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To call a girl...

furious

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You meet a girl and get her phone number. How long do you wait to call her, and how many times do you call her?
For me, I wait at least two days and only call once. I used to call an ungodly amount of times starting the day after we met, but as we all know, if you show too much interest in a women, she will get bored. Plus, if she doesn't return a call within a short period of time, that shows a low level of interest, and who wants to waste time on that?
Curious as to your inputs.
 
if you get a chicks number on a weekend, you shouldnt call her until after the next weekend.
 
What's the point of being with a woman if you have to use a stopwatch and a calendar to determine when you're going to call?

Call her whenever the fuck you want, and if she doesn't like it, find another.

-Warik
 
its all part of the game man. you'll realize the game in a couple years.
 
Warik said:
What's the point of being with a woman if you have to use a stopwatch and a calendar to determine when you're going to call?

Call her whenever the fuck you want, and if she doesn't like it, find another.

-Warik

You must not date much....
 
i guess it all depends also on the girl and how much she likes you also, a few times I called the next day and they liked it others not....
 
furious said:


You must not date much....

Actualy, I totally agree with Warik on this one.

Wait a week??? Why?

Stop the f*cking act. You are who you are, and doing
an "act" every single time you interact with her
is pathetic.

Call her in a day or two tops.

Why does someone always have to be in control?????

Thats exactly what DESTROYS a relationship.

Waiting a week is what a 10-year old would do......

Fonz
 
If you meet her on a weekend, I would call the following thursday to go out the friday or saturday. At that point you could ask her if she wants to hang out either Friday or Saturday. If she can't either, she is making excuses.

If you wait to long it may cool off. People meet up all the time and if she's got another weekend to go out chances are she'll meet someone else.
 
Fonz said:


Actualy, I totally agree with Warik on this one.

Wait a week??? Why?

Stop the f*cking act. You are who you are, and doing
an "act" every single time you interact with her
is pathetic.

Call her in a day or two tops.

Why does someone always have to be in control?????

Thats exactly what DESTROYS a relationship.

Waiting a week is what a 10-year old would do......

Fonz

no. a 10 year old would more than likely call the next day. everyone has their own preferences as to what to do. why call people pathetic for the way they go about dating? i also dont recall anyone saying that when they date, they put on an act every single time.
 
I say that wheneveryou do decide to call her, whenever it is. If she gives you the run around, dont bother with her and take it as her loss. Be sure she sees you out next weekend with a hot bitch!!:fro:
 
Fonz said:


Actualy, I totally agree with Warik on this one.

Wait a week??? Why?

Stop the f*cking act. You are who you are, and doing
an "act" every single time you interact with her
is pathetic.

Call her in a day or two tops.

Why does someone always have to be in control?????

Thats exactly what DESTROYS a relationship.

Waiting a week is what a 10-year old would do......

Fonz

It's not an act, bro, it's what works. From past experiances, if I call the next day, I will never see or hear from that girl again. If I wait 4-5 days, chances are she will be more receptive. If you are implying that I'm doing the 'act', you should redirect your statement to the ladies. I wish it was as simple as 'Hi, i think you are cute and would like to get to know you better. Want to hang out?' But it isn't. So i'm getting peoples input cause dating is hard mofokin work, and I need all the info I can get.
plus, I like hearing other peoples opinions.


Peace
 
Ok, you want difering opinions. I respect that.
BUT, why waste your time?

SHE gave you her phone number!! If she wasn't
interested she wouldn't have given it to you.
That simple.

I guess it depends on your environment/personality.

I don't like playing head games. I prefer brutal
honesty. Works much better.

BUT ultimately, its your life, your decision, so good luck

Fonz
 
wait three years and stalk her, but don't let her know.

then send her a letter in the mail made up entirely of letters cut from newspappers and magazines.

tell her "I know where you live"

chicks love that shit.
 
I think 2-5 days is ok. If you wait too long then she'll wonder what happened to you and just give up. If, however, you say that you are going to call at a certain time / day, please make sure you. I'm w/ Fonz, dating totally sucks and it is a complete mind game, but I personally think you are best off just being yourself. If you start acting like you are playing the game, then either you will get sick of it or she will.

The only thing I've ever asked of anyone I am interested in getting to know is that they respect me at least as a friend -- if you say you are going to call, do it. Don't fuckin lie to me and waste my time. That's a guarantee that I won't respect you as a friend and will be pretty sure you are just full of shit and have no integrity. If you aren't interested anymore, then that's fine, but be straight up about it. I respect that in people.
 
furious, you are a good man, and as such, I will give you some Grade A advice. Straight from the heart.

Beat her to death with a crowbar and fuck her sister.
 
This is what you do!!
1.Call her as soon as you get home and every 10 min from there on.
Look her number up on the internet to get her address, start doing drive by's as soon as possable( you want her to know you are interested).

