Those of you who ARE the/HAVE the piece-o-sheet ex....

[habitualhealth]

Looking in retrospect....knowing everything you know to date about your ex; be it the father/mother of your child, the crazy ho that played you for a fool and made out with your cash, or the dood that beat the crap out of you and slept with half of the city.....whatever made them an ex.

If you could go back to the moment of decision.....would you choose to walk away?

HONESTY.

oh yeah....explain your response. i'm nosey.

 

[pintoca]

duh

they are an ex for a reason, of course that if you threw their asses away now, if you knew all that info before you'd have never hooked up in the first place

unless you are retarded or masochistic or aap

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or Frisky

 

[Frisky]

I would do it all over again, but only because it gave me two beautiful children. The end result would still be the same but I would walk that walk just to have my babies in my life.

 

[habitualhealth]

duh

they are an ex for a reason, of course that if you threw their asses away now, if you knew all that info before you'd have never hooked up in the first place

unless you are retarded or masochistic or aap

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or Frisky

Don't "duh" me you retard. People with half a brain tend to learn....gasp....lessons in life from certain situations like that. Others, as we've all witnessed on this site tend to crumble and revel in their own misery instead of making change for the better.

My guess is you dont have a child with an ex? Duh.

 

[patsfan1379]

While I enjoyed the time together, I wish I did not waste all the time for nothing.

 

[jh1]

Looking in retrospect....knowing everything you know to date about your ex; be it the father/mother of your child, the crazy ho that played you for a fool and made out with your cash, or the dood that beat the crap out of you and slept with half of the city.....whatever made them an ex.

If you could go back to the moment of decision.....would you choose to walk away?

HONESTY.

oh yeah....explain your response. i'm nosey.

If that is you in your avatar, and you were my ex, I'd come running the fuck back to you pronto.

I am sorry for what I did.

 

[Smurfy]

Looking back, I realize how poor my judgment was and what a mistake I made by choosing to be involved with someone who was less than par (way less). He may be a pitiful human being and poor excuse for an adult, but I'm the one who chose to be with him, so I take blame for my part in that. That was a poor choice I made.

Here's to making better choices! *cheers*

 

[habitualhealth]

While I enjoyed the time together, I wish I did not waste all the time for nothing.

That's probably the hardest thing to reason with...knowing you'll never get that time back. Not having anything to show for it.

(Don't misinterpret me....I have the most amaaaaaaazing 5 year old in the world....no really........everrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.....in the world.....really.)

 

[pintoca]

Don't "duh" me you retard. People with half a brain tend to learn....gasp....lessons in life from certain situations like that. Others, as we've all witnessed on this site tend to crumble and revel in their own misery instead of making change for the better.

My guess is you dont have a child with an ex? Duh.

If I understood your question correctly:

I know shit about my ex. Would I do it all over again? with the same person?

If the person is my ex, and considering it was me who dropped her/his ass... why would I want to do it all over again? the only plausible reason is for the kids. Of course you couldn't have the exact same kids with somebody else, you could have OTHER kids, equally or even more awesome (kids are awesome to their parents regardless of).

So, all things taken into consideration:

You would have equally awesome kids WITH a complete marriage (non-divorced parents) which would make it an unbroken home.

so I WOULD never do it again, I would take my chances and try and give the kids an unbroken home.

so there, DUH I wouldn't do it again, WTF? You are supossed to learn from your mistakes, in doing it again with the same person you're contradicting yourself

DUH

 

[pintoca]

BTW, this thread is like the written version of the Butterfly Effect