Update on the girl I am into

[fistfullofsteel]

My guess is that they are going to have sex through out the whole trip especially after you not giving her any. Then she is going to get pregnant and you are going to make a thread crying about it.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

One way or another? Brother, cheap motel rooms lead people to do all the sleazy things you can imagine. Shell be pounded nine ways to sunday until her teeth bite clean through the pillow. Sorry, thats just the way life goes.

 

[Outtlaw]

10 days on a road trip, things will happen unless:


Neither are attracted to each other
or the guy is GAY......

So if they are sharing same room, chances are they will be hooking up some way or another. Sorry man, might want to hit it or get some before she takes off......

Even if the guy isnt gay, it doesnt mean anything is going to happen. This girl has been hanging out with Ian for around 10days now, every night till 4-5am and nothing was happening all that time till now. Any girl thats gonna hang around like that is clearly hooked on the guy. I dont think you´ll have much to worry about.

 

[confusedmushie]

Even if the guy isnt gay, it doesnt mean anything is going to happen. This girl has been hanging out with Ian for around 10days now, every night till 4-5am and nothing was happening all that time till now. Any girl thats gonna hang around like that is clearly hooked on the guy. I dont think you´ll have much to worry about.

Outlaw,

Thanks a lot man. Seems there are only a few people that can actually say something without being negative. This guy has been her best friend for years and years now. I am not sure what history they have, and frankly, I don't really care.

Do I care that she's going on the trip with a guy, well, the truth is, YES, I do. There's nothing that I am able to do. We are not commited, there's just a mutural attraction between the two of us. What kind of a man would I be to ask her not to go, when, #1, we are not commited in anyway, #2, the trip has been planned for month now before I met her.

I have a whole bunch of doubts, main reason is because I am very paranoid about a lot of things. But when I do sit down and think about it, it's been almost 2 weeks since we started to hang around each other. Out of the 2 weeks, there's only been like 2 days where we have not been together till the sun came up. No sex, no kiss, nothing, just pure talk. At times, I think she might have even been bored, as I have, but it was just so great being in her presence.

So, when I do think about it, if she's a trashy type of girl, she'd be long gone. If she wanted just some casual sex, she'd moved on by now. But all that has not happened, in fact, it has just been getting better as time goes on.

One bad thing is that I can't really read her. I am normally really good at reading people, but not with her.

Ian

 

[confusedmushie]

My guess is that they are going to have sex through out the whole trip especially after you not giving her any. Then she is going to get pregnant and you are going to make a thread crying about it.

hahahaha, that would really suck. I don't know whether I'd be crying or not, I think I'd actually be thanking god that I didn't get more involved with a girl like that.

Ian

 

[confusedmushie]

Best example of a gay guy who hasnt come out of the closet ever.

Hmmmm......

I've had funny feelings about guys lately....wonder if you are right. I have to sleep on this one!!!! LMAO.

Don't think I am gay, if this shit gets anymore complicated, I just very well might turn gay. But it's all good right now.

Ian

 

[confusedmushie]

Forget her bro. Ask yourself this, if you get seriously involved with her and she still wants to go on trips with her "best guy friend", will you be able handle that? Should you be able to handle that? I wouldnt, nor shouldnt expect anyone to handle that sort of disrespect, so cut her off now why the pain is still nothing.

Thanks for the suggestion. One thing you do have to understand is that we are not in a relationship yet. I would love to have one with her, but it's just not at that stage yet.

Handling her going on a trip with her best friend is something I am totally against. I hate the fact that she is. There's nothing I can do. She's not 'mine' to control. Again, if she indeed feels anything for me, she won't do what we are thinking. And if she does, then, you know what, it's her lose, not mine. I'd just be disappointed more then anything, but that's it. She knows how i feel and with that in mind, she has the choice to do what she pleases. If she wants a commited, stable, loving, and romantic relationship, I am here. If she's not ready for one, then she's not the person for me, cuz that's what I am looking for.

Ian

 

[confusedmushie]

Hey Cutie!!

I'm proud of you! Good job! She's a really lucky girl. Hope she deserves you! Don't worry bout the road trip. My sister's best friend is a guy and guess what, he's gay. Even if her friend isn't gay, I wouldn't worry. If she screws around then she is trash. Your doing just fine!!! Trust me, if she is a good, respectable girl she appreciates it. Personally, if I was hanging out with a guy that I was really into and he was constantly trying to jump my bones I would lose interest real fast. It has happened before. The guy I was seeing before my husband was always trying to grab my ass. It got really annoying after awhile. He was a nice guy and I gave him like 2 more tries to straighten up, but he just wouldn't stop. He would put his hand down at the last minute before I sat, so that he could cop a feel. It got old, really fast.

Keep us posted!! Another thing. If while she is gone something else comes along, go for it! You are not engaged and are not even commited to eachother yet. Don't sell yourself short.

J

Hey Sweetie!

I love to hear from you, always brightens my day to read something you've put up on the boards.

Seems the majority of people here are just into the whole sex part and that's it. Hmmm, if that's what I want, I'd go to a club, I wouldn't have any problems getting some scanky ass girl and take home. BUT it is not what I want.

Maybe this is all a test. A test that will let me know if she's into me or not. This whole road trip thing might just work out, whether negative or positive.

Ian

 

[confusedmushie]

Just to add, she's also a fitness buff. A life long ballet dancer and is in perfect shape. Works out a lot and is amazingly hot. She is 6'2 and I think weighs around 120 ish? Very lean, toned, and one of the greatest ass around. Wonderful personality and is the easiest gril to talk to.

On top of all that, she's unbelivably smart. In the beginning it somewhat intimidated me, but it's all good.

Ian

 

[mojokid]

Some wired ass replies. No idea what you all are talking about.

If it was just 'some' girl, I'd have no problem jumping on her right away. With someone that I'd like a little more then just a fling, I tend to be very reserved and take it real slow.

What is so wrong about that? Is sex the only thing? Hmmm, makes me wonder. Guess my ethics and beliefs are just different.

Ian

heh you say 'is sex the only thing?' yet you say that if it were
just 'some' girl you'd have no problem jumping on her right away, and then you say you guess your ethics and beliefs are just different ( in a better, more noble way ? ) heh .. not from the standpoint of that 'some' girl.