I would ask that this thread not be deleted.
Having just read another inaccurate comment by another member in regards to my marital situation, I'm going to address this shit once and for all, and not let it fade into oblivion along with my presence here.
This is to Destroyer1986, AWittyUserName, Galaxy, Mr. Db, and to any other person who thinks they have a right to my personal life. I've let your comments more often than not slide, allowing you to run with what you thought were your clever little posts about my marital situation, and the details involving my separation and the daughter I share with thebigdawg. The fact that you feel the need to respond to my posts, which most of the time had nothing to with my personal life, with paraphrased excerpts from what my husband posted before I came here, makes you more pathetic than you could possibly imagine.
Since you feel the need to constantly delve into my personal life, send me PMs trying to bully me about what you THINK you know about my situation, and make yourselves the authority on my life, allow me to clarify a few things, but we need to first pretend for a few minutes that it's any of your business.
As I stated to you in a pm, Mr. Db…before you go shooting your mouth making statements, be educated with the right information, for there never has been any Divorce Court proceedings involving myself and my husband. Any proceeding that was previously initiated had long since been withdrawn, and the further fact remains that the bigdawg has had regular access to our daughter. So even if you in fact knew what the hell you were talking about, that still doesn’t give you or any of you others the right to post up a judgment, when you know fuck all about the dynamics from the start.
How I choose to address the matters surrounding the daughter that I am the primary caregiver for, and if in fact that would involve the input of the Family Court, then that is my prerogative. Often this occurs when people can’t come to an agreement regarding access, support, and custody. Just because one of the parties doesn’t feel that there is an issue to be addressed, doesn’t mean that the issue ceases to exist; and furthermore, even though I don’t owe you, a bunch of arrogant strangers, any kind of explanation regarding MY CHILD, I’ll go as far to say that after experiencing my side of the relationship, already having the issues with my husband that I had, and then stumbling upon a website which bombarded me with pornographic pics and talk about substances, with my baby daughter’s picture spattered all over the place, with one post making reference to seeing her in “hot pants”, and posts by several members here advising my husband to use veiled threats against me…you can DAMN STRAIGHT believe at that time I felt threatened enough to forward that information to my attorney.
Welcome to a set of circumstances, where there are so many variables that you have no idea about, that you are in no position to judge. The fact that my husband chose to relate the details in a manner which I feel was selective, evasive, and peppered with half-truths, was his unfortunate decision. I can tell you this, that in addition to the other fiascos that came from this site, it has created a resentment in the marriage that has helped to hinder any progress toward reconciliation that was considered and attempted.
Let me share another fact for you. I didn’t come to this site with my husband after all the drama because things were hunky dory, and we were going to be together here in spirit and fun. I came here because I did not trust my husband, after breezing through pages and pages of past posts choking on his suggestive and flirtatious manner, a manner that he himself admitted to being inappropriate, but I always have found myself wondering if he was contrite because he truly believed it was wrong, or because he got caught. My mistake to myself and my self-respect was that I did not make a different decision instead of thinking that coming to this place could have erased what had been done.
Sorry to inform you that the few minutes are up. It’s none of your business. Not sure if that satisfies you vultures, but you’re going to have to live with it. I’m quite certain you will find another member’s life to appoint yourselves the authority on, for I have no desire to pay a dime to belong to any place which houses so many desperate people.
Now with that said…who wants Karma?
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