if he understands what he did is wrong, he is probably a tortured individual.
if he doesn't, then i question his moral kernel. he must be "insane" (incapable of distinguishing right and wrong)
there is to much hate already....
i question that what she is purporting to be her motive is true... she has probably justified it to herself in this way... i think it is more than likely that being molested led to depression and weight gain... i think she gained weight as a result of molest, but not necessarily purposefully in an attempt to thwart it....