too soon for you?
her: it is up to you, I am not gonna pressure you in any way
me: yes I want to talk to you on IM.....I didnt after Tuesday, but things looked bad
her: after tuesday??
me: the 'with Jacob' messages. You can get mad but it did look like I was a rebound for you until school started back
her: oh good grief
her: you werent
her: but I do hang out with him alot
her: you arent my BF and so I dont have one
*then she leaves for class
her (after I left that away message): yeah, so if that was directed towards me...fine...just dont ever bother speaking to me again
her: have a nice life
me: tell me I'm wrong then
me: I only added you to IM for three days and all I saw was stuff about being with Jacob
me: seems the time you didn't have for me you all the sudden seem to have for him
me: I think all I was to you was a rebound...how do you think that makes me feel? I poured my heart out to you.
her: seriously Alienap, I'm taking you off, you take me off lets just forget it
her: you werent one but I am tired of trying to tell you that
her: just forget it
me: if that's what you want. Glad I mean so much to you
her: you do mean alot to me
her: but I cant prove that to you
her: I tried to talk to you on here today and you just ignored me
her: how do you think that makes me feel
me: "but I can't prove that to you"
me: you know you could
me: that's what hurts
her: thats what I'm talking about
her: fine, I'm sorry I hurt you
her: just dont bother speaking to me anymore, you mean alot to me but I cant handle this anymore, if you cant just at least talk to me then we are going nowhere fast
her: you are getting upset over nothing
me: i'm not upset at all
her: um, you wont talk to me when I IM you, and then you put up a "rebound" away message
her: what is that supposed to say to me
me: tell me about it then. I never talk to you so what am I suppose to think when you put up "with Jacob" messages up all the time?
me: you never had that time for me
me: did you?
her: I'm sorry
her: no I didnt I told you that after the first few weeks that it would slow down
her: and it has
me: well i'm glad you finally have free time....even though we aren't able to share it now
her: yep
her: maybe it is to soon for you to talk to me
me: i give up. I don't know why we could never work our issues out .My mind has been wandering. I'm just confused.
her: no big deal, you can always just talk to me about things Alienap
her: I would rather you do that than offend me with an away message
her: well, I am sorry I truly am
her: but you said it yourself, neither of us are in any way ready to get back together, and you said you dont want to see me yet
me: see you as a friend? yeah, not what I want
her: i know
me: be honest, is that all you think you'll want?
her: no
her: if it was ALL I could have, then yes
me: lol, this may make me look pathetic, but do you even see me in your future? other than a friend
her: I'm not worried about it, I honestly dont know, it is too far for me to make that kinda call
me: too far in the future?
her: yes
me: gotcha
her: so are you dont talking to me now?
her: is that it?
me: not unless you want it to be
her: so do you still want to talk to me on here or is it too soon for you?
her: it is up to you, I am not gonna pressure you in any way
me: yes I want to talk to you on IM.....I didnt after Tuesday, but things looked bad
her: after tuesday??
me: the 'with Jacob' messages. You can get mad but it did look like I was a rebound for you until school started back
her: oh good grief
her: you werent
her: but I do hang out with him alot
her: you arent my BF and so I dont have one
*then she leaves for class
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Alien Amp Pharm = Owned!!!!!!!!!!
GoldenDelicious
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you dont have any sisters, do you?
bran987
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ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhahaahahaha
god
you are gonna feel so stupid about this in a few months
this is what EF is good for
if you didn't get the beating you are about to get in the next few pages of posts, you might not even be able to look back on this and see what you did to yourself.
god
you are gonna feel so stupid about this in a few months
this is what EF is good for
if you didn't get the beating you are about to get in the next few pages of posts, you might not even be able to look back on this and see what you did to yourself.
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KillahBee said:
lol @ sopping wet vagina.
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I'm actually sitting here laughing at myself after rereading all that. Man I am pathetic.
Damn Alien, that was painful to read bor.
Im not going to tell you what to do because I understand where you are at with this whole thing.
At some point your aggravation/irritation will exceed whatever immediate pseudo comfort talking to her appears to provide, and you will move on when your ready.
Good luck man, I hope for your sake that happens soon.
Im not going to tell you what to do because I understand where you are at with this whole thing.
At some point your aggravation/irritation will exceed whatever immediate pseudo comfort talking to her appears to provide, and you will move on when your ready.
Good luck man, I hope for your sake that happens soon.
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Bran987 said:
I just removed the IM screennames.
I'm glad I didn't edit because rereading it, I realize how stupid I look.
pitbullstl
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Dude..............Duuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuude...........seriously......
The only thing that needs to be said is...>SHE IS 20 FUCKING YEARS OLD........walk away. I think I lost 30 IQ points reading your IM script. Please leave this broad alone......redirect her to the JR prom, as that is where she needs to spend her time. I haven't witnessed a conversation this painful since I watched my boy get owned like this on Spring Break 94' by a stripper he was sure he was in love with.
