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too touchy-feely?

*ebony*

*ebony*

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i'd like some advice please. a girl i've know for few a months, very nice, warm, kind person, funny, laidback and easy to be around and its awesome spending together....but she makes me uncomfortable at times when she gets physically touchy with me, all of which could be harmless touches, fleeting caresses, and i think i'm just blowing the whole thing out of proportion in my mind anyways. i mean she could be just one of those affectionate people that are touch-feely(i'm like that sometimes too). and i'm/we are all touchy-feely with my other girlfriends all the time but from her it makes me uncomfortable and awkward, so i try not to cringe away, i don't want her to think its her, she's a great person and all. ok, i know what i'm thinking is stupid but the problem of how i feel about it still remains, so should i tell her something? like what? i don't want to insult her, or embarrass her or myself with something this dumb. it would be a lot better if she would keep her hands to herself a little more is all.
 
bigtravis said:
Is she a close talker? Does she make attempts to push her breasts against you?
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close talker, a bit yes, not overly so. and i don't think so, but there have been moments when her hand would accidentally bush the the side of my boob or something, and i'm sure its just my paranoid mind, but they seem to linger there just a second or two too long.
 
my advice is to give it a shot. start with some gentle tongue kisses. katie perry tried it and she liked it. nothing to be ashamed of. the taste of her cherry chapstick
 
Smurfy said:
youre uncomfortable b/c subconscously you're attracted to her
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lol, i considered that, and I'm pretty sure i'm 100% straight. she's just one of those people that are too much in your space when you don't feel comfortable for them to be in that space.
 
ebonycurves said:
close talker, a bit yes, not overly so. and i don't think so, but there have been moments when her hand would accidentally bush the the side of my boob or something, and i'm sure its just my paranoid mind, but they seem to linger there just a second or two too long.
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She's testing the waters. SMURFY'S right. Go for it!
 
Smurfy said:
my advice is to give it a shot. start with some gentle tongue kisses. katie perry tried it and she liked it. nothing to be ashamed of. the taste of her cherry chapstick
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not intrested in tongue kissing tha girls, boys sound more appealing. anyways this is not a gay/lesbo thread. other advice, i really don't want to screw things up over what is probably nothing.


P.S. i have kissed a girl, and i didn't like or unlike it. it was meh.
 
ebonycurves said:
not intrested in tongue kissing tha girls, boys sound more appealing. anyways this is not a gay/lesbo thread. other advice, i really don't want to screw things up over what is probably nothing.


P.S. i have kissed a girl, and i didn't like or unlike it. it was meh.
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kiss travis... I heard its like kissing a chick...
 
I'm being serious. She is testing the waters with you. To see if you'll break. She wants you to break the ice instead of her. O rto be first to question it. It makes it easier in her mind. She has a pattern at this. Everyone has a certain pattern at searching for companionship. It's human nature.
 
chris302001 said:
kiss travis... I heard its like kissing a chick...
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taste like cherry chapstick too?




bigtravis said:
I'm being serious. She is testing the waters with you. To see if you'll break. She wants you to break the ice instead of her. O rto be first to question it. It makes it easier in her mind. She has a pattern at this. Everyone has a certain pattern at searching for companionship. It's human nature.
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whoa, thats not comforting at all! wtf, maybe i'm coming off as lesbo or something, but she KNOWS i don't swing that way. can't be, okay i'm officially paranoid.
 
EnderJE said:
Why not just ask her?
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because that could potentially turn out too embarrassing, awkward, insulting experience for the both of us, or it could be enlightening and diminish all discomfort and bring everything into the open.....i don't think i want to risk anything over this.
 
grab her vag right off and make her uncomfortable. grab it and start rubbing her clit. if she likes it, u know shes a lesb, if she gets freaked out then u can pull the "now u know how i feel" card
 
stosstruppe said:
So she's physically hideous / average at best.



Come again? :confused:
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1. i don't think she is hideous, def doesn't lack attention from opposite sex.

2.we touch one another all the time, close friends.(reference to ur second question.)

3. no pics needed to assess the situation guys.

4. i'm not gonna do anything. I've been thinking and its not the touching that makes me uncomfortable, but me associating with it, her "hitting on me", otherwise i'd be pretty uncomfortable with all my girls. i like human contact just fine and she can touch all she wants, its not hurting anyone, i just need to shift my silly thoughts in a different direction.
 
I got something she can get all touchy feely with.
 
I still say that you should talk to her about it. It's not like it's going to be causing any harm or that she isn't replaceable.
 
Talk to her, but not directly, there was this girl at work that was like that, one day another touchy feely co-worker came to talk to us and then left and I started telling her hom I disliked to be touched that it was an issue I had due to the way I was raised and that I knew I had to work on it but just really disliked being touched... she got it and brought it down a notch....
 
Have a few drinks and talk it out. If she freaks, blame the booze, if she doesn't..you're gut instincts obviously weren't misplaced. And if you're both still drunk afterwards, get involved! :evil:
 
ebonycurves said:
i'd like some advice please. a girl i've know for few a months, very nice, warm, kind person, funny, laidback and easy to be around and its awesome spending together....but she makes me uncomfortable at times when she gets physically touchy with me, all of which could be harmless touches, fleeting caresses, and i think i'm just blowing the whole thing out of proportion in my mind anyways. i mean she could be just one of those affectionate people that are touch-feely(i'm like that sometimes too). and i'm/we are all touchy-feely with my other girlfriends all the time but from her it makes me uncomfortable and awkward, so i try not to cringe away, i don't want her to think its her, she's a great person and all. ok, i know what i'm thinking is stupid but the problem of how i feel about it still remains, so should i tell her something? like what? i don't want to insult her, or embarrass her or myself with something this dumb. it would be a lot better if she would keep her hands to herself a little more is all.
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I think it best to post pics of the two of you kissing.
Then we can make an informed choice.
 
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