2.Follow her to work so the next time you see her you can tell her how pretty she looked and what she was wearing on that day, when she asks you how you know all that just pretend you are from the psychic hotline.

3.Dig a tunnel directly under her house so you can sneak in and watch her when she is sleeping, and leave notes around the house so she starts to get paranoid.

Then when she is all freaked out , just call her up real casual like and see how she is doing.
At this point she will ask you to come over, and you will probably get laid.(if your not in Jail)
 
I COMPLETELY AGREE WITH FONZIE ON THIS ONE. STOP TRYING TO PLEASE EVERYONE FELLAS...JUST BE WHO YOU ARE. IF SHE DONT LIKE IT...ANOTHER GIRL WILL
 
>>>>>>

I'd just like to point out that if women were not generally stupid this wouldn't be an issue.
 
For me you got to look at the days,


Sunday night around 9 great time to call...people are always home, not looking foward to monday and work, they will usally love a call from a new guy.

Monday night maby, but it is football night, and Mondays can suck for most so she might be in a bad mood.

Don't like Tues that much, but a call to set up weekend plans is good because it will give her and you enough time to set up a date night.

Weds hump day, I love weds plus you can smell the weekend, good night to call.


Thur. bad night in my mind, some peole go out, good night of t.v. a little late to make weekend plans.

Fri. haha never, call on Fri. night

Sat. same as Fri.



:rolleyes:
 
Warik said:
What's the point of being with a woman if you have to use a stopwatch and a calendar to determine when you're going to call?

Call her whenever the fuck you want, and if she doesn't like it, find another.

-Warik

agree I would call the day after, and if she doesnt give a shit about you then fuck it ! Whats the point of waiting a week ?
 
whenever you do end up talking to her - be sure to ask her if she is still "as fat and sweaty as you remember her"

again, chicks dig that shit
 
Warik said:
What's the point of being with a woman if you have to use a stopwatch and a calendar to determine when you're going to call?

Call her whenever the fuck you want, and if she doesn't like it, find another.

-Warik


well if the girl wants to play games then she is not worth it.. i agree with warik, be yourself and if you need to play a game to get her to like you then what makes you think she is going to ever like you????

peace
 
bbwahahahaha

LMAO at HS, SG and frackal

yup


this wouldnt even be an issue with me unless some women werent so like they are. generally i dont give two hoots, but if you can tell shes the type of girl who likes to mindfuck you, then 2-3 days. screw a week.

generally ill just call. i suppose the same applies to women who meet a guy whos like that.
 
I'd just like to point out that if women were not generally stupid this wouldn't be an issue.

Frackel -

I want to respect your opinion as a male of the species and also as someone who I have seen go through some emotional situations these last few months, but I really take exception to your statement. I think its a cop-out and the sign of someone who is both immature and doesn't want to take the time to consider why people do the things that they do.

The reality is that you are fairly young, as and such I will be lenient in my judging of you by your statements. But seriously, I think the issue is that both men & women have been "conditioned" by society to act or react certain ways to this game we call dating. Additionally there is a level of maturity to be considered as well as each person's ability to honestly ask themselves if they are coming across clearly and not with mixed signals and also that their own emotions are not allowing them to consider the feelings or situations of the other person.

I think its been pretty well established that younger girls are not necessarily clear on what they want or expect from a dating situation, because they are getting confusing signals from society as to how they should act or they are rebelling against these signals. This is where both being in male-dominated society as well as being immature can make it really hard to be sure of what exactly is the correct way to respond. Also consider the nature of women in general - they are not stupid - but they will have a tendency to want to look for someone who has those characteristics of being a strong person who could take care of them.

For men, I think it is equally obvious that men do tend to be more concerned with the sex aspect ("tap dat ass") but also to maybe put a lot of emphasis on immediate emotions and not the long run. E.g. "I love her" -- but only been dating for a couple months. But she's not ready to commit because she has to balance the above mentioned uncertainties of what society dictates, as well as also having to probably get established in a career, etc.

I guess we spend forever discussing the generaly tendencies of both men & women due to age, social expectations, etc etc etc. But the point I'm trying to get to is that making generalizations like "girls are stupid" doesn't accomplish anything when you get down to dealing with individuals. Each person should be treated with the respect you would give to anyone you know (until they have demonstrated otherwise), and be straight up -- if you ask for a phone number and do get it, then make some sort of commitment such as "Can I call you at x time / day" or "When is a good time to call?" if you intend to call. Then do it. If you choose to leave it at "I"ll call you sometime", then its just been left open and then it does become an uncertain thing.

OK I'm off my soap box.

Obviously I just really hate when people make generalizations like that.
 
well I dont know about where you guys live but in LA you dont even have to ask for the number if you are sexy and got game, you can just ask to fuck on the spot, and she will give you the number........but hell when you meet all you have to do is say when do you want to hook up, and they will say call me on such and such day.......guys you dont know how much coochie your missin out on in los angeles, its all over!
 