The only thing that needs to be said is...>SHE IS 20 FUCKING YEARS OLD........walk away. I think I lost 30 IQ points reading your IM script. Please leave this broad alone......redirect her to the JR prom, as that is where she needs to spend her time. I haven't witnessed a conversation this painful since I watched my boy get owned like this on Spring Break 94' by a stripper he was sure he was in love with.
KillahBee said:
If he don't want to I can just bitch at him till he caves...
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Alien - we bitch on you a lot, but it is just cause we like you bro....
I am sure there are tons of less "playa" chicks that you would be 100% okay with.... you just need to find one...
Forge
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alien amp pharm said:
Welcome ladies and gentlemen to the friend zone, where we dispense advice, gossip, and philosophy with no promise or hope of sexual relations at any time. Your troubles are our troubles, feel free to cry, dump, or vent any problems you may be having. Please enjoy your stay, and Thank You for staying in the friend zone.
sh4dowf4lcon
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lies, all lies
Quote:
Originally Posted by alien amp pharm
her: so are you dont talking to me now?
her: is that it?
me: not unless you want it to be
her: so do you still want to talk to me on here or is it too soon for you?
her: it is up to you, I am not gonna pressure you in any way
me: yes I want to talk to you on IM.....I didnt after Tuesday, but things looked bad"
LOL You see bro? She did exactly what I told YOU to do to her. SHE PUT THE BALL IN YOUR COURT! Had you done that, you would have been golden.
Now your stuck in a ditch worse than that dude that had to cut his arm off with a pocket knife while hiking.
Originally Posted by alien amp pharm
her: so are you dont talking to me now?
her: is that it?
me: not unless you want it to be
her: so do you still want to talk to me on here or is it too soon for you?
her: it is up to you, I am not gonna pressure you in any way
me: yes I want to talk to you on IM.....I didnt after Tuesday, but things looked bad"
LOL You see bro? She did exactly what I told YOU to do to her. SHE PUT THE BALL IN YOUR COURT! Had you done that, you would have been golden.
Now your stuck in a ditch worse than that dude that had to cut his arm off with a pocket knife while hiking.
theoak01
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bro cut off contact for a while until the feelings die down,thats what I did with my ex,now Im focusing totally on this girl Im dating and actually enjoying life for the first time in a long fucking time.
also who cares if you sleep with a girl your not fucking,I sleep with the girl im dating and get none,we just like sleeping together and holding each other,feels great.
good luck with the ex my man
also who cares if you sleep with a girl your not fucking,I sleep with the girl im dating and get none,we just like sleeping together and holding each other,feels great.
good luck with the ex my man
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gonelifting said:
Yeah, but I'm not good at games.
Reading the IM and seeing how willing she is to simply "cut off ties" so easily I realize I mean nothing to her. She's feeding off my 'wanting her back'.
alien amp pharm said:
You are crazy my friend. First of all, it`s not playing games if you tell her "I don`t want to be friends, if we can be lovers call/contact me." That`s it, then you would have had what you wanted. period! No friends and the possiblity of her contacting you for MORE without ANY babble back and forth.
Also, if you told her exactly what you typed on top, I bet she comes back to you. That`s just me bro... SHE`S playing the "I don`t care" game on YOU. lmao welcome to the world bro, this is chapter one.
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tuc biscuit
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this thread sickens me, grow some balls for god's sake!
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BAWAHAHAHAHAHAHA VICTORY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I took everybody's advice into consideration especially Gonelifting's.
I just called her up on the cell and told her I was sorry for the immature away message and the conversation ....that I never 'talked' good on IM.
I told her I do not want to be friends and I'm finished talking on Instant Message for good. I said if someday she wants to be BF/GF then to call me up and we will see where we are at in life, but otherwise not to contact anymore and I won't contact her.
She said alright, but then mumbled a couple more things <---she seemed like she didn't want to get off the phone, perhaps because I just ended her little game of ego boost.
As Gonelifting says, "The ball's in her court now".
I'm actually fine with it. I don't feel sad at all.
I took everybody's advice into consideration especially Gonelifting's.
I just called her up on the cell and told her I was sorry for the immature away message and the conversation ....that I never 'talked' good on IM.
I told her I do not want to be friends and I'm finished talking on Instant Message for good. I said if someday she wants to be BF/GF then to call me up and we will see where we are at in life, but otherwise not to contact anymore and I won't contact her.
She said alright, but then mumbled a couple more things <---she seemed like she didn't want to get off the phone, perhaps because I just ended her little game of ego boost.
As Gonelifting says, "The ball's in her court now".
I'm actually fine with it. I don't feel sad at all.
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alien amp pharm said:
Just blow her off bro. I do it all the time. That's why they came up will caller id and log on names.
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Dial_tone said:
but I redeemed somewhat (if that's still possible)
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showpost.php?p=4056713&postcount=95
