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This is just plain crazy sh@t.

http://www.phillymag.com/articles/pretty_babies/page1


By Carrie Denny

Page 1 of 6

Melanie Engle was trying to just pluck the stray hairs here and there. She was trying to deliver an age-appropriate eyebrow wax to her client. It was hard, though, because there was a foot tapping next to her, and a voice shouting in her ear: “No! Not like that — like a supermodel’s. I want them arched.”

After years in the beauty biz, Engle had seen her share of crazy ladies demanding perfect, Glamour-cover-worthy brows. But this Crazy Lady wasn’t talking about her own brows. The brows in question belonged to Crazy Lady’s daughter. Who was eight.

After sweating through the kid’s eyebrow wax, Engle, today an aesthetician at the Adolf Biecker Salon/Spa outposts in the Rittenhouse Hotel and Strafford — and, it should be noted, one of the most sought-after eyebrow specialists in the region — was directed to give her pint-size client a … bikini wax.

Engle was, predictably, extremely uncomfortable with the idea. But she sent the girl next door to the spa to have it done anyway. “It was clear that this girl was getting a bikini wax no matter what,” she says. “Better for her that we did it, instead of her mother dragging her off somewhere else to get it done.”

Engle is sharing this tale with me one afternoon over my own eyebrow session, after I’ve remarked on another young girl — no more than 10 or 11 years old — *sitting nearby, thumbing through a magazine and obviously waiting for some sort of spa service. As Engle talks, my head floods with images of breaking this poor young munchkin out of the clutches of her surely nipped-and-tucked mother, to let her grow old and hairy under my prudish wing. “But … there’s nothing there, right?” I ask Engle. “I mean, at eight? Am I forgetting something?”

“Nope,” she says. “There’s not. Doesn’t matter. That’s when the mothers are starting them these days.”
 
8and20 said:
not seeing the issue with the brows other than the pain


There are 6 pages to the article....and they are talking about preteens.
 
i didnt read the whole thing.

i dont have kids much less pre-teen girls. it is not like they are asking for a tattoo. good for them if they want to look good.

BlueBird said:
There are 6 pages to the article....and they are talking about preteens.
 
8and20 said:
i didnt read the whole thing.

i dont have kids much less pre-teen girls. it is not like they are asking for a tattoo. good for them if they want to look good.


Dude. The little girl is 8.

She doesn't need anything plucked, waxed or shaved.

The mom does need a beating though.
 
8and20 said:
i didnt read the whole thing.

i dont have kids much less pre-teen girls. it is not like they are asking for a tattoo. good for them if they want to look good.


LoL, you're missing the point of the article if you've not read it, and I'm not going to encapsulate for someone not willing to spend a few minutes to read it. Point is, some Mothers are allowing 8, 9, 10 years olds to undergo procedures such as microdermabrasion, etc....oh crap I encapsulated.
 
mountain muscle said:
The mom does need a beating though.

Agreed, and in tandem with a brazilian bikini wax while she is still broken out from a previous razor rash. :evil:
 
lol....i wanted your summary. bikini wax and advanced procedures such as mircodermabrasion i could understand not allowing. but i am ok with waxing an eyebrow or plucking.

BlueBird said:
LoL, you're missing the point of the article if you've not read it, and I'm not going to encapsulate for someone not willing to spend a few minutes to read it. Point is, some Mothers are allowing 8, 9, 10 years olds to undergo procedures such as microdermabrasion, etc....oh crap I encapsulated.
 
What about the 16-year-olds getting boob jobs? A lot of girls aren't even done growing by 16. Granted, I stopped growing at 12, but I know girls that didnt get boobs (real boobs) until they were 19. Some people develop later than others.

I had a fucked up image about what was "acceptable" at an early age just from listening to my mother and aunts talk. I can't even imagine how fucked in the head I would be if they were actually pushing these ideals on me when I was 8.

I think this is the best part of the article:

I do think, in some ways, this started as mothers and daughters spending time together, maybe getting their nails painted — but then it morphed into something else,” Hillman says. “A lot of times, these girls’ mothers have unresolved issues of their own — even perhaps an unresolved eating disorder — and are taking control over making some aspect of their daughter perfect. And then these issues transcend.” As beauty treatments become a habit, kids start to think this magazine-cover ideal is normal — and so is being pampered all the time. “Now, kids are asking for this stuff. It’s like a way of coping, an external support system,” Hillman says. “And it’s a huge problem.”

The Phoenix’s Keating, who sees nine-year-olds in her spa on a regular basis, says she’d refuse any spa-going request by her own nine-year-old daughter, save for nail-painting as a treat. Klein takes her almost-12-year-old daughter into spas for the occasional cleansing facial (“Good skin care is a habit, and I’d like her to learn that habit early”), but draws the line at other spa services (mommy-daughter manis excluded). “She has her whole life to do what she wants,” she says. “I want her to make those decisions about her body for herself, when she’s an adult. Plus, I know so many girls who go into debt in college trying to keep up with all of this — the spa treatments, the nice clothes. They feel like all this superficial B.S. is so important.”
 
Stefka said:
What about the 16-year-olds getting boob jobs? A lot of girls aren't even done growing by 16. Granted, I stopped growing at 12, but I know girls that didnt get boobs (real boobs) until they were 19. Some people develop later than others.

Exactly, some girls aren't fully, physically developed at age 16. Personally, If I were a mother, I wouldn't want any elective, invasive procedure done on my child.

I had a fucked up image about what was "acceptable" at an early age just from listening to my mother and aunts talk. I can't even imagine how fucked in the head I would be if they were actually pushing these ideals on me when I was 8.

Yup, and it will always boil down to what is transitorily fashionable. Studies on what is considered 'classic beauty' are far from conclusive and subjective in nature...so what anyone in any time period believes is perfect, *it*will always be inconsistent with the next generation's ideal.

No wonder there's so many neurotic young kids out there. :(
 
BlueBird said:
I don't even think I shaved my legs until about that age.
I was around that age, not to far from it. Still to this day have not had a bikini wax though.
 
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