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This is what my ex told me... decipher please
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ChemWiz
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It could be the case. There is a lot going on, like me being stupid and if you've seen some of my threads you would know why. She is in law school and shes stressed the hell out so as a payback I figured I could be the friend she could count on cause she was that person for me for several years. She's on the jelous side and since the time I met her every time I go out she thinks I'm screwing someone or getting in trouble (no other possibility in her eyes). But her stress is stressing me the fuck out and I figured, well if we separate(which we already are cuz she goes to school in a diff state) it could help her relax and concentrate on school. But then she can't concentrate cuz I'm not there.
I wanted to be a good person here but I don't know if it's working. We traveled together a lot and did exciting things but unless we are together, it doesn't make sense to do that anymore. I figured I would try to destress her while shes in school and be a "friend" but if I get shit for it and she still tries to fight me about shit, fuck that.
And for a while (like 1-2 weeks) I wasn't okay about breaking up completly but I'm over it. Not a very emotional person. Apparently that drives her crazy too.
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chris302001
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Where the flip have u been?
That's nice that you want to be there for her, but it sounds like you guys have tried to be together, but it isn't working out. .
She sounds too insecure and needy. And she sounds infatuated with you, which is really unhealthy for a friendship situation.
Despite your history, I'd just let it go....
deco
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that's kinda how i see it
Basically, in her mind you have the upper hand in the breakup. You cheated (in her mind) and now you're ready to move on. She wants you pinning away, unable to function because she's no longer in your life.
It is pure ego that is motivating her now; if you give her the chance she will fuck you over like you've never imagined.
Listen to the voice of experience.
It is pure ego that is motivating her now; if you give her the chance she will fuck you over like you've never imagined.
Listen to the voice of experience.
She's so clingy and needy you have very little respect for her (which probably contributed to why you cheated on her to begin with). How can you be friends with someone you don't respect? And the whole lovers into friends doesn't work nearly 90% of the time (IRL) anyway.
Tell the girl you have enough friends and she needs to respect herself enough to want to have a better class of man in her life, i.e., not you. Might just shock her into thinking about getting her head screwed on straight
Tell the girl you have enough friends and she needs to respect herself enough to want to have a better class of man in her life, i.e., not you. Might just shock her into thinking about getting her head screwed on straight
