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Update on the girl i liked...

fyxgel

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So folks, remember that girl that I was obsessed about and had a huge crush on, who left to go to ecuador over spring semester? (PS: I am a 20 yr old student attending a private christian college)

Well guess what, she's back already. and she's prancing around campus telling everyone about her studying abroad tales.

well maybe you guys remember about how i made the idiotic move of admitting that I liked her, inside an email that i sent her. well she responded shockingly, and implied that she just wanted to hangout with me in a 'group setting'

she didnt respond to any of my emails after that.


Now she's back. and even worse, she has some other guy who is hanging around her a lot. Yea, right now they are supposedly only friends but we all know what that really means: "they are friends, but it could very easily go somewhere"

Even worse though, this guy is supposedly smooth, kinda popular, and is going to be the student body president next year, and he also has a darker complexion and is taller than me.

well the girl I like and this guy seem to talk a fair amount one on one. Also he has more in common with her than I do, they both have the same major which is "International Relations" kind of a unique one.


ok, lets admit it, maybe in this situation i am screwed.
I'd be willing to get in better shape, get more ripped, get a six pack, if my body is what is holding me off.
but something tells me its more than that. so i probably already lost.

but what do you do when you run into stiff competition like this in the future? Is there anything you can do?
 
fyxgel said:
So folks, remember that girl that I was obsessed about and had a huge crush on, who left to go to ecuador over spring semester? (PS: I am a 20 yr old student attending a private christian college)

Well guess what, she's back already. and she's prancing around campus telling everyone about her studying abroad tales.

well maybe you guys remember about how i made the idiotic move of admitting that I liked her, inside an email that i sent her. well she responded shockingly, and implied that she just wanted to hangout with me in a 'group setting'

she didnt respond to any of my emails after that.


Now she's back. and even worse, she has some other guy who is hanging around her a lot. Yea, right now they are supposedly only friends but we all know what that really means: "they are friends, but it could very easily go somewhere"

Even worse though, this guy is supposedly smooth, kinda popular, and is going to be the student body president next year, and he also has a darker complexion and is taller than me.

well the girl I like and this guy seem to talk a fair amount one on one. Also he has more in common with her than I do, they both have the same major which is "International Relations" kind of a unique one.


ok, lets admit it, maybe in this situation i am screwed.
I'd be willing to get in better shape, get more ripped, get a six pack, if my body is what is holding me off.
but something tells me its more than that. so i probably already lost.

but what do you do when you run into stiff competition like this in the future? Is there anything you can do?


I think you already know what you did wrong. You know where your mistakes were...don't make them again.
 
You are 20 years old, fuck her and every other chic you see. Use protection of course. If she is going to play games then drop her like a bad habit.
 
any guy (almost) can get any girl (almost). it comes down to game, mostly.

read the elite players guide or similar to get some tips if you have to, but you can work it. your biggest mistake will be liking her too much, and worse, letting it show

cheers, and good luck
 
GoldenDelicious said:
any guy (almost) can get any girl (almost). it comes down to game, mostly.



Then reply to my "How can I get layed" thread.
 
You need to find a way to oust this guy, you know embarrass him, or set him up to take a fall, but the chicky cant know that your responsible, because then she will hate you because she likes him, plant something in his room if possible, or take some condoms and put some spermy looking stuff in them, and find his car, and toss them on his floor, and under his seat, otherwise do something to him, or them when they are sleeping :evil:
 
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Challenge the dude to a sword duel.

or pistols, but I`m not sure of the laws in your state.
 
fyxgel said:
well maybe you guys remember about how i made the idiotic move of admitting that I liked her, inside an email that i sent her. well she responded shockingly, and implied that she just wanted to hangout with me in a 'group setting'

she didnt respond to any of my emails after that.


?Now she's back. and even worse, she has some other guy who is hanging around her a lot. Yea, right now they are supposedly only friends but we all know what that really means: "they are friends, but it could very easily go somewhere"


wow, if a female ever said she only wanted to hangout in a group setting my pride would not permit me to ever talk to her again.....from those three statements i have posted above..that sad truth is you have ZERO chance...move on.
 
dude
there are thousands of chicas around
she just may not be interested
dont get all psycho and stalk her and stuff
join an intramural team or sumthin, easiest way to meet people
 
yeah bro I think you are coming on too strong and scaring chics off....

d3track had a good idea w/ intramurals....clubs, whatever. it's a great way to meet people
 
NJjuice22 said:
wow, if a female ever said she only wanted to hangout in a group setting my pride would not permit me to ever talk to her again.....from those three statements i have posted above..that sad truth is you have ZERO chance...move on.

Im going to have to agree with this. Sad that such strong emotions like love are tangled with such a manipulation-ridden, shame filled, immature and hard to understand form of interpersonal interaction known as 'romance'. Its stupid, like giving guns to retards or something.

I would just move on, take your pride because i dont think this girl takes you seriously and probably won't anytime in the future. Over time you will forget her (dont know if thats good or bad though).
 
i can't even respond


shocking
 
so much time you're wasting - do you ever try the things you ask about? try acting on instinct, just to see what happens :o

and, about that bizzo, if she's taken she's taken lay off, find another lay :wilted:
 
dude, she told you that she's not interested. count your losses and move on. you're just wasting your time at this point.
 
don't be an idiot. Your chances are ZERO (like njjuice said). Cut your loss, and move on. It isn't hard. I always thought it was a stupid phrase, but I have come to terms and now understand that it is true as day and night..."the best way to get over someone is to get under someone."

Also, I have found that you must always be in control. Don't treat a girl like shit, but treat her like she is lucky to be out w/ you. I gave my heart to a girl once, and she walked all over it. Love is overrated...sex is NOT! Enjoy life, you're young.
 
Son, you need to pray...can't you meet any chics at church? I always thought that was the secret stash spot of virgin girlies...
 
you will get better with girls if you keep going.. I think you are just about 7 years behind the curve and maybe didn't date anyone through junior high or high school.. listen to the other people.. going after this girl is more likely to get your ass beat than anything else.. she has less than zero interest.. more like negative. move on to the next target and start with a clean slate!
 
That took balls man. Enjoy your college time. Don't get wrapped up in a relationship. Party...get laid....Party...get laid...etc
 
fyxgel said:
here's a pic for all the curious people:
note: its a directory picture, not that good if you ask me.

The hottie who used to work at dairy queen that I had been into for awhile

Shes not hot. You're not ugly. I see couples who look somewhat like the two of you all the time at college. Didnt you think you were ugly or was that someone else? Its good that you're trying to work your way beyond this, hopefully you wont let the insults slow you down. But overall my hopes aren't up much.
 
nordstrom said:
Shes not hot. You're not ugly. I see couples who look somewhat like the two of you all the time at college. Didnt you think you were ugly or was that someone else? Its good that you're trying to work your way beyond this, hopefully you wont let the insults slow you down. But overall my hopes aren't up much.

sublimeZM is the guy who thinks he's so ugly and fat
 
Guys don't tear into the guy. Remember this is p60 who had all sorts of self esteem probs a while back. He doesn't need to go back to that point again
 
private Christian college? I feel bad for you man....
 
fyxgel said:
oh, and since you guys are so darn curious, here is a picture of me:

me

that takes guts to post pics.....that was really cool of you. you look fine... i don't know if you are looking for a change or what to get her attention, but simple things to maybe boost the ol' confidence could be some contacts and your hair would look really cute spiked up a little bit...just dont' go overboard w/the gel

and the girl is a cutie, good luck as always :)

and btw: Never say the word prancing again....ecspecially around her :)
 
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