CN1 said:
well I dont know about where you guys live but in LA you dont even have to ask for the number if you are sexy and got game, you can just ask to fuck on the spot, and she will give you the number........but hell when you meet all you have to do is say when do you want to hook up, and they will say call me on such and such day.......guys you dont know how much coochie your missin out on in los angeles, its all over!

the kinds of girls you can fuck on the spot are not the type that you want to call later. you just fuck those chicks and forget about them. i also doubt that anyone wants any of that nasty compton pussy that your getting.
 
hey shitbags......your stupid..........I am in a relationship, and plus what would you know about any pussy in LA...........compton, wherever, the women are fine........and choclate as hell!!!!!
 
CN1 said:
hey shitbags......your stupid..........I am in a relationship, and plus what would you know about any pussy in LA...........compton, wherever, the women are fine........and choclate as hell!!!!!

you really would fuck anything with a pussy.
 
furious said:
You must not date much....

You are correct.

In the past 3 years, I've tried dating probably 3 or 4 girls total. Few? Yes... but why is this relevant? It's relevant because they were all catastrophes. Coincidentally, I lived on other people's advice in that time.

However, now, with my girlfriend, I have received and acted upon roughly 0% of any advice I've received. Result? With her and very happy.

Point: Do whatever the fuck you want cuz if you're going to have to sit and ponder about what time to call her then you're doomed before even beginning.

-Warik
 
Sassy:


I know..honestly, alot of my anti-women posts are done in partial jest. I'm old/wise/mature/immature/crazy/smart enough to know that gross generalizations are never accurate.

I guess lately I've seen alot of males getting their hearts broken by women who seem to be ruled by their flaky ever-changing estrogen levels...

I'm not saying that men aren't just as bad maybe in their own ways.


I will just have to rephrase my comment. My orginal comment was, 'women are generally stupid.' The better way to put that would be, many woman are generally stupid.

What can be said for someone who:

-Like men who treat them like shit, bitch about men who treat them like shit, yet leave the 'good men' for these same assholes.

-Must be 'balanced' in the dating game, you have to constantly play games to keep them interested, while you cannot show your full interest or they will become 'bored' with you.

-When you have an easier time of getting a woman by wearing a wedding ring, simply for the reason that you belong to another, and it becomes a self-justification for the woman by attempting to steal the married man away.

-Ever seen the Tao Of Steve? Very good dating-advice movie. Basically says, you have to show no interest in the woman, and because of that, she'll more or less want to sleep with you. And it's true.

-Is so flaky due to their emotions and whatever other issues that not even THEY know what they want. This is also an extremely common and undeniable fact.

- Many men are after sex yes, but it is the woman who controls when the man has sex. Women use this to gain money, power, status, favors, etc... Which sex is more deviant?

-SOME women expect equal rights as men, including sexual, political, buisness, etc...but if that's the case, then why are there woman-only gyms? Why are men in general still paying for dates?

I could continue.

I'm fully aware that just like everything in life, there are always exceptions to the norm.

I am also aware that men have their own categories of faults, but we are discussing women at the moment.

I honestly feel that in general, men are more likely to KNOW what they want, and be driven normally by less devious intents then women. Reason is, once a man has had sex with a woman, once she has become his girlfriend, if he wishes to continue that relationship with her, it is usually for basically pure reasons.

Women on the other hand, as stated above, are commonly found to date men for their wallets, their status, favors, to make an 'ex' jealous, for comfort, etc...

I DON'T hate all women, and this post has nothing to do with kartchick either, these are traits I've observed from MANY, MANY women...

I also honestly feel that women in general are at LEAST as likely to cheat on their mates as men are, especially now days.

Anyway, to restate:

Women are wonderful creatures, they can be beautiful, kind, caring, and honest.

They can also be devious, cruel, manipulative, and downright EVIL.

The women on this board recieve plenty of postive attention from the men, in fact, they get TONS of it.

I'm letting out a bit of pent up irritation at the fallacies of SOME women.

Everything I said here above is true for a great many of the female gender, I suppose I should not generalize so much, but it's kind of hard to when it's what you see 85+% of the time.

My apologies if I offended you Sassy, but I am neither immature nor inconsiderate. Ask kartchick how well I treat women I care about.
 
Warik said:

Point: Do whatever the fuck you want cuz if you're going to have to sit and ponder about what time to call her then you're doomed before even beginning.

-Warik



I don't sit and ponder, I just wanted to hear some opinions. It's called being open-minded to new ideas.
I respect everyone's reply to this thread.


Satanic Goatslayer:" Beat her to death with a crowbar and fuck her sister"

Hmmm, at the same time? THAT would be kinky:D
 
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